Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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iunno fam. i'm inclined to believe that even if a girl is wifey you gotta maintain some sort of hard shell.
emotions are only okay in tiny doses

Yeah settling down within the confines of a longterm relationship, doesn't mean you can officially relax for good, it's lot of work, no breaks. You still have to keep the boot on her neck if she gives you attitude or bullshyt. You still have to not be with her all the time, make her miss you sometimes. She won't take you for granted and be bored then.

http://48laws-of-power.blogspot.ca/2011/05/law-16-use-absence-to-increase-respect.html

Too much circulation makes the price go down: The more you are seen and heard from, the more common you appear. If you are already established in a group, temporary withdrawal from it will make you more talked about, even more admired. You must learn when to leave. Create value through scarcity.
At the start of an affair, you need to heighten your presence in the eyes of the other. If you absent yourself too early, you may be forgotten. But once your lover's emotions are engaged, and the feeling of love has crystallized, absence inflames and excites.

Giving no reason for your absence excites even more: The other person assumes he or she is at fault. While you are away, the lover's imagination takes flight, and a stimulated imagination cannot help but make love grow stronger.

Conversely, when you become too present, too accessible, leaving no room for the imagination, the more you pursue, the less they love you.

What withdraws, what becomes scarce, suddenly seems to deserve our respect and honor. What stays too long, inundating us with its presence, makes us disdain it.



nikkas slip, females get bored and their eyes and heart wander elsewhere, their girlfriends all divorce and have fun at the begining, and curiosity enters her mind...she wanna copy them and see how their living so....
 
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So update,

Now im wifed up with my ethopian chick. Been together for a month officialy. Gotta stop my dog ways hittin up my old FWB. Good thing she hates me now so my cheat ways dont pop up:mjgrin:.

We havent seen or hung around our friends or family yet so we taking things slow for now. Really trying to not fukk this up.

Somehow I always get with women who are complete opposites of me. She likes drinking tea, reading nshyt and doesnt like biolent movies. While im about going out nshyt and staying out late listenting to mobb deep nshyt.:russ:

I be dealing with women who usially go with bookworm nerdy dudes and not a 6'4 mafia dressed fly nikka like myself.

She could be wife material im at the age of turning 25 later and she finna turn 26 so im looking for a partner with motherly values. These club hoes and IG obessed women:scust:
 

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So update,

Now im wifed up with my ethopian chick. Been together for a month officialy. Gotta stop my dog ways hittin up my old FWB. Good thing she hates me now so my cheat ways dont pop up:mjgrin:.

We havent seen or hung around our friends or family yet so we taking things slow for now. Really trying to not fukk this up.

Somehow I always get with women who are complete opposites of me. She likes drinking tea, reading nshyt and doesnt like biolent movies. While im about going out nshyt and staying out late listenting to mobb deep nshyt.:russ:

I be dealing with women who usially go with bookworm nerdy dudes and not a 6'4 mafia dressed fly nikka like myself.

She could be wife material im at the age of turning 25 later and she finna turn 26 so im looking for a partner with motherly values. These club hoes and IG obessed women:scust:
good luck fam. dont think about "not fukkin it up". If yall are compatible and mature itll work out..
 

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Advice for dealing with Women categorized by ages (10-35)

10-13 should be spent observing the gender dynamics in your household (father, mother, sister, brother, aunts and uncles for reference)
13-16 should be spent observing female behavior from those that are external to your household (classmates, mutual friends etc)
16-19 should be spent talking to women that are outside of your immediate circle of females (Cold approaches, talking to girls in the neighborhood, online, etc)
19-21 should be spent exploring your sexual desires with the opposite sex, the University years where everyone is almost equally yoked financially and mentally (carefully and methodically)
21-25 should be devoted to solely crafting yourself into what you would want others to desire about you, essentially developing your own personality. (self-discipline phase)
25-30 should be the time where you cast the net to catch and toss back into the ocean the fish that are not suitable for you (never keep women orbiters either)
Be very mindful that in this phase, you are coming off a spell or drought which may force you to settle with the first woman that chooses you... DONT.
30-35 should be the time where you get serious about the direction to which you wish to head with your mate (marraige, partnership)



If you want to get married in America:

No Children out of wedlock,
No women from broken homes,
No to women with no direction or motivation
No to women with low self-esteem
No to women who do not or did not go to college
No to single mothers unless widowed
No to women who are materialistic
No to women who are religious
No to women who are popular on social media by today's standards

Yes to women from dual-parent homes (step-parents included)
Yes to women who are ambitious but not blinded by its trappings
Yes to women who are capable of listening in the same manner of which she speaks
Yes to women who are not on social media all day or reliant on it for income
Yes to women who are in possession of an education from an accredited institution of higher learning
Yes to women who are active in making positive changes in their communities
 
