Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

So I'm single again brehs. The night before finals, me and wifey got into a physical altercation. She hit me because she thought I hit her first, I reacted to her and bruised her up because she kept swinging even after I gripped her up. She broke up with me, kicked me out, deleted me off all of her social media. We tried to talk it out but she kept blaming me for reacting to her.....told me that we were done and I lost a best friend, gf and potential wife/mother. I was tight, went to a party that Saturday night and started fukking with a new chick. Shawty put herself on my snap and my ex found out, blew my phone up trying to talk to me....we talked. Told me we would get back together as long as I don't fukk with any bytches. Long story short, I said ok because I didn't want to argue and I ended up fukking the other bytch twice. My ex found out and called me a liar, cheater, says that I stabbed her in the back and we aren't getting back together. Everytime I call her, it's an argument about how I lied to her and how she can't trust me anymore. I haven't really been talking to her like that but I feel like she just wants me to do what she would do if I broke up with her.....which is be extremely apologetic, keep talking to her no matter what and put all of my effort into trying to get her back. My question is, do y'all think the effort is worth it? Idk if y'all remember but this is the same asian chick that I was talking to that wouldn't be loyal and was fukking other people while talking to me....even admitted she fukked a former teammate of mine right before we started the relationship. I only mention this because I feel like I was in her shoes before, and even tho I lied, I didn't cheat and I should get another chance. Even tho previous efforts have failed....I still have a get outta jail free card that she gave me while we were in a relationship.....should I give it a try? I was gonna pop up at her job with flowers, a card with the get outta jail free card inside of it and what I got her for Xmas....any thoughts?


e: I'm still messing with the other jawn....and last time I hit my ex up she tried to kill me with kindness.

Do not pop up at her job with flowers

 

[Womb Raider]

Do not pop up at her job with flowers

why's that?

 

[360dagod]

why's that?

Because you give her an opening to ether you something serious..
It might work in a music video, but when you pull that kind of submissive move, they smell blood...

You are always better off falling back and making your offense look like a defense...if she wanna holla then its your call...

 

[Womb Raider]

Because you give her an opening to ether you something serious..
It might work in a music video, but when you pull that kind of submissive move, they smell blood...

You are always better off falling back and making your offense look like a defense...if she wanna holla then its your call...

you right you right


I actually walked past her the other day on campus....nikka had to run to work and I already knew she wasn't fukking with me. I'm dead serious about giving her that get outta jail free card tho.

 

[360dagod]

you right you right


I actually walked past her the other day on campus....nikka had to run to work and I already knew she wasn't fukking with me. I'm dead serious about giving her that get outta jail free card tho.

Breh..your not in jail literally or figuratively..
You are using that analogy to rationalize your feelings for her..
If you want to be in her jail,pop a baby in her or sign a contract known as marriage...
the fact that she was fukking someone in your inner circle before she got to you is grounds for you to not even take her serious...

U seem like you are young with a future ahead of you..
I wasted alot finanically/mentally dealing with a woman who i knew was fukked up and still tried to rationalize..
The biggest win was me not getting her.pregnant..
As a guy who is please put that energy into creating wealth for yourself or just improving yourself in general..
If you want to have your cake and eat it too, you gotta lay the groundwork before you sit at the table

 

[Womb Raider]

Breh..your not in jail literally or figuratively..
You are using that analogy to rationalize your feelings for her..
If you want to be in her jail,pop a baby in her or sign a contract known as marriage...
the fact that she was fukking someone in your inner circle before she got to you is grounds for you to not even take her serious...

U seem like you are young with a future ahead of you..
I wasted alot finanically/mentally dealing with a woman who i knew was fukked up and still tried to rationalize..
The biggest win was me not getting her.pregnant..
As a guy who is please put that energy into creating wealth for yourself or just improving yourself in general..
If you want to have your cake and eat it too, you gotta lay the groundwork before you sit at the table

Nah breh I mean she literally made me a coupon book, which includes a get out of jail free coupon.


I see what you're saying....I do love this girl tho.

 

[360dagod]

Nah breh I mean she literally made me a coupon book, which includes a get out of jail free coupon.


I see what you're saying....I do love this girl tho.

How old are you

 

[Womb Raider]

How old are you

22

 

[360dagod]

22

You are in the stage before the "american dream" bs...the kids with a wife lifestyle...

Focus on your studies and become the best you can be..
Give the situation a breather and put it on the backburner..
And breh...please leave the social media alone if you gonna do dirt..
All im saying is dont let your vulnerability get you caught up in something your not ready for..

