Basically its always best to be who you are. Guys be like all she want is my money, but you started off catering to her and she became EXPECTED of that. People become expected of things and people can pull it off for a while but you can't fake who you really are for long. Especially when you move in. You use to your woman always cooking and looking spectacular and now she walking around like she don't give a fukk, but that's who she really is, but you became EXPECTED of an illusion she was giving now you feel betrayed.
It takes a lifetime to know a person and people move too fast, that they forget the friendship stage is most key, but when me and a female goes out, I won't take her to no fancy restaurant, I'll take her to the library we'll get books read and talk, cause this who I really am. I'm showing her the real and if she accepts it cool, if not cool too. Its always best get a person to like you for who you are, that's why its cheating in the world cause you don't truly like the person you're with.