yeah i'm far too indifferent to children to want to be serious with someone who has one. They fine and all but keep those gremlins away from me.

I think I'm going to holla at all light skin girls this week.
no discrimination, just want to see something.What do yall do when you catch a woman staring?
How do you make sure if it's aand not a
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I use to really get sad and depressed over this girl. But now I see that she isn't for me.
We have far too different PoVs and ways of looking at life to ever work.
I'm obsessed with love, creativity and music.
She just wants to be happy and have a basic normal life. And if I was with her I know that what is meant for me in life wouldn't happen cause I would have sacrificed my life for hers. I have too much to see and do for me to be happy just being normal. I understand that now.
I loved her for a season and she was just a lesson. I'm happy because it doesn't hurt anymore.
make sure shes checking u out and not looking at you on some "wtf is this dude wearing". the funny thing is when they look at u like men look at women.
I need an example lol... I used to be heavy for the last couple of years so idk how to differentiate the looks 
I need an example lol... I used to be heavy for the last couple of years so idk how to differentiate the looks
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What do yall do when you catch a woman staring?
How do you make sure if it's aand not a
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If you want to gauge the level of a woman's interest in you, it will be based on her response to one question: what are you looking for? Her answer is pretty much how much she likes you. A scale of one to 10.
1. "I'm celibate and waiting for marriage"
She don't like you at all, unless you are offering her end goal.
2. "I'm celibate".
She doesn't like you, but she at least isn't going to coerce you into marriage. You can move on and not waste your time. However, is likely to give it up if you offer commitment
3."I'm looking for marriage"
See #1, except she is willing to smash if you offer her end goal.
4. "I'm looking for something that can possibly lead to marriage"
She is mildly into you. However, she needs to know from the jump at you plan on possibly marrying her for her to continue.
5. "I'm looking for a relationship"
She is also mildly into you, but doesn't mind losing you if you don't offer commitment. However, if you offer the commitment, she's willing to smash before you officially commit.
6. "I'm looking for friendship first"
Once again, mildly into you. This is level 6 because this could mean that she is willing to smash without the possibility of commitment, which is a higher level of Interest, or she could be under the celibate category that is waiting for commitment before she smashes.
7. "I'm looking for friends"
We are heading towards the end of the middle ground. She is into you to a certain extent. If you guys never end up being in a relationship, she is fine with that. If you guys end up being f*** buddies, she could be fine with that too. Regardless, she's going to keep you around if you aren't too pushy.
8. "I'm looking for someone to chill/kick it with" She is very into you, and is letting it be known that you ain't going to have to do much to get her to smash. You coming straight to the crib. Every once in awhile, you guys may order Postmates, GrubHub, etc., but that's about it.
9. "I'm looking for friends with benefits/fukk buddies" She is into you at a very, very high level. You're going to be the one she calls after level 1-5 is done feeding her, taking her rock climbing, or some other ish. She is "taking her time" with them because of you, and if you decided you wanted to be in a relationship, they would get her voicemail from then on.
10. "One night stand"/"To smash"
She is so into you, she's not even going to press on exchanging contact information before she smashes. This treatment is often reserved for the rich/famous You can easily become level 9, but she isn't concerned with if you become a regular.
What level of interest should you require? That's completely up to you
I use to really get sad and depressed over this girl. But now I see that she isn't for me.
We have far too different PoVs and ways of looking at life to ever work.
I'm obsessed with love, creativity and music.
She just wants to be happy and have a basic normal life. And if I was with her I know that what is meant for me in life wouldn't happen cause I would have sacrificed my life for hers. I have too much to see and do for me to be happy just being normal. I understand that now.
I loved her for a season and she was just a lesson. I'm happy because it doesn't hurt anymore.
when you leave his presence, always texting ya phone, Facetiming you, prob being way too clingy. I doubt few can ascend past the beauty and find out what ya mind about, what goals you have.... or some variation)No matter what you say, as long as its said with confidence and full belief, she'll eat it up, especially if she is single. Win/win cause if she's single you're telling her off the bat what you're not gonna do (be clingy and allat) and also subtly acknowledging her beauty w/o too much validation cause you brush it off saying it would be the reason she's single, up until now. If she's taken, nothing lost. Slight compliment to her, prob got a laugh if ya delivery was on point so at least you feel good about the approach.
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to all my brehs in the game, not sitting on the sidelines. Miss 100% of the shots you don't take.I just dropped this in the thread with the meme about not asking a girl if she's single, just doing sucka shyt and "just let her decide". Foh, we don't get stored as "Free weed" or "Free lunch" over here.
But I just wanted to share or discuss an advanced level approach I been using for a year now (only 22) without much fail...
When approaching females I never ask if they have a boyfriend/man, I don't even ask if they're single, here's my approach (reposted):
I always push up on any female as if they don't have a boyfriend..... sometimes I won't ever ask, my game is different so I assume single until proven taken. I'll hit a shorty like " I KNOW you gotta be single, baby girl whats ya number", most, even if they have a bf will humor you and be like why? Now you got em curious and this where you drop some reverse psychology with ya answer using her looks as the reason. (Mines is usually the same; girl with ya looks I know the average nikka be likewhen you leave his presence, always texting ya phone, Facetiming you, prob being way too clingy. I doubt few can ascend past the beauty and find out what ya mind about, what goals you have.... or some variation)No matter what you say, as long as its said with confidence and full belief, she'll eat it up, especially if she is single. Win/win cause if she's single you're telling her off the bat what you're not gonna do (be clingy and allat) and also subtly acknowledging her beauty w/o too much validation cause you brush it off saying it would be the reason she's single, up until now. If she's taken, nothing lost. Slight compliment to her, prob got a laugh if ya delivery was on point so at least you feel good about the approach.
Before this i would get rejected more (And women aren't always rejecting you, rather your approach) but I'm like undefeated using this, minus one older woman who was so shocked I couldn't imagine her with a s/o.... like bytch why would I be trying to.
Anyways, never really post here but Ima become more active cause a lot of good game gets passed along in here, this is just my lil .02 on switching up the approach, making her looks seem like a slight issue ( for other nikkas... not for us playas)
to all my brehs in the game, not sitting on the sidelines. Miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

impressive.


