Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[King & Duck]

Is it abnormal for couples not to say goodnight when away from each other

Depends

How long y'all gonna be away from each other?

 

[Lo-Co]

no pedestalization from this guy.

i have value too bihhhhhhhhhhh

 

[reserved_one]

What lingo/Jokes did chick 1 Use?.


Chicks 2&3 were Not L's but as far as Chick 5. Have yall talked about taking things further?

It was a joke about her knowing one of my cousins and fukking him. I thought she was serious at first because I really do have cousins that live out here.

She gave me the and said we all joke like that up here. Said I was a lame then wanted me to leave, so I did.


I deleted her number afterwards because I had no intentions of talking to her again.
Weeks later, she hit me out the blue without even knowing who she was. She caught feelings because I didn't recognize her and deleted her number.


"You better put my number back in your phone and don't delete it again"


I was thinking this bytch got some got damn nerve

Times go by again and she hits me up asking if I found a job.


I just got tired of her antics. Also it didn't make no better that she would talk shyt about no good black men all day long but then get with those same black men


fukk all of that.

 

[Deafheaven]

I gotta be real with myself....I think I'm taking a L by wasting my time with this chick I been on 3 dates with. Actually, just about every date I been on since moved close to Chicago has been a L except one which ended with a chick giving me top in her car lol but that's besides the point.

Chick #1- Black, nice curves, etc...thought I was lame for not catching on to the lingo/jokes her and the locals use. A drama queen who posts all her turmoil on the internet.

Chick #2 - We were cool before I moved out here. Eventually, I took her out and her baby daddy ended up showing up dropping her baby off at Applebees. I cut her off

Chick #3 - Went out for drinks, was very flirtatious and ended up getting head without trying. She ended up working things out with her ex dude

Chick #4 - Black, slim with grey hair dye who was a starving artist. She turnt out to be a bedwench and only wanted white men only.


Chick #5 who I been on 3 consecutive dates with. We been talking it seems since late last year. Our 3rd date was this past Friday and we went out to eat. Then we talked afterwards for hours. It feels like she's starting to open up to me alot more and our chemistry seems to be growing but at the sametime its like things are going at a snail pace. I know Ima get clowned for this and rightfully so but fukk it..we haven't even kissed yet.

And its not like im not being aggressive but its like she's either afraid or not interested into taking things further. My guy told me maybe she just wanna take things slow but damn..I don't know what to do. Its not like im rushing to get into a relationship with her but after the 3rd fukking date..you would think something exciting would happen.

Sometimes it feels like im wasting time with her knowing she may just end up just being a friend. We barely get a chance to see each other but we talk every other day on messenger.

Im thinking about cutting back on the communication and slowly start to distance myself

Next time you with ol girl you must try to kiss her. Try not to waste your time further. If shes attracted to you at all shell kiss you back. If not bushes

 

[reserved_one]

you need to hedge your bets and keep a backup...

And keep the convos short or non existent...

She might be feeling you heavy, but you gotta make her miss you

Yeah, I was thinking of getting me a backup but I haven't been putting alot of effort into doing that. Girl #5 is the only one I still talk to from the group and we do have a connection, I just don't know how serious it is.

She's been on the dating scene since last fall, so it hasn't been very long that she's been single. But she tells me that she doesn't talk to her ex anymore and just spends all of her time working, hanging with her girls or at home. She's also older than me, doesn't have any children and is nearing 30.

It seems like I'm the one who always makes the first move such as texting, calling her first. She'll always respond but i'm thinking about taking a backseat and let her come to me.

 

[reserved_one]

Next time you with ol girl you must try to kiss her. Try not to waste your time further. If shes attracted to you at all shell kiss you back. If not bushes

Yeah....whenever we decide to hang out again, ima go for it. I was going to do it the last time I was with her.

I grabbed her chin and was about to go all in but she started acting weird saying this is what she does to her dog and started giggling.

Even my pops was like "You didn't get no sugar"?

