Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

Take it day by day...

I know the popular advice is to let her go, but thats your baby momz and your dynamic might be different..

If your the only one she had a baby with, she will come back...just let her be free

Yup! I was her first BF, first kid, first love, first everything. In all honesty i dropped the ball in a few places but ive since recovered and you can definitely tell the love is still there. on both sides. Ultimately i think she just needs time to breathe after a 3 year relationship so im going to let her do just that

I'm sorry I disagree with that statement she will comeback to be frank that's a load of bs
Ain't nothing guaranteed she will comeback
I get the day by day thing in a sense
But here is a couple of things
If y'all get back together
U can't say shyt or bring it up with her playing the field cuz she was allowed too cuz y'all broke up a lot of people do that nonesense if U ain't together it's free game to everyone
Don't use ur kid as a excuse like most do also
An unhappy is bad for a kid no way around it
They too smart and will notice it and it will effect them
Be prepared for the worse in case
Cuz u gotta consider her playing the field for the first time she won't return or if she does she won't be the same

Now having said that and being married for a 2nd time
Me and wifey had similar situation but just was having issues to the point neither of us happy had nothing to do with playing the field
But we went our separate ways for the best for us and our kids for several months but we're still civil and rotated the kids
We eventually found our way back to each other not by choice or force just happened cuz we figured solution to our problems before things got finalized and been doing good since then

I'm just giving u both sides of the coin from being married twice to where it didn't work out and it did but I never used my kids as a reason to stay not saying u are either but too many people do
Just want u to know there is hope but prepare for worse
Each case is different even more so when kid is involved
Ultimately it's ur choice but be smart and see things for what they are also don't be blind cuz u don't wanna lose her also if it comes down too it
I do wish u the best and don't blame u for wanna work it out with her at all
Most don't even wanna do that or try too just but each situation is different and everybody has a diff opinion on forgiveness from ok u hurt me but we can try to work it out or fukk that bushes u shall go

I do feel for u breh I truly do cuz I know how u felt
I never wanted to be married more than once breh but shyt happens but I'm grateful cuz I ended up with something better
7 yrs together 4 kids another 1 on the way
Got my own house
At same time even if we don't work out in the future I'll be ok cuz I'm mentally strong and understand what it's like to be a single father from experience
And refuse to be taken for granted

 

[twan83]

Starting to miss my ex. She always had my back, life was good and simple. The 17 year age difference and young p*ssy blinded me.

She was the same age as my mom though... the thought of that is rough. She looked good though and gave me the world.

So u had a older broad 17 years older than u but succumbed to young p*ssy
shyt happens breh
But older women tho
Especially a good one
No games already established
Spoil u rotten
Sex depends but when it's on point it's godly
Treat u so good cuz ur happiness means more to them then theirs

 

[PewPew]

I'm sorry I disagree with that statement she will comeback to be frank that's a load of bs
Ain't nothing guaranteed she will comeback
I get the day by day thing in a sense
But here is a couple of things
If y'all get back together
U can't say shyt or bring it up with her playing the field cuz she was allowed too cuz y'all broke up a lot of people do that nonesense if U ain't together it's free game to everyone
Don't use ur kid as a excuse like most do also
An unhappy is bad for a kid no way around it
They too smart and will notice it and it will effect them
Be prepared for the worse in case
Cuz u gotta consider her playing the field for the first time she won't return or if she does she won't be the same

Now having said that and being married for a 2nd time
Me and wifey had similar situation but just was having issues to the point neither of us happy had nothing to do with playing the field
But we went our separate ways for the best for us and our kids for several months but we're still civil and rotated the kids
We eventually found our way back to each other not by choice or force just happened cuz we figured solution to our problems before things got finalized and been doing good since then

I'm just giving u both sides of the coin from being married twice to where it didn't work out and it did but I never used my kids as a reason to stay not saying u are either but too many people do
Just want u to know there is hope but prepare for worse
Each case is different even more so when kid is involved
Ultimately it's ur choice but be smart and see things for what they are also don't be blind cuz u don't wanna lose her also if it comes down too it
I do wish u the best and don't blame u for wanna work it out with her at all
Most don't even wanna do that or try too just but each situation is different and everybody has a diff opinion on forgiveness from ok u hurt me but we can try to work it out or fukk that bushes u shall go

I do feel for u breh I truly do cuz I know how u felt
I never wanted to be married more than once breh but shyt happens but I'm grateful cuz I ended up with something better
7 yrs together 4 kids another 1 on the way
Got my own house
At same time even if we don't work out in the future I'll be ok cuz I'm mentally strong and understand what it's like to be a single father from experience
And refuse to be taken for granted

Just wanted to reply and say i read this. Ill edit it when i can respond fully because im at work

 

[letti cook]

no gems...just at the fickleness with these women.... i say....

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

The woman with the long requirements like "I need a man who looks good, has a house, a car ,good job, good sex, religious"

What's are equivalent of that? What long requirements can we have that's not gon get us shamed??

 

[Mr210]

Knowledge guys knowledge, don't forget that, never forget it

 

[全能の神]

I love women

 

[International Playa]

Good mature game being shared by brehs who been in long term or married relationships.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I know these younger joints in the 21-24ish range get a lot of flack, but its easier to plant your "emotional seed"in a younger joint than a 27 year old who is emotionally damaged or is basically in a baby making rush...

If you are an older breh, you should def be gunning in that direction..


Yes they are prolly not virgins, but you shouldnt even care about that shyt to the extent(unless she did some wild shyt) that you would if she was over 25..

the point im making is you should embrace developing younger talent...The growing pains are no different than watching a pitcher in triple A find himself...You are there to keep them on the right track..

These older joints 25+ are strictly FWB status from here on out

How do you do that when you are not getting any play from any age group

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I keep getting rejected but seeing a pattern in women. They always make up excuses not to get with me. I think I should try another city out. My town fukking sucks.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

ghosting is some cowardly female shyt. you could at least keep it real my g

Nah ghost on that hoe. Women have no issue doing it us men.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Damn im 27 and late to the game.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Just got shot down brehs

Word? She probably had a dikk

 

[Nuke Dukem]

Aiite... I need some advice on my current situation.


I met this female on a dating site around the end of December, and I ended up adding her on Snapchat & basically forgetting about her.


Well last night she post a snap story of her body basically and I hit her up. Basically just said "damn girl wassup when are you free to kick it"

She surprised me and said "Tonight" so I showered and went n picked her up.. We went to a bar and had a few drinks

The date SEEMED good to me, her body language was good, she was laughing/smiling, and talking a lot


So when I went to drop her off I got out the car to get a hug or kiss, went for the kiss but got cheek.. I can't remembe the last time I got cheek and not lips.. So that killed my whole vibe cause it felt like the date went well...


So this morning I ended up texting her and here's what was said

Me: " I had fun last night, I feel like we vibe well"

Her: " I agree I had a good time too

Me: " so since you fluent in Spanish (she's black tho) lemme (in Spanish) can I get a second date with you"

Her: yeah we can have another date..

Me: okay coo..

Then.. no reply..


Basically she's got the fattest ass out of any of the females I've met online so far...

And she works 2 jobs and she was telling me she hasn't seen any of her friends in about a month or two because of her schedule.. but during the date at the bar she said she'd make time for a second date like she did that night..

So how should I go about this with out fukkin it up.. the ass is so fat I GOTTA hit


@twan83 (thoughts too)

 

[Wargames]

Nah ghost on that hoe. Women have no issue doing it us men.

Ghosted on a chick this weekend......


It felt empowering Breh's