Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Both,No red flags at all yet, sheltered humble girl raised in the church, both parents are pastors. A bit too naive.

Im trying something different, after dating women who out there clubbing & drinking. First time dating a quiet church girl


I tried that before after 2nd meet up she told me she was a virgin and saving for marriage
I'm over here in my mind lying ass :sas1:

My thing with that is if a female really is it don't really bother me cuz I don't be going for the draws I let that shyt happen which happens usually way too fast not that it's a issue either :shaq:

Anyways 2 weeks in things smooth and when we make out it goes further no sex but damn near fingering stage
So outta blue she sends me nude semi nude pic and when she did I already knew :camby:
So I go along with it for now
So to make 100% sure I go why u send that if we can't have sex
Says u can keep cuz I did it for u and if u wanna beat ur meat basically pic
I go what gonna happen if I stay the night said we can lay naked but won't fukk unless we getting married

Now I'm thinking it's a 50/50 shot that I could smash if stay but if this broad don't let me while I'm naked gonna be pissed

Instead I just cut her off point blank
She goes well cant we get married in a month once we're exclusive too see if that will change my mind
Said na I love myself too much and I ain't gonna marry u to fukk even if sex is goat potential
We not even bf gf yet and u wanna push that route on me na I'm good
cuz I don't play games my time is too valuable and I'm too valuable to be doing that shyt

If ur truly a virgin waiting on marriage u don't go that far u keep it arms length with a guy kissing and hugging I get the nudes if u want ur dude to feel special and use ur pic
But this shyt sleeping together naked hell na
If u have self control and don't mind u could easily hold off sex with dude finger u and u giving him head or jacking him off that way u both get off fair game but u on some teasing shyt
 

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I tried that before after 2nd meet up she told me she was a virgin and saving for marriage
I'm over here in my mind lying ass :sas1:

My thing with that is if a female really is it don't really bother me cuz I don't be going for the draws I let that shyt happen which happens usually way too fast not that it's a issue either :shaq:

Anyways 2 weeks in things smooth and when we make out it goes further no sex but damn near fingering stage
So outta blue she sends me nude semi nude pic and when she did I already knew :camby:
So I go along with it for now
So to make 100% sure I go why u send that if we can't have sex
Says u can keep cuz I did it for u and if u wanna beat ur meat basically pic
I go what gonna happen if I stay the night said we can lay naked but won't fukk unless we getting married

Now I'm thinking it's a 50/50 shot that I could smash if stay but if this broad don't let me while I'm naked gonna be pissed

Instead I just cut her off point blank
She goes well cant we get married in a month once we're exclusive too see if that will change my mind
Said na I love myself too much and I ain't gonna marry u to fukk even if sex is goat potential
We not even bf gf yet and u wanna push that route on me na I'm good
cuz I don't play games my time is too valuable and I'm too valuable to be doing that shyt

If ur truly a virgin waiting on marriage u don't go that far u keep it arms length with a guy kissing and hugging I get the nudes if u want ur dude to feel special and use ur pic
But this shyt sleeping together naked hell na
If u have self control and don't mind u could easily hold off sex with dude finger u and u giving him head or jacking him off that way u both get off fair game but u on some teasing shyt
What the fukk is wrong with this bytch?
 

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What the fukk is wrong with this bytch?

I'll ask the dude who dumb enough to marry her cuz I didn't :russ:

Had to block her cuz she blew up my shyt begging give her chance
Sex not big deal too me when meeting females it happens when it happens but when u playing stupid bout it or playing games or teasing
fukk outta here with that u messing with wrong guy I show no remorse to ur feelings at all
 

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I tried that before after 2nd meet up she told me she was a virgin and saving for marriage
I'm over here in my mind lying ass :sas1:

My thing with that is if a female really is it don't really bother me cuz I don't be going for the draws I let that shyt happen which happens usually way too fast not that it's a issue either :shaq:

Anyways 2 weeks in things smooth and when we make out it goes further no sex but damn near fingering stage
So outta blue she sends me nude semi nude pic and when she did I already knew :camby:
So I go along with it for now
So to make 100% sure I go why u send that if we can't have sex
Says u can keep cuz I did it for u and if u wanna beat ur meat basically pic
I go what gonna happen if I stay the night said we can lay naked but won't fukk unless we getting married

