Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I guess I'm on that "shoot your shot" shyt nikkas swear by on here lol cause I'll see tomorrow, I'll either comment "I'm waiting on my moment" or suggest taking my number instead and if it's still a laugh/non-definitive response then bushes.

I stepped this far outta my box I gotta catch this Hadouken to the heart on my own terms :mjcry:
Do whatever you gotta do to feel right with it breh. Last thing you want is to wonder what-if. This thread has a salute, a hug or a kick in the ass each step of the way, win, lose, or draw :wow:


























































But know that sexual harassment complaints at work seem embarrassing as fukk :ufdup:
 

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I guess I'm on that "shoot your shot" shyt nikkas swear by on here lol cause I'll see tomorrow, I'll either comment "I'm waiting on my moment" or suggest taking my number instead and if it's still a laugh/non-definitive response then bushes.

I stepped this far outta my box I gotta catch this Hadouken to the heart on my own terms :mjcry:
dont sound like its gonna be successful breh but i know that feel, good luck :mjcry:

also, if this is at your job, you dont know this girl from an apple on a tree. she might report you to hr or some shyt if you keep asking. just be nice and she'll give you the opportunity when she wants

But know that sexual harassment complaints at work seem embarrassing as fukk :ufdup:

was just thinking the same thing. girls always times 10 exaggerate whatever you did so yeah, at first its just "waiting for my moment", next thing you reading the hr report like "he said he was waiting for his moment and now im scared to leave work without security walking me to my car."

dont fukk with chicks at work/school, had a couple of bad experiences, end up having stonewall hoes to save your integrity, which makes all yall look stupid anyway
 

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Do whatever you gotta do to feel right with it breh. Last thing you want is to wonder what-if. This thread has a salute, a hug or a kick in the ass each step of the way, win, lose, or draw :wow:


























































But know that sexual harassment complaints at work seem embarrassing as fukk :ufdup:

dont sound like its gonna be successful breh but i know that feel, good luck :mjcry:

also, if this is at your job, you dont know this girl from an apple on a tree. she might report you to hr or some shyt if you keep asking. just be nice and she'll give you the opportunity when she wants



was just thinking the same thing. girls always times 10 exaggerate whatever you did so yeah, at first its just "waiting for my moment", next thing you reading the hr report like "he said he was waiting for his moment and now im scared to leave work without security walking me to my car."

dont fukk with chicks at work/school, had a couple of bad experiences, end up having stonewall hoes to save your integrity, which makes all yall look stupid anyway
Yeah lemme leave this bytch alone :pachaha: this is just an ego check but I need to sit my ass down and stay to myself like i keep saying (not only at work in general). If I was that nikka I'd have her number.
 
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Aight Yall here comes my overthinking ass lol;

Broke the ice with a chick at work today (yeah I know the add age but this is a job not a career), it actually didn't go as planned but I still got her name anyway. I only did this cause we've made frequent eye contact before but it was definitely outside of my comfort zone. Can't take 3-5 minutes to chop it up in what I do but I'm introverted anyway so I just said it was nice to meet you and went about my business for a little bit. We were working in the same area pretty much.

After a little while I come back to hear her talking to another woman about how she's a serious type of girl who doesn't give her number out often but I guess somebody in there felt comfortable to ask. So I make sure to poke fun at it like, "Well can I ask?" She laughed out an "Oh my God" but I wasn't gonna stand around for a full-blown it was just an in-the moment joke to plant the seed.

A few minutes later I'm like, "I guess that oh my god was a no, huh?" And she says I don't like to give my number out, I get asked a lot and I feel bad so I just don't give it out. So I say oh I see, it's cool.

At the end of the shift everyone is leaving but she works a position that had her busy 10-15 minutes after me. So before I bounce I say, "You sure you can't make an exception?" She smiles and goes, "Not at the moment."

So should I collect on the rain check tomorrow, play it on some see you when I see you again shyt, or y'all think she's playing?


Damn bro

Leave that ho alone
You seemed desperate
Play it cool everytime.
 

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Yeah lemme leave this bytch alone :pachaha: this is just an ego check but I need to sit my ass down and stay to myself like i keep saying (not only at work in general). If I was that nikka I'd have her number.
the great thing about women at work/school is that they are literally going nowhere :pachaha:

no need to rush. if they want you, cool. if not, mind your biz, improve yourself over however long you're there and watch what happens. even if you don't hit, that look they give when you got your shyt together and then they're the ones too embarrassed to step to you :mjgrin: that's what you want

gotta couple of girls who rejected me who have no choice but to look at me longingly cause now my game has surpassed their's.
 

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We can't have our phones on the floor so she can't really stop what she's doing to give the number but yeah fukk this bytch.

asking a chick out three times isn't some desperate end of the world shyt homie. but thats usually the limit to if you are wasting your time or not. Real talk I had been so fukked up being with my ex i forgot how enjoyable a woman who really into and thinks youre dope as shyt could be. they literally make being with you a huge priority so aim to get something like that. If you need to ask a chick out 3 times (in person as if you trying online its more expected to get vetted longer) she MIGHT be attracted to you but its a low ass attraction and do you really want the bullshyt of building her attraction from a 5 to a 8 when you can go find someone who thinks youre a 7 and quickly get that up to a 9-10 and have her falling over herself to be with you
 

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asking a chick out three times isn't some desperate end of the world shyt homie. but thats usually the limit to if you are wasting your time or not. Real talk I had been so fukked up being with my ex i forgot how enjoyable a woman who really into and thinks youre dope as shyt could be. they literally make being with you a huge priority so aim to get something like that. If you need to ask a chick out 3 times (in person as if you trying online its more expected to get vetted longer) she MIGHT be attracted to you but its a low ass attraction and do you really want the bullshyt of building her attraction from a 5 to a 8 when you can go find someone who thinks youre a 7 and quickly get that up to a 9-10 and have her falling over herself to be with you
Yeah its not the end of the world but you right; 3 strikes you out. There's nothing else to say. But this just proves what I knew; eye contact means nothing, and I need to still keep t9 myself, cause right now I'm not a 9 or 10 to anybody, at least not anyone who's any bit cute. Just keep grinding with myself and to hell with these girls for a while.
 

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Yeah its not the end of the world but you right; 3 strikes you out. There's nothing else to say. But this just proves what I knew; eye contact means nothing, and I need to still keep t9 myself, cause right now I'm not a 9 or 10 to anybody, at least not anyone who's any bit cute. Just keep grinding with myself and to hell with these girls for a while.

The cool thing about being a man is you can always find some way to improve yourself and this can continue until the day you die. We appreciate much better than women. Like in high school I was completely bytchless outside of a week long gf :mjlol: but I'm about to be 27 this month and eventually built myself into the type of man that would attract the women I think are beautiful. Now I'm not a gigolo or nathin but I consistently pull like 7-8s and I'm a short black dude who does makeup lmfao. find your lane and destroy that shyt. I figured out I can get a lot of play being that pretty mysterious worldly nikka and I've ate well. most byrds say I remind them of prince on first reaction, can't get a better compliment for what I'm going for than that. I say find some direction and attack it. Women love a nikka who loves himself.
 

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Moving this coming week and just working on self improvement and stacking money lately.

When I say self improvement I mean it. I'm thinking of getting veneers.

Not ready to get out there yet. I've holla'd at a few chicks but I've been nonchalant since the breakup.
 
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