Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I know we're Hard on Hoes in 2017 but let a married breh step in and add some perspective.



:patrice:
I gotta still be seductive with my WIFE. Meaning, I can be super direct if she's turned on already, but if we're still getting warmed up, it has to be more cat and mouse and less "What dat mouth do". That way, her brain can turn off and she can just feel the moment and whatever is happening in her body..

Get Married Brehs....
:wow:
 

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Get Married Brehs....
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I can get basic ass whenever I want, but you're trippin if you think you can keep it sexy for 20+ years with the same woman without staying on your G. A lot of motherfukkers get tired of each other just living together, let alone marriage, kids etc.
 

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I can get basic ass whenever I want, but you're trippin if you think you can keep it sexy for 20+ years with the same woman without staying on your G. A lot of motherfukkers get tired of each other just living together, let alone marriage, kids etc.

I'm not marrying a western woman and staying in the west so I won't face these problems. :yeshrug:

How do you avoid creeping though ? is a much more potent discussion :ohhh:
 

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I'm not marrying a western woman and staying in the west so I won't face these problems. :yeshrug:

How do you avoid creeping though ? is a much more potent discussion :ohhh:
West got nothing to do with it. If you want to bring out a woman's deepest sexuality you gotta tap into her psyche and emotions. Period. At least for the level of sex that I'm satisfied with.

Creeping hasn't really been an issue. It sounds like some corny shyt, but with the level of connection that you get from building your kingdom and vision of life with a woman, it makes other women seem lightweight. I turn my head and almost crash my car every day because there's so many beautiful women. But when you got a woman at the crib that you've been through wars with and who wants you to own her in bed on some Mortal Kombat your soul is mine shyt, it's not that hard. Don't get me wrong, wondering about the thrill of the hunt is always there, but it's not as big a deal if you use that energy toward your woman and putting her on to something new, while demanding more of her. Which was the point of the original joint that you bolded.
 

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West got nothing to do with it. If you want to bring out a woman's deepest sexuality you gotta tap into her psyche and emotions. Period. At least for the level of sex that I'm satisfied with.

Creeping hasn't really been an issue. It sounds like some corny shyt, but with the level of connection that you get from building your kingdom and vision of life with a woman, it makes other women seem lightweight. I turn my head and almost crash my car every day because there's so many beautiful women. But when you got a woman at the crib that you've been through wars with and who wants you to own her in bed on some Mortal Kombat your soul is mine shyt, it's not that hard. Don't get me wrong, wondering about the thrill of the hunt is always there, but it's not as big a deal if you use that energy toward your woman and putting her on to something new, while demanding more of her. Which was the point of the original joint that you bolded.

That requires more vigilance than I'd like. Whereas a third world chick
submits to my will without question freeing my time/mind to deal with real sh!t

Nah, corny or not. It's lit but I can't relate to the connection/mantra about
building with anyone .... as I'm a lonewolf . I still appreciate the insight
and getting a glimpse into married life even if i'm team #GMB/HOH
 

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That requires more vigilance than I'd like. Whereas a third world chick
submits to my will without question freeing my time/mind to deal with real sh!t

Nah, corny or not. It's lit but I can't relate to the connection/mantra about
building with anyone .... as I'm a lonewolf . I still appreciate the insight
and getting a glimpse into married life even if i'm team #GMB/HOH

Yeah, even more than submission alone, I'm talking some connection shyt. That lonewolf life is definitely a big difference, so I see what you mean. Word, this is what it's about though. Soldiers on different paths telling stories :wow:
 

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Aight this chick is down to meet, and all but I just wanna fukk....I suggested we "hang out and chill" and she responded hand out and chill where? Really don't wanna take her back to my place but don't wanna say get a room, cause i know some our flaky...suggestions?
 

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Aight Yall here comes my overthinking ass lol;

Broke the ice with a chick at work today (yeah I know the add age but this is a job not a career), it actually didn't go as planned but I still got her name anyway. I only did this cause we've made frequent eye contact before but it was definitely outside of my comfort zone. Can't take 3-5 minutes to chop it up in what I do but I'm introverted anyway so I just said it was nice to meet you and went about my business for a little bit. We were working in the same area pretty much.

After a little while I come back to hear her talking to another woman about how she's a serious type of girl who doesn't give her number out often but I guess somebody in there felt comfortable to ask. So I make sure to poke fun at it like, "Well can I ask?" She laughed out an "Oh my God" but I wasn't gonna stand around for a full-blown it was just an in-the moment joke to plant the seed.

A few minutes later I'm like, "I guess that oh my god was a no, huh?" And she says I don't like to give my number out, I get asked a lot and I feel bad so I just don't give it out. So I say oh I see, it's cool.

At the end of the shift everyone is leaving but she works a position that had her busy 10-15 minutes after me. So before I bounce I say, "You sure you can't make an exception?" She smiles and goes, "Not at the moment."

So should I collect on the rain check tomorrow, play it on some see you when I see you again shyt, or y'all think she's playing?
 

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Aight Yall here comes my overthinking ass lol;

Broke the ice with a chick at work today (yeah I know the add age but this is a job not a career), it actually didn't go as planned but I still got her name anyway. I only did this cause we've made frequent eye contact before but it was definitely outside of my comfort zone. Can't take 3-5 minutes to chop it up in what I do but I'm introverted anyway so I just said it was nice to meet you and went about my business for a little bit. We were working in the same area pretty much.

After a little while I come back to hear her talking to another woman about how she's a serious type of girl who doesn't give her number out often but I guess somebody in there felt comfortable to ask. So I make sure to poke fun at it like, "Well can I ask?" She laughed out an "Oh my God" but I wasn't gonna stand around for a full-blown it was just an in-the moment joke to plant the seed.

A few minutes later I'm like, "I guess that oh my god was a no, huh?" And she says I don't like to give my number out, I get asked a lot and I feel bad so I just don't give it out. So I say oh I see, it's cool.

At the end of the shift everyone is leaving but she works a position that had her busy 10-15 minutes after me. So before I bounce I say, "You sure you can't make an exception?" She smiles and goes, "Not at the moment."

So should I collect on the rain check tomorrow, play it on some see you when I see you again shyt, or y'all think she's playing?

Nah breh, let her be. You asked three times and every time she either laughed or said no.
 

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I was end up talking to chicks with mad baggage :francis:

I was talking to this girl who seemed mad cool...until she revealed she had a stalker ex bf :dame:

She was asking for me advice and I gave it to her. I told her to get her family involved or the legal system...shorty wasn't tryna listen though :manny:

I ended up deleting and blocking her # fukk I look like getting shot over a chick that ain't my blood :gucci:
 

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I read not at the moment as she got a situation with another dude, or she's not looking for anything right now.
I guess I'm on that "shoot your shot" shyt nikkas swear by on here lol cause I'll see tomorrow, I'll either comment "I'm waiting on my moment" or suggest taking my number instead and if it's still a laugh/non-definitive response then bushes.

I stepped this far outta my box I gotta catch this Hadouken to the heart on my own terms :mjcry:
 
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