Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I did once before and dont plan on it this time. I brushed all this off but did take notice of those small things she did
I did it once and never again lmfao. shyt got mad awks at work when it was obvious this wasn't bout to be no relationship. Then you got all the nosy ass co workers. nope. never again.
 

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So I'll break this down by the day I guess lol


Friday- at work I get her number, tell her will link Saturday


Saturday- me & my guy slide to her crib.. it's her and her sister... We're kickin back drinking drinks and vibing to some music (she's grinding her azz on me and I'm grabbin her shyt too)... she's flirting too, telling me how cute are babies would be n shyt... we play pool with em then take em home.. I hug her and grip her ass one more time lol

Sunday - I invite her to a movie... we're at the movies and she's cuddled up under my arm, drop her off and hug/grip that ass again

Monday - *This is where shyt got stupid* she invited me over to her crib after work as her and her sister were still unpacking...

I grab a bottle and we start drinking and kicking it..

Then she made a comment about her period or some nasty shyt.. I told her her mouth don't bleed (in a playful way tho)... then it's kinda fuzzy becuz I was fukked up, but she starts going in saying " You're doing too much with comments , and when you grab my ass n all that I don't like all that, this is some friendly shyt"... n she said some more goof shyt but like I said I was fukked up and it's kinda a blur tho...


Today- she comes up to me today at work and says

"Do we have beef, you haven't talked to me in two days"... I said "yeah we got beef" ... I was just playing tho.. then she said " oh I can see you're one of those that hold onto everything, I see you're salty"

:hhh:

Sound like a headache.
Bipolar ass broads.
I woulda charged her
:camby:

You never gone experience the fat ass since she's bullshytting so whats the point?
:yeshrug:

What do you think would make a female flip on some sexual shyt within a two day span


I mean she's out here with no family (except for sister) / friends

I don't get it

Whoa, whoa, whoa. I know we're Hard on Hoes in 2017 but let a married breh step in and add some perspective.

Going off of only what breh typed, I think the "What dat mouth do" type of comment is what fukked the game up :mjlol:

When you're vibing with a chick and she starts giving you all the signs that you're about to smash and/or get some head, sometimes the best thing to do is shut the fukk up and let it happen. In the same way that we preach to brehs to pay no attention to what a woman says and focus on what she does, we gotta hold ourselves accountable for not talking ourselves out of ass when she's giving the right signals too.

It seems like the head comment took her from the fun chick living in the moment to the chick who is afraid to look like a slut. We know the double standard exists and girls that give it up too quick get talked about, whether that's right or wrong. Since breh didn't live in the moment and let it ride, IN HER MIND, he went from a nikka who gets p*ssy and doesn't trip off of it, to one who potentially runs his mouth or judges girls for giving it up.

I guarantee that while we're like "bytch is playing games :camby:"

She was sittin in the crib like "I wanted to give him the ass, why'd he have to open his mouth :mindblown:"

I say that because even as a breh who has been married for 7 years, I gotta still be seductive with my WIFE. Meaning, I can be super direct if she's turned on already, but if we're still getting warmed up, it has to be more cat and mouse and less "What dat mouth do". That way, her brain can turn off and she can just feel the moment and whatever is happening in her body.

So multiply that by the fact that he just met ol' girl, plus breh said he was fukked up and his memory is fuzzy so he probably was more reckless than he remembers :mjlol:

Just my perspective. That story read more like she was activating her anti-slut defense more than playing games. It's not necessarily logical, but it's why men are men and women are women.

Breh should have just maintained the vibe that got him on the couch drinking and staring down the barrel of some new p*ssy in the first place.
 

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So I'll break this down by the day I guess lol


Friday- at work I get her number, tell her will link Saturday


Saturday- me & my guy slide to her crib.. it's her and her sister... We're kickin back drinking drinks and vibing to some music (she's grinding her azz on me and I'm grabbin her shyt too)... she's flirting too, telling me how cute are babies would be n shyt... we play pool with em then take em home.. I hug her and grip her ass one more time lol

Sunday - I invite her to a movie... we're at the movies and she's cuddled up under my arm, drop her off and hug/grip that ass again

Monday - *This is where shyt got stupid* she invited me over to her crib after work as her and her sister were still unpacking...

I grab a bottle and we start drinking and kicking it..

Then she made a comment about her period or some nasty shyt.. I told her her mouth don't bleed (in a playful way tho)... then it's kinda fuzzy becuz I was fukked up, but she starts going in saying " You're doing too much with comments , and when you grab my ass n all that I don't like all that, this is some friendly shyt"... n she said some more goof shyt but like I said I was fukked up and it's kinda a blur tho...


Today- she comes up to me today at work and says

"Do we have beef, you haven't talked to me in two days"... I said "yeah we got beef" ... I was just playing tho.. then she said " oh I can see you're one of those that hold onto everything, I see you're salty"

What u say after that
 

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Whoa, whoa, whoa. I know we're Hard on Hoes in 2017 but let a married breh step in and add some perspective.

Going off of only what breh typed, I think the "What dat mouth do" type of comment is what fukked the game up :mjlol:

When you're vibing with a chick and she starts giving you all the signs that you're about to smash and/or get some head, sometimes the best thing to do is shut the fukk up and let it happen. In the same way that we preach to brehs to pay no attention to what a woman says and focus on what she does, we gotta hold ourselves accountable for not talking ourselves out of ass when she's giving the right signals too.

