Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Poitier]

@Poitier Are you going to be nice?

yes

 

[Raava]

yes

Lol meant to post this in the random thoughts. Ok

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Your well being as a man mentally and physically are the mist important as well as spiritually. As a man you have to build your world that means building yourself up along the way. Gone ate the day were a women would build with you. All you have is yourself.

There are some out there. Majority are either married with a Family or Have built something with somebody Already

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Bro, that isn't positivity; it's vanity. And the black community needs less of that.

Having a baby isn't an accomplishment, nor, something to be lionized over.

Same with Beyonce. Just take a pic with your family, not pose like some idol to be worshipped.

How come its not

 

[Dreamzeedream]

meh. how many females do you know really working on themselves in order to attract nikkas though? ask yourself that
im a big supporter of working on yourself but not for females. if a female aint gonna fukk with you and be patient with you as you get over your shortcomings then she can eat a dikk when you finally get over said shortcomings

its a lot of women that aint shyt, dissing dudes who need to work on themselves when if anything they should be helping build one another up. and thats where loyalty comes in.

its a lot,



Edit: I don't know any personally

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Just the desire for female validation. We quoted back & forth on this before, the "put my head down, work on myself" thing but there's days/moments where I'm like "am I really THAT bad to have nobody on me?" But objectively speaking I don't offer much so yes I am, at least for a woman worth being around/looking at. So there's basically a tug of war between those two states of mind.

And how has it helped me physically or mentally?

I be feeling the way breh. How's your self esteem

And both physically & Mentally




EDIT: just stay focused and keep trying with the women breh. Your going to have ur up's and Down.
But that's parts of the process

 

[Easy-E]

How come its not

The little fact that there's seven billion ppl on the planet.

Might sound cold, tho.

 

[Deafheaven]

unless you have some type of disability pertaining to giving birth that shyt isn't an accomplishment

fukk without a rubber with a chick not on bc grats youre a father

 

[WheatThins]

brehs, tell me if i did the right thing here + advice. girl 1, girl 2, met both on tinder around the same time/same day.

girl 1 gives me her number and we text, girl 2 follows on insta and i follow back. i ask them both out and both of them say yes. girl 2 suggests saturday (today), and girl 1 has to work sunday, so now im knowing these are gonna be on the same day. tricky, right?

girl 1 is very responsive, always responds within 1-2 hours. because of this, i asked girl 2 out first with a concrete date/time. girl 2 reads my dm at like 3 PM but doesnt respond for the rest of the day, so i figure she changed her mind about saturday. i hit girl 1 up around 8pm, after saying fukk it about girl 2, had the whole date scheduled with girl 1 by 10 PM.

girl 2 dms me back at around 1:30 today for a date i suggested start at 6. i tell her i cant now cause i scheduled to meet with friends when i didnt hear back.

im thinking me and girl 2 have more in common, not gonna lie she's bad too, but im trying to be better at going for who actually shows that they like me rather than chasing blindly, so even though i prob want girl 2 more, girl 1 is "better" for me. how do i hit girl 2 back up to try and schedule another date? worth it or leave it alone? i dont feel wrong for being "busy" after she took so long to reply however.

girl 2 is weird, immediately followed me and started liking my pics right after we matched, but then when playing cold shoulder when i actually tried to make some non-digital off the mobile app magic happen

 

[twan83]

brehs, tell me if i did the right thing here + advice. girl 1, girl 2, met both on tinder around the same time/same day.

girl 1 gives me her number and we text, girl 2 follows on insta and i follow back. i ask them both out and both of them say yes. girl 2 suggests saturday (today), and girl 1 has to work sunday, so now im knowing these are gonna be on the same day. tricky, right?

girl 1 is very responsive, always responds within 1-2 hours. because of this, i asked girl 2 out first with a concrete date/time. girl 2 reads my dm at like 3 PM but doesnt respond for the rest of the day, so i figure she changed her mind about saturday. i hit girl 1 up around 8pm, after saying fukk it about girl 2, had the whole date scheduled with girl 1 by 10 PM.

