Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Sounds like yall boys going through it:francis: luckily in teamugly we have none of these problems :mjgrin:
lol. the power is in the ability to bounce back. a girl can act up...gimme a week and i'll either not care anymore and chill on my lonesome or have at least two new prospects lined up.
 
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Aye this shyt is irritating and I gotta get it off my chest..

So there's this lil restaurant where I'm at and that I've been going to for a while now..


So like a year ago I notice this lil decent female that works in there... every time I would come in or go thru the drive through she would smile and look happy as hell...

I never never jumped on it though because I had a girl at the time, and even if I wanted too me and my ex would go there a lot and I didn't wanna get caught up, so I let shyt slide and would be polite back..

So my one guy tells "Aye you need to J down on that one bytch at that one spot"..

I agreed that I finally should since she's always smiling and acting extra with it...

So tonight I went in there, and ordered something and when I went to pay I handed her a piece of paper with my name & number on it and told her to hit my line when she gets off later...

Mannnnn now usually I really DONT like hollerin at a female while she's at work just for the fact they usually HAVE to be nice and you can't tell if it's actual flirting..

Either way the bytch hasn't texted yet... low key I'm pissed because this shyt seemed like some sure shyt...

I'll see if I end up getting a text tomorrow but idk now I feel like a goofy, but at least I made the move I guess..

* I always like giving them MY NUMBER instead of getting theirs... I feel like it lets me know which ones are really interested you know*
 

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Aye this shyt is irritating and I gotta get it off my chest..

So there's this lil restaurant where I'm at and that I've been going to for a while now..


So like a year ago I notice this lil decent female that works in there... every time I would come in or go thru the drive through she would smile and look happy as hell...

I never never jumped on it though because I had a girl at the time, and even if I wanted too me and my ex would go there a lot and I didn't wanna get caught up, so I let shyt slide and would be polite back..

So my one guy tells "Aye you need to J down on that one bytch at that one spot"..

I agreed that I finally should since she's always smiling and acting extra with it...

So tonight I went in there, and ordered something and when I went to pay I handed her a piece of paper with my name & number on it and told her to hit my line when she gets off later...

Mannnnn now usually I really DONT like hollerin at a female while she's at work just for the fact they usually HAVE to be nice and you can't tell if it's actual flirting..

Either way the bytch hasn't texted yet... low key I'm pissed because this shyt seemed like some sure shyt...

I'll see if I end up getting a text tomorrow but idk now I feel like a goofy, but at least I made the move I guess..

* I always like giving them MY NUMBER instead of getting theirs... I feel like it lets me know which ones are really interested you know*
Girls are the ones used to being pursued. A lot of them have that entitled attitude that they won't make the first move, because let's face it... decent looking chicks are getting hit on all the time (especially with social media).

Plus waitresses are supposed to smile and look happy as hell.... that's how their make money. Would never date a waitress because it's her job to flirt and make you feel like she's interested.

Next time ask for her number and you'll know right away if you have a shot. But you're not missing out on much with a waitress breh.
 

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Girls are the ones used to being pursued. A lot of them have that entitled attitude that they won't make the first move, because let's face it... decent looking chicks are getting hit on all the time (especially with social media).

Plus waitresses are supposed to smile and look happy as hell.... that's how their make money. Would never date a waitress because it's her job to flirt and make you feel like she's interested.

Next time ask for her number and you'll know right away if you have a shot. But you're not missing out on much with a waitress breh.
It wasn't actually a waitress, just a female behind the counter ringing up orders..

True though they're use to being pursued...

My thing though is females give out their number ALL the time, they don't even have to be feeling a guy to give him the number, they might just like to see their phone blowin up n feel like the shyt..

Part of its on me too..

They take orders quick and had a line behind me I didn't wanna look like a goofy "uhhh hey can I uhh have your number"
 
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Aye this shyt is irritating and I gotta get it off my chest..

So there's this lil restaurant where I'm at and that I've been going to for a while now..


So like a year ago I notice this lil decent female that works in there... every time I would come in or go thru the drive through she would smile and look happy as hell...

I never never jumped on it though because I had a girl at the time, and even if I wanted too me and my ex would go there a lot and I didn't wanna get caught up, so I let shyt slide and would be polite back..

So my one guy tells "Aye you need to J down on that one bytch at that one spot"..

I agreed that I finally should since she's always smiling and acting extra with it...

So tonight I went in there, and ordered something and when I went to pay I handed her a piece of paper with my name & number on it and told her to hit my line when she gets off later...

Mannnnn now usually I really DONT like hollerin at a female while she's at work just for the fact they usually HAVE to be nice and you can't tell if it's actual flirting..

Either way the bytch hasn't texted yet... low key I'm pissed because this shyt seemed like some sure shyt...

I'll see if I end up getting a text tomorrow but idk now I feel like a goofy, but at least I made the move I guess..

* I always like giving them MY NUMBER instead of getting theirs... I feel like it lets me know which ones are really interested you know*

I got that smiley face and happy look from a chick a few years ago, she was my nephews teacher for the last two years in fact and I wasn't trying to cross that line. I ended up letting her know I liked her after she continued showing some interest and I feel like that was one of the worst decisions ever since she would keep on the doing the same smiley and happy shyt even though she said she had a boyfriend. I feel sorry for anyone who dates this bytch.
 

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For the brehs going through it, improving my skin care routine/physique has paid off for me. Lifting, exfoliating:dame:, losing fat, etc.

