The guy has made it clear in her mind that her attention>his
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The guy has made it clear in her mind that her attention>his
He would have to basically play his cards right and then let her catch other women checking him to reverse position..
And thats really depending on why he is just getting her attention...
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
brehs need to relax on the charitable donations of attention towards women. That shyt is a commodity and yet nikkas don't treat it like it is. That's part of the reason why women these days don't respect us and view us as disposable. Because what person would cherish something valuable that is often given to them for free? A women should have to earn your attention regardless of wherever else she is getting it from. And if that means she moves on from you because of your lack of, then its all good....cuz that's all she would've wanted from you in the first place. Now, if its a girl that clearly goes out of her way to give you attention or extract it from you, then i'd maybe take it as a sign of her being interested and thus act accordingly (ie. asking her out).
I don't engage in/prolong text conversations...even if a broad hits me up. I keep it short...add a joke or 2 in there...then bounce. Otherwise, situations like the one below are going to keep happening whereby the girl realizes you're easy, keeps you as a back up, pursues a nikka that doesn't give her attention/or sparingly does and once ole boy recycles her, comes back to you "to start giving you attention".
and no man wants to/should be that guy.
I don't engage in/prolong text conversations...even if a broad hits me up. I keep it short...add a joke or 2 in there...then bounce. Otherwise, situations like the one below are going to keep happening whereby the girl realizes you're easy, keeps you as a back up, pursues a nikka that doesn't give her attention/or sparingly does and once ole boy recycles her, comes back to you "to start giving you attention".
and no man wants to/should be that guy.
Youseenmywork
KING
brehs need to relax on the charitable donations of attention towards women. That shyt is a commodity and yet nikkas don't treat it like it is. That's part of the reason why women these days don't respect us and view us as disposable. Because what person would cherish something valuable that is often given to them for free? A women should have to earn your attention regardless of wherever else she is getting it from. And if that means she moves on from you because of your lack of, then its all good....cuz that's all she would've wanted from you in the first place. Now, if its a girl that clearly goes out of her way to give you attention or extract it from you, then i'd maybe take it as a sign of her being interested and thus act accordingly (ie. asking her out).
I don't engage in/prolong text conversations...even if a broad hits me up. I keep it short...add a joke or 2 in there...then bounce. Otherwise, situations like the one below are going to keep happening whereby the girl realizes you're easy, keeps you as a back up, pursues a nikka that doesn't give her attention/or sparingly does and once ole boy recycles her, comes back to you "to start giving you attention".
and no man wants to/should be that guy.
You hit it on the head. Men have to understand that dikk stock is falling cause so many nikka have they dikk in they hand chasing a women. Men are valuable when are chasing a purpose that is bigger than us and at times even money . I'm gathering some principles to create my #HOH# thread. One of those principles is " purse first ass last".In other words have many inspiring and purposeful things to do in life than chase after a women. It takes discipline but you should be chasing that bag not that ass. Men have to carry themselves like king internally/externally.
Youseenmywork
KING
Good point I don't know why he is getting her attention. According to her she "just started"giving him attention. Your right you have to reverse the game on her and I probably would dog her out later for her conceded and narcissistic natures or attitude.
BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
Why dog her don't deal with her...
A person isn't obligated to deal with you with kid gloves...but dogging someone is just ugh from men and women.
@BrokePhiBroke
@m0rninggl0ry
As females, would be it be disrespectful to yall to ask for a girl youve been flirting and texting with to introduce you to her younger cousin?
Maybe introduce is a strong word, but I think you gals get what Im saying
@m0rninggl0ry
As females, would be it be disrespectful to yall to ask for a girl youve been flirting and texting with to introduce you to her younger cousin?
Maybe introduce is a strong word, but I think you gals get what Im saying
You know that difference in how you talk/treat/react with a woman before you smash and after you have smashed? for example, after you smash youre way more nonchalant and laid back with her etc,
this is should be your demeanor in all circumstances with women . Don't appear like you need her, YOU'RE the catch, be laidback and non chalant, go against the grain but be aggressive when needed. Women love that shyt, dudes be super simps nowadays so this will intrigue her.
Most dudes are like dogs with their tongues out to women they haven't done anything with. Don't be like most
But if your personality doesnt mesh with this then
. I'm pretty nonchalant and laid back by nature but then again I have great things going for me and I'm young (25) so my tolerance to bullshyt is minimal because I bring a lot to the table (you don't need these traits to set principles for yourself)
this is should be your demeanor in all circumstances with women . Don't appear like you need her, YOU'RE the catch, be laidback and non chalant, go against the grain but be aggressive when needed. Women love that shyt, dudes be super simps nowadays so this will intrigue her.
Most dudes are like dogs with their tongues out to women they haven't done anything with. Don't be like most
But if your personality doesnt mesh with this then
. I'm pretty nonchalant and laid back by nature but then again I have great things going for me and I'm young (25) so my tolerance to bullshyt is minimal because I bring a lot to the table (you don't need these traits to set principles for yourself)
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BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
Hell yeah.
It's cool if y'all co workers or real cool and y'all happen to text often with very mild flirtation in it.
But if it's heavy as hell and you KNOW she likes you then no you shoulda played your cards right.
I would never introduce a guy I was flirtation with to my peoples. That's asking for trouble.
Damn I kinda figured this was the case
We just met tho, so feelings havent really been established. 2-3ish weeks ago? Just recently started chatting consisntently over the past few days so everything is relatively fresh.
I also just seen her cousin too, Saturday, not like Ive known about either of them for long
BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
Yeah that's right. You basically think her cousin looks better than her and you tryna shoot ya shot because of it...smh don't even bother.
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bahahaha thats it exactly. Just tryna diversify my bonds, my nikka
But seriously you read me like a book. Okay, but heres a potential future scenario:
What if its mutual that we wouldnt work out (shes really religious) and then after we mutually friendzone each other, I ask about her cuz.
Is that foul? I wouldnt think so, why would she care at that point...
m0rninggl0ry
All Star
Okay
Youve been talking and fliritng with a guy for about a week now
Would it be fair or foul to ask you if you could "introduce" him to her cousin/get to know her? Help her with her homework
Introduce is in quotes cuz technically she already introduced me to her but we didnt speak much. We share the same major tho
BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
Key word: religious.bahahaha thats it exactly. Just tryna diversify my bonds, my nikka
But seriously you read me like a book. Okay, but heres a potential future scenario:
What if its mutual that we wouldnt work out (shes really religious) and then after we mutually friendzone each other, I ask about her cuz.
Is that foul? I wouldnt think so, why would she care at that point...
She not introducing y'all sorry bud.
Either try things with her are leave it alone.
It's only the beginning so idk.
But damn I kinda feel bad for her bc on a physical level you like her cousin more (not that she knows obviously).