girl 2 dms me back at around 1:30 today for a date i suggested start at 6. i tell her i cant now cause i scheduled to meet with friends when i didnt hear back.

im thinking me and girl 2 have more in common, not gonna lie she's bad too, but im trying to be better at going for who actually shows that they like me rather than chasing blindly, so even though i prob want girl 2 more, girl 1 is "better" for me. how do i hit girl 2 back up to try and schedule another date? worth it or leave it alone? i dont feel wrong for being "busy" after she took so long to reply however.

girl 2 is weird, immediately followed me and started liking my pics right after we matched, but then when playing cold shoulder when i actually tried to make some non-digital off the mobile app magic happen

U can still hit up girl 2 at later day but after that she does same shyt
Don't let girl 2 being bad justify anything and cuz u want her a lot
She feeling u enough she will make it happen

like I said before only reason to give another shot cuz she responded if she didn't I my time is valuable and u have to earn it not the other way around

If anything and u can handle it add another to roster on a 10 day contract in case u release her cuz that 10 day girl could be on par as girl 1 (only do it if u can juggle and don't mind another on roster)

 

[Deafheaven]

brehs, tell me if i did the right thing here + advice. girl 1, girl 2, met both on tinder around the same time/same day.

girl 1 gives me her number and we text, girl 2 follows on insta and i follow back. i ask them both out and both of them say yes. girl 2 suggests saturday (today), and girl 1 has to work sunday, so now im knowing these are gonna be on the same day. tricky, right?

girl 1 is very responsive, always responds within 1-2 hours. because of this, i asked girl 2 out first with a concrete date/time. girl 2 reads my dm at like 3 PM but doesnt respond for the rest of the day, so i figure she changed her mind about saturday. i hit girl 1 up around 8pm, after saying fukk it about girl 2, had the whole date scheduled with girl 1 by 10 PM.

girl 2 dms me back at around 1:30 today for a date i suggested start at 6. i tell her i cant now cause i scheduled to meet with friends when i didnt hear back.

im thinking me and girl 2 have more in common, not gonna lie she's bad too, but im trying to be better at going for who actually shows that they like me rather than chasing blindly, so even though i prob want girl 2 more, girl 1 is "better" for me. how do i hit girl 2 back up to try and schedule another date? worth it or leave it alone? i dont feel wrong for being "busy" after she took so long to reply however.

girl 2 is weird, immediately followed me and started liking my pics right after we matched, but then when playing cold shoulder when i actually tried to make some non-digital off the mobile app magic happen

Always go for the girl that makes it easier for you. Who cares how bad a chick is if she making you jump through 800 hoops to just see her.

 

[Youseenmywork]

There are some out there. Majority are either married with a Family or Have built something with somebody Already

Not in this generation it was a lot more prevalent in my grandmother's generation to watch a man get better like watching an assemble line. This generation NO

 

[Shadow King]

I be feeling the way breh. How's your self esteem

And both physically & Mentally




EDIT: just stay focused and keep trying with the women breh. Your going to have ur up's and Down.
But that's parts of the process

I guess the shyt is...low? Lol I don't know I don't think I'm worthless but I'm very objective about myself and I know I'm nowhere near where I thought I'd be right now or should be so no I actually don't like myself. I'm not who I should be for ME, but it goes hand in hand with women because we know some traits of masculinity are essential.

I'm stronger physically I started in December and I remember I was frustrated that couldn't pick up much of anything but a lot of progress was made in strength. I don't notice a lot of change aesthetically outside of a little in my arms. My dad mentioned being a little broader across the back but I don't see it.

Mentally lifting gives me agency, a sense of responsibility over a portion of my life I didn't think I could do really. And I get to let off that angst even if it's only a portion.

 

[Mr210]

Always go for the girl that makes it easier for you. Who cares how bad a chick is if she making you jump through 800 hoops to just see her.

Cosign this very powerful

 

[Dreamzeedream]

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