Now I'm thinking it's a 50/50 shot that I could smash if stay but if this broad don't let me while I'm naked gonna be pissed

Instead I just cut her off point blank
She goes well cant we get married in a month once we're exclusive too see if that will change my mind
Said na I love myself too much and I ain't gonna marry u to fukk even if sex is goat potential
We not even bf gf yet and u wanna push that route on me na I'm good
cuz I don't play games my time is too valuable and I'm too valuable to be doing that shyt

If ur truly a virgin waiting on marriage u don't go that far u keep it arms length with a guy kissing and hugging I get the nudes if u want ur dude to feel special and use ur pic
But this shyt sleeping together naked hell na
If u have self control and don't mind u could easily hold off sex with dude finger u and u giving him head or jacking him off that way u both get off fair game but u on some teasing shyt

Chick was confused lol.

It must be hard for church folk tryna live by the bible but have natural sexual urges. I go church but I still drink, club, have sex etc.

Im at that age were Im dating, looking for something serious.Im just trying something new, dating a church girl . After dating thots, hoodrats, club hoes who been ran through by most dudes in your area. Its a not good feeling wifyng a girl & always running in to dudes who hav seen your girl naked & fukked your girl.
 

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Not exactly true sometimes u start bad but run a audible that is a game changer that turns into game winner into possible championship too

Nah, this is fact. but that's with people altogether. Why people become expected of things. If you start with a female by using money that's what she will come to expect and when you switch it up she feels betrayed and leaves. That's why it's always best to be who are you.

Its also like when your woman always looked good hair and everything cooked in the beginning of relationship y'all move in and she's not that anymore you feel betrayed. That's why people always complaining about why he/She isn't like that anymore.
 

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Chick was confused lol.

It must be hard for church folk tryna live by the bible but have natural sexual urges. I go church but I still drink, club, have sex etc.

Im at that age were Im dating, looking for something serious.Im just trying something new, dating a church girl . After dating thots, hoodrats, club hoes who been ran through by most dudes in your area. Its a not good feeling wifyng a girl & always running in to dudes who hav seen your girl naked & fukked your girl.

Try target,Walmart,library and gas station i did :mjlol:

Results were mixed but very enjoyable :ahh:
 

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Nah, this is fact. but that's with people altogether. Why people become expected of things. If you start with a female by using money that's what she will come to expect and when you switch it up she feels betrayed and leaves. That's why it's always best to be who are you.

Its also like when your woman always looked good hair and everything cooked in the beginning of relationship y'all move in and she's not that anymore you feel betrayed. That's why people always complaining about why he/She isn't like that anymore.

Misunderstood ur message as when u hollering at a female
 

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I'll ask the dude who dumb enough to marry her cuz I didn't :russ:

Had to block her cuz she blew up my shyt begging give her chance
Sex not big deal too me when meeting females it happens when it happens but when u playing stupid bout it or playing games or teasing
fukk outta here with that u messing with wrong guy I show no remorse to ur feelings at all

Man that shyt is so dead. Who the fukk gets married after a month? Lmao and she wanted you to marry her for sex. Smh these bytches crazy out here
 

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:ohhh: Elaborate

Basically its always best to be who you are. Guys be like all she want is my money, but you started off catering to her and she became EXPECTED of that. People become expected of things and people can pull it off for a while but you can't fake who you really are for long. Especially when you move in. You use to your woman always cooking and looking spectacular and now she walking around like she don't give a fukk, but that's who she really is, but you became EXPECTED of an illusion she was giving now you feel betrayed.

It takes a lifetime to know a person and people move too fast, that they forget the friendship stage is most key, but when me and a female goes out, I won't take her to no fancy restaurant, I'll take her to the library we'll get books read and talk, cause this who I really am. I'm showing her the real and if she accepts it cool, if not cool too. Its always best get a person to like you for who you are, that's why its cheating in the world cause you don't truly like the person you're with.
 
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