I get what ur saying and ur not wrong I just believe try at department store first then when comfortable then proceed to grocery store cuz those tend to be harder for success compared to regular stores like target Walmart (yes I know they have food but most cases people use food and other stuff)
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I get what ur saying and ur not wrong I just believe try at department store first then when comfortable then proceed to grocery store cuz those tend to be harder for success compared to regular stores like target Walmart (yes I know they have food but most cases people use food and other stuff)
Girl I been seeing for the past 3-4 months became distant the last few weeks & told me to move on.
The last two girls I have dated have done the same. They find me exciting the first few months then quickly get bored. I guess maybe I hangout with them too much.
Im totally single, no potentials or anyone Im talking to.
Then stop hanging out with them too much breh
U could be doing other stuff instead gym, bowling , sports , reading etc...
If make ur self too available they get rid of u in return cuz they gonna feel
Like what else does he have to offer besides always being around me
Sure if a girl is really feeling and want u around them all the time it won't be a issue both those are a dime a dozen and rare nowadays
Make her want too see u cuz u are actually busy doing something
Not cuz u playing the game
Breh after I see a girl I go bout my business and do stuff for me I don't go bothering her and asking her when can I see her again she does it instead and when she does and I already got plans I tell her the following day she can see me
Not canceling my plans I have for myself to see a girl I'm seeing
FukYaFeelings
Superstar
Update for anyone who be reading what i post.
Remember girl who was 18 i met wit uber and found out she got a kid? We still been talking and texting a lot and shyt. Then she said sum like
"u remind me of my baby daddy he did the same shyt" I said
"ion really wanna hear about your bady daddy 
" she said "nvm then" and she aint text back in a few days or answer my phone calls I'm like...
aight, whatever. U got a kid u was already not at the top of the list 
Ive met a few more girls since then..all that shyt.
Been eating and hooters talking to sum, got a few numbers.
Last year I posted about the hooters girl who ex bf popped up on this "date"(i aint spend money so its not a date for me.)
I was at hooter talking to this other waitress i been talking to a lil bit (again no money spent, so they know wassup)
Then the girl with the crazy ex showed up I was like u work here now? She said "omg fukyafeelings its been like 5 months" and gave me a hug when i was talking to the other waitress I was like 
shyt u aint text back after 3 text when we talked for our bday so i deleted ur number...she said she staying wit some nikka now so i aint wanna be disrespectful. Then I got her number again and gave her a ride back later since she take uber.
The new waitress was asked how we knew each other I said "remember i dealt with crazy waitresses before...well ya, so if u crazy lemme know
"
And yea....life funny, Always have options brass i use to be that nikka who would get obsessed with 1 girl and wouldn't worry about no other girl. Got a girl number today who was pumping gas i asked her if she needed help, she said ya i did it, blah blah, got the number
But ion feel like doing all this bs wit girls again getting to know em, dates, crazy ex, kids, I'm tryna fukk tho...
#DearDiary
Remember girl who was 18 i met wit uber and found out she got a kid? We still been talking and texting a lot and shyt. Then she said sum like
"u remind me of my baby daddy he did the same shyt" I said
"ion really wanna hear about your bady daddy " she said "nvm then" and she aint text back in a few days or answer my phone calls I'm like...aight, whatever. U got a kid u was already not at the top of the list Ive met a few more girls since then..all that shyt.
Been eating and hooters talking to sum, got a few numbers.
Last year I posted about the hooters girl who ex bf popped up on this "date"(i aint spend money so its not a date for me.)
I was at hooter talking to this other waitress i been talking to a lil bit (again no money spent, so they know wassup)
Then the girl with the crazy ex showed up I was like
u work here now? She said "omg fukyafeelings its been like 5 months" and gave me a hug when i was talking to the other waitress I was like shyt u aint text back after 3 text when we talked for our bday so i deleted ur number...she said she staying wit some nikka now so i aint wanna be disrespectful. Then I got her number again and gave her a ride back later since she take uber.The new waitress was asked how we knew each other I said "remember i dealt with crazy waitresses before...well ya, so if u crazy lemme know
"And yea....life funny, Always have options brass i use to be that nikka who would get obsessed with 1 girl and wouldn't worry about no other girl. Got a girl number today who was pumping gas i asked her if she needed help, she said ya i did it, blah blah, got the number
But ion feel like doing all this bs wit girls again getting to know em, dates, crazy ex, kids, I'm tryna fukk tho...
#DearDiary
FukYaFeelings
Superstar
Girl I been seeing for the past 3-4 months became distant the last few weeks & told me to move on.
The last two girls I have dated have done the same. They find me exciting the first few months then quickly get bored. I guess maybe I hangout with them too much.