I had an ex from HS move up to the city im at. I used to hit her up on some simp shyt (bc i never smashed, pride thing) but about a year ago i got some closure and moved on. We first met at like 15-17 and im about to be 23:flabbynsick:

Last week she was home and saw my folks and they chopped it up. Then a couple days ago she hits me up on IG trying to link up:gucci:

I told her we can grab coffee saturday:mjgrin:
 
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For the brehs going through it, improving my skin care routine/physique has paid off for me. Lifting, exfoliating:dame:, losing fat, etc.

I had an ex from HS move up to the city im at. I used to hit her up on some simp shyt (bc i never smashed, pride thing) but about a year ago i got some closure and moved on. We first met at like 15-17 and im about to be 23:flabbynsick:

Last week she was home and saw my folks and they chopped it up. Then a couple days ago she hits me up on IG trying to link up:gucci:

I told her we can grab coffee saturday:mjgrin:

Improving my physique and losing 100lbs definitely got me noticed up at my nephews school, got teachers and moms up there checking me out. I had one chick risking her job texting me while she was at work and shyt and had a fine ass grandma that I could've smashed but her kids were at her place that morning.:francis:
 

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Aye this shyt is irritating and I gotta get it off my chest..

So there's this lil restaurant where I'm at and that I've been going to for a while now..


So like a year ago I notice this lil decent female that works in there... every time I would come in or go thru the drive through she would smile and look happy as hell...

I never never jumped on it though because I had a girl at the time, and even if I wanted too me and my ex would go there a lot and I didn't wanna get caught up, so I let shyt slide and would be polite back..

So my one guy tells "Aye you need to J down on that one bytch at that one spot"..

I agreed that I finally should since she's always smiling and acting extra with it...

So tonight I went in there, and ordered something and when I went to pay I handed her a piece of paper with my name & number on it and told her to hit my line when she gets off later...

Mannnnn now usually I really DONT like hollerin at a female while she's at work just for the fact they usually HAVE to be nice and you can't tell if it's actual flirting..

Either way the bytch hasn't texted yet... low key I'm pissed because this shyt seemed like some sure shyt...

I'll see if I end up getting a text tomorrow but idk now I feel like a goofy, but at least I made the move I guess..

* I always like giving them MY NUMBER instead of getting theirs... I feel like it lets me know which ones are really interested you know*

:huhldup:
 

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Advice for dealing with Women categorized by ages (10-35)

10-13 should be spent observing the gender dynamics in your household (father, mother, sister, brother, aunts and uncles for reference)
13-16 should be spent observing female behavior from those that are external to your household (classmates, mutual friends etc)
16-19 should be spent talking to women that are outside of your immediate circle of females (Cold approaches, talking to girls in the neighborhood, online, etc)
19-21 should be spent exploring your sexual desires with the opposite sex, the University years where everyone is almost equally yoked financially and mentally (carefully and methodically)
21-25 should be devoted to solely crafting yourself into what you would want others to desire about you, essentially developing your own personality. (self-discipline phase)
25-30 should be the time where you cast the net to catch and toss back into the ocean the fish that are not suitable for you (never keep women orbiters either)
Be very mindful that in this phase, you are coming off a spell or drought which may force you to settle with the first woman that chooses you... DONT.
30-35 should be the time where you get serious about the direction to which you wish to head with your mate (marraige, partnership)



If you want to get married in America:

No Children out of wedlock,
No women from broken homes,
No to women with no direction or motivation
No to women with low self-esteem
No to women who do not or did not go to college
No to single mothers unless widowed
No to women who are materialistic
No to women who are religious
No to women who are popular on social media by today's standards

Yes to women from dual-parent homes (step-parents included)
Yes to women who are ambitious but not blinded by its trappings
Yes to women who are capable of listening in the same manner of which she speaks
Yes to women who are not on social media all day or reliant on it for income
Yes to women who are in possession of an education from an accredited institution of higher learning
Yes to women who are active in making positive changes in their communities

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Can the brehas also do me a solid for the 2017 and beyond? Can you stop telling the bros that if they get money and workout that they will be immune to GMB and Divorce? I have two close friends of mine going through separations which may or may not eventually end in divorce that were filed this month.

Both brehz work out well into their 40s, make over seven figures a year and married spouses who were equally yoked in regards to physical and financial shape. Got to make sure the brehs who are dating with the hopes and intentions of getting serious know that the game is not one where you can rest on your achievements and accolades. If you are thinking that way, may as well stay single and play the field.

These women out here looking for Lorenzo Neal so they could have those LaDanian Tomlinson type of numbers family.

Be Safe
 

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Can the brehas also do me a solid for the 2017 and beyond? Can you stop telling the bros that if they get money and workout that they will be immune to GMB and Divorce? I have two close friends of mine going through separations which may or may not eventually end in divorce that were filed this month.

Both brehz work out well into their 40s, make over seven figures a year and married spouses who were equally yoked in regards to physical and financial shape. Got to make sure the brehs who are dating with the hopes and intentions of getting serious know that the game is not one where you can rest on your achievements and accolades. If you are thinking that way, may as well stay single and play the field.

These women out here looking for Lorenzo Neal so they could have those LaDanian Tomlinson type of numbers family.

Be Safe
well said

obviously it helps but for ever 6'3, WR looking ass nikka there is a 5'9 kicker lookin ass nikka getting some p*ssy. There is no rhyme or reason to the way women act. The things that happened to your homies can happen to anybody
 
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