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Advice for dealing with Women categorized by age (10-35)

10-13 should be spent observing gender dynamics in your household (father, mother, sister, brother, aunts and uncles for reference)
13-16 should be spent observing female behavior from those that are external to your household (classmates, mutual friends etc)
16-19 should be spent talking to women that are outside of your immediate circle of females (Cold approaches, talking to girls in the neighborhood, online, etc)
19-21 should be spent exploring your sexual desires with the opposite sex, the University years where everyone is almost equally yoked financially (carefully and methodically)
21-25 should be devoted to solely crafting yourself into what you would want others to desire about you, essentially developing your personality. (self-discipline phase)
25-30 should be the time where you cast the net to catch and toss back into the ocean the fish that are not suitable for you (never keep women orbiters either)
Be very mindful that in this phase, you are coming off a spell or drought which may force you to settle with the first woman that chooses you... DONT.
30-35 should be the time where you get serious about the direction to which you wish to head with your mate (marraige, partnership)



If you want to get married in America:

No Children out of wedlock,
No women from broken homes,
No to women with no direction or motivation
No to women with low self-esteem
No to women who do not or did not go to college
No to single mothers unless widowed
No to women who are materialistic
No to women who are religious
No to women who are popular on social media by today's standards

Yes to women from dual-parent homes (step-parents included)
Yes to women who are ambitious but not blinded by its trappings
Yes to women who are capable of listening in the same manner of which she speaks
Yes to women who are not on social media or reliant on it for income
Yes to women who are in possession of an education from an accredited institution of higher learning
Yes to women who are active in making positive changes in their communities


Rarely do I a post of such utter truth...if you follow this I can't see how you lose outside of an anomaly. It'll be hard to find a chick with all these qualities but if you do might want to wife that :wow:
 

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Advice for dealing with Women categorized by age (10-35)

10-13 should be spent observing gender dynamics in your household (father, mother, sister, brother, aunts and uncles for reference)
13-16 should be spent observing female behavior from those that are external to your household (classmates, mutual friends etc)
16-19 should be spent talking to women that are outside of your immediate circle of females (Cold approaches, talking to girls in the neighborhood, online, etc)
19-21 should be spent exploring your sexual desires with the opposite sex, the University years where everyone is almost equally yoked financially (carefully and methodically)
21-25 should be devoted to solely crafting yourself into what you would want others to desire about you, essentially developing your personality. (self-discipline phase)
25-30 should be the time where you cast the net to catch and toss back into the ocean the fish that are not suitable for you (never keep women orbiters either)
Be very mindful that in this phase, you are coming off a spell or drought which may force you to settle with the first woman that chooses you... DONT.
30-35 should be the time where you get serious about the direction to which you wish to head with your mate (marraige, partnership)



If you want to get married in America:

No Children out of wedlock,
No women from broken homes,
No to women with no direction or motivation
No to women with low self-esteem
No to women who do not or did not go to college
No to single mothers unless widowed
No to women who are materialistic
No to women who are religious
No to women who are popular on social media by today's standards

Yes to women from dual-parent homes (step-parents included)
Yes to women who are ambitious but not blinded by its trappings
Yes to women who are capable of listening in the same manner of which she speaks
Yes to women who are not on social media or reliant on it for income
Yes to women who are in possession of an education from an accredited institution of higher learning
Yes to women who are active in making positive changes in their communities
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I turned my emotions off when I went through my "player" phase, and I'm almost ready to settle down, but I don't think I can turn it on again:mjcry:

Try your hardest to be faithful... keep them emotions turned down low. Females sit around and bait you into showing some emotions, then use it against you.

My longest relationship was with two chicks who both accused me of being nonchalant and hard to read.

The rest kept testing the waters and line stepping ever since I exhibited a grain of Carl Thomas. Either we had a big blow up or she mentally or physically checked out.
 

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Try your hardest to be faithful... keep them emotions turned down low. Females sit around and bait you into showing some emotions, then use it against you.

My longest relationship was with two chicks who both accused me of being nonchalant and hard to read.

The rest kept testing the waters and line stepping ever since I exhibited a grain of Carl Thomas. Either we had a big blow up or she mentally or physically checked out.
lol exactly. i fell for the okie doke recently and shyt hit the fan
i slipped. I went through that so you wouldnt have to @fallbacksonn

just like JETS said all my relationships were with women who said I was emotionless and shyt
 
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Try your hardest to be faithful... keep them emotions turned down low. Females sit around and bait you into showing some emotions, then use it against you.

My longest relationship was with two chicks who both accused me of being nonchalant and hard to read.

The rest kept testing the waters and line stepping ever since I exhibited a grain of Carl Thomas. Either we had a big blow up or she mentally or physically checked out.

Happened to me recently I know what shyt to look for so it won't happen again.:francis::mjcry:
 
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