Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
Glad you realize. Gotta keep them feelings in check
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
Dog I'm in a fukking jam and its all because I'm stuck in some fake nice guy role. shyt has me in a no getting p*ssy streak.
You guys know what I mean? There is a difference just being a really nice person and a dude just being nice just to get some p*ssy. Like my entire act is fake AF. Its killing me.
Like it was this girl in my class this semester who just said the dumbest shyt upon dumbest shyt. Like all of her opinions were so fukking goofy to me but I just agreed with her on shyt because I was afraid she would cry and everyone would look at me like the ass hole if I just simply threw a wrench in the convo or her opinions
Like she was legit wondering why she has no friends n no one wants to talk to her. I just wanted to be like you're lame.
And ever since then I been in this fake nice guy stick.
You guys know what I mean? There is a difference just being a really nice person and a dude just being nice just to get some p*ssy. Like my entire act is fake AF. Its killing me.
Like it was this girl in my class this semester who just said the dumbest shyt upon dumbest shyt. Like all of her opinions were so fukking goofy to me but I just agreed with her on shyt because I was afraid she would cry and everyone would look at me like the ass hole if I just simply threw a wrench in the convo or her opinions
Like she was legit wondering why she has no friends n no one wants to talk to her. I just wanted to be like you're lame.
And ever since then I been in this fake nice guy stick.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
So stop faking. Seems like an easy answer homie.
Word could be one of those chicks who want guidance and shyt.
I was messing with a chick last summer that would test me saying a bunch of stupid
shyt...constantly wanted someone to tell her to get off her ass and go look for jobs. I remember when she was doing her
game one day I just legit walked away..she tried to follow me a few blocks but I spotted her and she left.shyt I got my own issues I'm not ready to be no damn emotional support and all that life coach shyt.
Damn, I went from pure dikk a$$hole in high school to what youre saying (only dealing with women smh, still a blunt a$$hole elsewhere) ages 21-25. and since then i've been on a no nonsense tip. Like i'm honestly a nice person. but if you are nice then just be nice and don't expect shyt. Like you should be nice in general, not to get some p*ssy. because its always gonna come off as fake. Women have a sixth sense for the shti I'm sure of it. Like you might be able to catch a chick slipping and get her, but eventually your inherent fake niceness gonna catch up to you and shes gonna resent the fukk out of you for it. Like if you ever catch yourself bout to say something like "all I do for you and..." might be wise to not finish the sentence cuz then she gonna put a price on herself pertaining to you and in your silliness you just priced yourself on something that should be free
Never be fake nice to get buns. if a girl stay saying dumb shyt tell her. She might be hurt but hey I'm black in america. I'm hurt all day fukk it. And who knows maybe she'll improve her speaking skills for it and appreciate the honesty. Mind you there are nicer ways of saying you are dumb as hell and I'm sure you know that. but yeah
tldr fake nice is not p*ssy condusive, and if you do get puss you won't keep it
Me too brother me too
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
Yes.
Maybe she was looking for a free meal? thats if you took her out to eat or something.
i had great dates (in my opinion) and never hear from them again.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
We also can't let our ego lull us into thinking that we're out here building rosters of chicks while every one of them is sitting around waiting for our call. Single life is fluid. She could be spending time with me one day, but then the right dude says the right thing to her tomorrow
That's not even accounting for exes or dudes that got away popping back up.
Yeah it's not like I didn't have another three dates this week myself.We also can't let our ego lull us into thinking that we're out here building rosters of chicks while every one of them is sitting around waiting for our call. Single life is fluid. She could be spending time with me one day, but then the right dude says the right thing to her tomorrow
That's not even accounting for exes or dudes that got away popping back up.
I don't get the point of unmatching if I still have her number and she didn't block me on WhatsApp. It's not like I was going to use Tinder for contacting her again. I got her number right away, and she contacted me on the day of the date through WhatsApp.
Can't lie, shyt hurts a bit anyway, cause she was the best of this week's batch.
I guess I am asking should I stroke her ego by texting her a week later. But deep down I know the answer.
Dreamzeedream
Banned
Have u talked to her since. She probably just unmatched you cuz y'all met up already. Basically what @True Blue Moon said
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Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
I unmatch shorties all the time after I get their number and have met them already. I think you're overthinking this. Hit her up and set up another date. If she's receptive, then you'll know.
KingOFKings
All Star
The thing is. It is SUCH a fine line, that it almost can't be seen. For the most part this is the way to be...yet you see a lot of couples hooking up where the guy was showing thirst..and sometimes that thirst works. It can get confusing.