Im totally single, no potentials or anyone Im talking to.
Ya name playa so u already know shyt but real nikka shyt right quick..
Aint no such thing as wanting to spend too much time/hangout...if they really fw u they gonna wanna hang out and make time, every time..
But always appear busy, always make it seem like u taking time out ur day to fukk with them.
been discouraged lately cause i havent found a real connection since my long term relationship ended. there was the rebound chick that lasted 6ish months. there was 3 girls after that. these women are funny. these women are beautiful. these women are full of life but i dont have a connection. i cant find someone that i wanna go out of my way for. its hard to explain.
its been a while since ive had a woman in my life that i cant get out of my mind at all hours of the day? you know what im sayin? i miss that, man. i feel as if im doomed to compare every one of them to her.
its been a while since ive had a woman in my life that i cant get out of my mind at all hours of the day? you know what im sayin? i miss that, man. i feel as if im doomed to compare every one of them to her.
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same shyt happened to me breh. Next time keep one in the holster at LEAST until yall maybe 6 months into an exclusive relationship.Girl I been seeing for the past 3-4 months became distant the last few weeks & told me to move on.
The last two girls I have dated have done the same. They find me exciting the first few months then quickly get bored. I guess maybe I hangout with them too much.
Im totally single, no potentials or anyone Im talking to.
As soon as this girl started acting funny and my senses started tingling I made it a point to see what other girls i knew were saying / keep my eye open for new prospects. The exact day shyt hit the fan I had already had a coffee set up with this chick from around the way that I met at a party about a week earlier. Short look better, is more of a treat to converse with and everything. And that was just the beginning. Since the chick pulled that shyt on me it just so happens I've been talking to better looking/cooler chicks
if something keeps happening its time you take a look at the situations and analyze how you can prevent them going forward. Maybe you're making things too easy for them. I know for example that when I get comfortable and think me and a girl are on the same page I can tend to be romantic and open up to them a bit. That's one of my problems.
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Kind of where I'm at right now too. sucks.
the main problem was that my ex chick was one of the wittiest people i knew. she was funny, she could roast you, but she was also beautiful. i guess i didnt realize how rare that combination was at the time. these women that i'm meeting have lots and lots of positive qualities but i can never connect with them on a realer level. slept with this girl last month and was gettin lots of props from my boys about pullin that but i just sat there and felt empty. it almost didnt matter that she was this beautiful woman that i "conquered" because when it was all over i didn't feel any better or different. if i never saw her again, i wouldnt even have thought twice about it. thats the problem.
im beginning to think this girl really fukked me up because im having trouble feeling anything anymore. i knew it would take awhile to recover but its taking alot longer than i had ever anticipated brehs.
nikka I feel so similar is crazy. A lot of times i'm out with a bytch it really is to stroke my ego now. Like okay you cool or w/e but if I never saw you again whatever. I never thought it would be so hard to find another dope ass connection with someone. That begs the question though if you can't find that connection any more can she? Maybe she suffering like you and if so, IDK find some schadenfreude in that lol. I'd like to have another down ass chick in my life but at this point I'm just like fukk it. I'm 26. I got a lot of time left its nbd.the main problem was that my ex chick was one of the wittiest people i knew. she was funny, she could roast you, but she was also beautiful. i guess i didnt realize how rare that combination was at the time. these women that i'm meeting have lots and lots of positive qualities but i can never connect with them on a realer level. slept with this girl last month and was gettin lots of props from my boys about pullin that but i just sat there and felt empty. it almost didnt matter that she was this beautiful woman that i "conquered" because when it was all over i didn't feel any better or different. if i never saw her again, i wouldnt even have thought twice about it. thats the problem.
im beginning to think this girl really fukked me up because im having trouble feeling anything anymore. i knew it would take awhile to recover but its taking alot longer than i had ever anticipated brehs.
i don't know if you can relate to this but the only real "pro" to this current state that i'm in is having this "i don't give a fukk" kind of invincibility with women at the moment. i don't overthink things when i'm with them or talking to them because i legitimately don't give a fukk how it ends. there's no worrying about saying the right or wrong things when you're not emotionally invested in someone. very strange. one of my homies asked me the other day if i was gunna call this girl we all met mutually at a house party a couple weeks ago because i thought she was feelin me and i was like eh maybe if i get around to it. and he was like well aren't you worried someone else might come through in that time? no, i'm not. i legitimately don't care. it's almost kind of a relief.
oddly enough, i've had more success talking to women in this state of mind than i did before. just because i'm not TRYING to impress anyone. i can go into a conversation with a level head because i almost don't care if she's feelin me or not and there's almost kind of a power to that. i feel free. alone. but free.