All I can do was . I never had to deal with a chick that was this hard. Its like she's making me work for it or something lol smh

 

[360dagod]

Yeah, I was thinking of getting me a backup but I haven't been putting alot of effort into doing that. Girl #5 is the only one I still talk to from the group and we do have a connection, I just don't know how serious it is.

She's been on the dating scene since last fall, so it hasn't been very long that she's been single. But she tells me that she doesn't talk to her ex anymore and just spends all of her time working, hanging with her girls or at home. She's also older than me, doesn't have any children and is nearing 30.

It seems like I'm the one who always makes the first move such as texting, calling her first. She'll always respond but i'm thinking about taking a backseat and let her come to me.

thats a tough one...

She might wanna be "free"depending on how long her and her ex were together..

There are some red flags there..

nearing 30
just got out of a relationship
history of ex{long term/short term} or exes{how many}??

You gonna have to be all in and take the chance of being a "rebound" and/or dealing with the potential debris left behind by the ex/exes...

The 1st nikka after the breakup is always the rebound whether it be thru fwb or an actual relationship..

And always listen to the clues that women give about their exes...

 

[Lo-Co]

i swear talking to women isnt as hard as some dudes think it is. im not progressing a lot. even though its a part of the game. yet some dudes are too focused on the end game to even make strides.
just live in the moment. thats it. talk.

best of luck.

 

[Jack Michaelson]

Went out with the chick I posted about last week and shyt went pretty good, there was some kissing and shyt that went down but that's all...so far.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

gets boring after awhile, especially when they dont bite at times

I get the non biting types

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Yeah, I was thinking of getting me a backup but I haven't been putting alot of effort into doing that. Girl #5 is the only one I still talk to from the group and we do have a connection, I just don't know how serious it is.

She's been on the dating scene since last fall, so it hasn't been very long that she's been single. But she tells me that she doesn't talk to her ex anymore and just spends all of her time working, hanging with her girls or at home. She's also older than me, doesn't have any children and is nearing 30.

It seems like I'm the one who always makes the first move such as texting, calling her first. She'll always respond but i'm thinking about taking a backseat and let her come to me.

Take a back seat and let her text/call you. I bet she talking to another dude at the moment. Like other brehs said charge her to the game.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Yeah....whenever we decide to hang out again, ima go for it. I was going to do it the last time I was with her.

I grabbed her chin and was about to go all in but she started acting weird saying this is what she does to her dog and started giggling.

Even my pops was like "You didn't get no sugar"?

All I can do was . I never had to deal with a chick that was this hard. Its like she's making me work for it or something lol smh

This girl sounds goofy as hell. If a woman giving you a hard time throw her ass in the bushes and find one that is easy. Women are not suppose to give you a hard time.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Im so used to females rejecting/ignoring/not feeling me that idk when a chick is feeling me. What are some signs a woman is interested in you? Last night I went out to the club to talk to women (I talked to 12 women that night one asked me if I had coke told her no she doesn't count) and do my thing, some tall Haitian breh pulled me aside and told me Im "too aggressive" and I need to relax. But the thing is dude was standing there the whole night like other dudes not talking to any chicks. I think he was trying to throw salt in my game. I lost interest in the chicks I talk to and didn't even want to ask for their numbers.

 

[Mr210]

Went out with the chick I posted about last week and shyt went pretty good, there was some kissing and shyt that went down but that's all...so far.

Where did you go

 

[delta]

Im so used to females rejecting/ignoring/not feeling me that idk when a chick is feeling me. What are some signs a woman is interested in you? Last night I went out to the club to talk to women (I talked to 12 women that night one asked me if I had coke told her no she doesn't count) and do my thing, some tall Haitian breh pulled me aside and told me Im "too aggressive" and I need to relax. But the thing is dude was standing there the whole night like other dudes not talking to any chicks. I think he was trying to throw salt in my game. I lost interest in the chicks I talk to and didn't even want to ask for their numbers.

You prob sound like Elliot Rodgers... fall back for a min. And take that L on backpages

Nah but no bullshytting the fact a stranger stopped you is a sign you fukking up badly