It seems like the head comment took her from the fun chick living in the moment to the chick who is afraid to look like a slut. We know the double standard exists and girls that give it up too quick get talked about, whether that's right or wrong. Since breh didn't live in the moment and let it ride, IN HER MIND, he went from a nikka who gets p*ssy and doesn't trip off of it, to one who potentially runs his mouth or judges girls for giving it up.

I guarantee that while we're like "bytch is playing games :camby:"

She was sittin in the crib like "I wanted to give him the ass, why'd he have to open his mouth :mindblown:"

I say that because even as a breh who has been married for 7 years, I gotta still be seductive with my WIFE. Meaning, I can be super direct if she's turned on already, but if we're still getting warmed up, it has to be more cat and mouse and less "What dat mouth do". That way, her brain can turn off and she can just feel the moment and whatever is happening in her body.

So multiply that by the fact that he just met ol' girl, plus breh said he was fukked up and his memory is fuzzy so he probably was more reckless than he remembers :mjlol:

Just my perspective. That story read more like she was activating her anti-slut defense more than playing games. It's not necessarily logical, but it's why men are men and women are women.

Breh should have just maintained the vibe that got him on the couch drinking and staring down the barrel of some new p*ssy in the first place.
:ohhh: what should he do now
 

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wasn't really anything sexual on the table. You drunk with her and grabbed her ass. I'm sure thats shyts happened dozens of times to a chick like that. You studied long and studied wrong my breh. Shoulda pounced on that shyt and saw what she was about off jump. Thats why I said kiss that silly broad. Then you went to the movies :snoop: (never go to the movies with a chick you haven't at least smashed yet. it does nothing to build attraction) and to top it off all you did was grab her ass again when you should have at least tried to kiss her. I would just move on at this point but if you really want to fukk ol girl you have to ignore her for a few weeks at least so she can get the soft ass behavior you have been exhibiting out of her system. But it sounds like you just blew w/e attraction she had for you by trying to be demure. She straight up told you this some friendly shyt. bad sign. I'd forget about her tbh. I don't mean to come off too rash but I used to fall into these traps too so I'm just trying to convey how pointless this situation is how it could have been avoided.
You ain't lying... you might be right...

She was also sayin little shyt on Saturday.. tellin her sister we'd have cute babies n stupid lil shyt like that... for sure thought the p*ssy was a lay up :mjcry:
 

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Whoa, whoa, whoa. I know we're Hard on Hoes in 2017 but let a married breh step in and add some perspective.

Going off of only what breh typed, I think the "What dat mouth do" type of comment is what fukked the game up :mjlol:

When you're vibing with a chick and she starts giving you all the signs that you're about to smash and/or get some head, sometimes the best thing to do is shut the fukk up and let it happen. In the same way that we preach to brehs to pay no attention to what a woman says and focus on what she does, we gotta hold ourselves accountable for not talking ourselves out of ass when she's giving the right signals too.

It seems like the head comment took her from the fun chick living in the moment to the chick who is afraid to look like a slut. We know the double standard exists and girls that give it up too quick get talked about, whether that's right or wrong. Since breh didn't live in the moment and let it ride, IN HER MIND, he went from a nikka who gets p*ssy and doesn't trip off of it, to one who potentially runs his mouth or judges girls for giving it up.

I guarantee that while we're like "bytch is playing games :camby:"

She was sittin in the crib like "I wanted to give him the ass, why'd he have to open his mouth :mindblown:"

I say that because even as a breh who has been married for 7 years, I gotta still be seductive with my WIFE. Meaning, I can be super direct if she's turned on already, but if we're still getting warmed up, it has to be more cat and mouse and less "What dat mouth do". That way, her brain can turn off and she can just feel the moment and whatever is happening in her body.

So multiply that by the fact that he just met ol' girl, plus breh said he was fukked up and his memory is fuzzy so he probably was more reckless than he remembers :mjlol:

Just my perspective. That story read more like she was activating her anti-slut defense more than playing games. It's not necessarily logical, but it's why men are men and women are women.

Breh should have just maintained the vibe that got him on the couch drinking and staring down the barrel of some new p*ssy in the first place.
Yeah the whole vibe changed once I said "that mouth don't bleed tho" :mjcry:
 

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I'm back in my hometown visiting my folks. Theres a chick from a while back who recently moved back here as well, she's staying with her parents:whoo:

We're feeling each other but don't have a place to Fck. I'm staying with my parents and she is too. I'm 23 and she's 22

A hotel is kinda iffy and I feel like I'm too old to be fcking in my car. I'm used to having my own apartment back home to bring women to but I need some ideas for a spot while I'm visiting my parents.
Grab an Air bnb. They are cheap most of the time and you can literally rent an entire house on short notice.
 

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Smashing on a lil woke ass redbone thing thats shaped like prime pinky right now brehs :blessed:

Its pretty wild how much you can upgrade over your ex once you allow yourself to move on
I'm glad I let go. Even though I'm just starting to meet more people and it'll take a while before I make progress. I'm glad I'm moving forward. I just need to express my personality More. I'm funny yet there's more to me. But stepping outside of that can be hard.
 
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