Vulnerability leads to vulnerable sex which leads to her sayin she pregnant

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Not so fast! What if I told you we were hanging out for Valentine's day.

huh? Then why send anonymous roses if you are taking her out for Valentines day? You could just give them to her yourself. Unless y'all are hanging out just as friends

 

[Mr210]

So I'm single again brehs. The night before finals, me and wifey got into a physical altercation. She hit me because she thought I hit her first, I reacted to her and bruised her up because she kept swinging even after I gripped her up. She broke up with me, kicked me out, deleted me off all of her social media. We tried to talk it out but she kept blaming me for reacting to her.....told me that we were done and I lost a best friend, gf and potential wife/mother. I was tight, went to a party that Saturday night and started fukking with a new chick. Shawty put herself on my snap and my ex found out, blew my phone up trying to talk to me....we talked. Told me we would get back together as long as I don't fukk with any bytches. Long story short, I said ok because I didn't want to argue and I ended up fukking the other bytch twice. My ex found out and called me a liar, cheater, says that I stabbed her in the back and we aren't getting back together. Everytime I call her, it's an argument about how I lied to her and how she can't trust me anymore. I haven't really been talking to her like that but I feel like she just wants me to do what she would do if I broke up with her.....which is be extremely apologetic, keep talking to her no matter what and put all of my effort into trying to get her back. My question is, do y'all think the effort is worth it? Idk if y'all remember but this is the same asian chick that I was talking to that wouldn't be loyal and was fukking other people while talking to me....even admitted she fukked a former teammate of mine right before we started the relationship. I only mention this because I feel like I was in her shoes before, and even tho I lied, I didn't cheat and I should get another chance. Even tho previous efforts have failed....I still have a get outta jail free card that she gave me while we were in a relationship.....should I give it a try? I was gonna pop up at her job with flowers, a card with the get outta jail free card inside of it and what I got her for Xmas....any thoughts?


e: I'm still messing with the other jawn....and last time I hit my ex up she tried to kill me with kindness.

Forget about it, move forward don't move back

 

[AlwaysLurkin]

I must've been ugly a few years ago cause I didn't have nearly as many women interested in me as I do now.

 

[twan83]

So I'm single again brehs. The night before finals, me and wifey got into a physical altercation. She hit me because she thought I hit her first, I reacted to her and bruised her up because she kept swinging even after I gripped her up. She broke up with me, kicked me out, deleted me off all of her social media. We tried to talk it out but she kept blaming me for reacting to her.....told me that we were done and I lost a best friend, gf and potential wife/mother. I was tight, went to a party that Saturday night and started fukking with a new chick. Shawty put herself on my snap and my ex found out, blew my phone up trying to talk to me....we talked. Told me we would get back together as long as I don't fukk with any bytches. Long story short, I said ok because I didn't want to argue and I ended up fukking the other bytch twice. My ex found out and called me a liar, cheater, says that I stabbed her in the back and we aren't getting back together. Everytime I call her, it's an argument about how I lied to her and how she can't trust me anymore. I haven't really been talking to her like that but I feel like she just wants me to do what she would do if I broke up with her.....which is be extremely apologetic, keep talking to her no matter what and put all of my effort into trying to get her back. My question is, do y'all think the effort is worth it? Idk if y'all remember but this is the same asian chick that I was talking to that wouldn't be loyal and was fukking other people while talking to me....even admitted she fukked a former teammate of mine right before we started the relationship. I only mention this because I feel like I was in her shoes before, and even tho I lied, I didn't cheat and I should get another chance. Even tho previous efforts have failed....I still have a get outta jail free card that she gave me while we were in a relationship.....should I give it a try? I was gonna pop up at her job with flowers, a card with the get outta jail free card inside of it and what I got her for Xmas....any thoughts?


e: I'm still messing with the other jawn....and last time I hit my ex up she tried to kill me with kindness.

I maybe in the minority but if y'all weren't exclusive then her fukking someone else ain't wrong period
Now cuz it was a former teammate right before I wouldn't do it in first place and also u said she ain't loyal was the other issue
Now u putting her hands on her yea it's a no go but I do understand when u getting hit shyt happens in the heat of the moment but u gotta be smarter
The fact she was physical with u
Then u fukked another female and kept doing it was a sign u ain't serious bout her anymore
Yea 1 time I could be yea but kept doing it
Isn't that ur way of saying u want out but feel
Guilty cuz u smashed another chic
Quit excusing her damn behavior breh and urs also
Do u better yourself

I can't see how u call someone wifey
Who gets physical and excuse it and wifey who isn't loyal like u said before she met u
U can't change her she can only change herself of her own choice
Can't help or save someone who don't want it simple as that

 

[Redguard]

Is 28 and 21 too big of an age gap for dating/relationship? I'm 28 by the way.

 

[Kal El]

Is 28 and 21 too big of an age gap for dating/relationship? I'm 28 by the way.

Naw the age gap isn't that big of a deal. Her being 21 is more of a problem. 21 year olds don't want real relationships. They're just getting access to clubs/bars for the first time, she hasn't gotten the partying out of her system yet. Unless she's the square type.