Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Wild self]

I got me some clippers during the holiday, been giving myself nice haircuts, better than my barber, I just need to perfect my line ups

On the simps, I used to have this lowkey hating asss friend before, I stopped hanging with dude because of his negativity. I bumped in to dude and saw I had improved my wardrobe and rocking some nice jewellery (thanks to the se;f improvement path this thread inspired me to take). His so used to my old self (no style, wack clothes etc) dude started asking what girl are you tryna impress. I looked at the n1gga like he bumped his head I do this for me, I wannabe fly n1gga because thats what I like, I wanna be the man I dreamed about being when I was a kid. Thanks Coli for inspiring me, I'm gonna continue upgrading myself and living the life I like, till the day I die.

On the bolded, you gonna see a lot of bytch made dudes that will keep you down and make them look good, sorta like how chicks keep that ugly friend around them to make them look better. When i grew outta simp mode some years ago, a lot of cats were when I got success and no longer depend on them. That is another part of self-improvement that you gotta keep your eye on: hating ass friends.

 

[Wild self]

That's what we're here for, my dude. You got some chick called 'mi rawtid' in another thread right now (obviously taking shots at us here) talkin' about how we're bitter and all these other usual shaming accusations, when this thread is actually more focused on self improvement than anything else.

When a man awakes from the slumber called simping, it is a woman's worst nightmare cause that is one less dude that she can dupe and control. Women, and even some men, here on The Coli are some ignorant ass people that accuse our advice as "weak" or "useless."

 

[kevm3]

I got me some clippers during the holiday, been giving myself nice haircuts, better than my barber, I just need to perfect my line ups

On the simps, I used to have this lowkey hating asss friend before, I stopped hanging with dude because of his negativity. I bumped in to dude and saw I had improved my wardrobe and rocking some nice jewellery (thanks to the se;f improvement path this thread inspired me to take). His so used to my old self (no style, wack clothes etc) dude started asking what girl are you tryna impress. I looked at the n1gga like he bumped his head I do this for me, I wannabe fly n1gga because thats what I like, I wanna be the man I dreamed about being when I was a kid. Thanks Coli for inspiring me, I'm gonna continue upgrading myself and living the life I like, till the day I die.

Real talk mane, you definitely got to shake them haters from up around you. You did the right thing. The real ones will see you improving and be like mane you out there looking sharp, keep it up. But you also have those low key haters that always got something underhanded to say because they feel threatened. To them, if you're improving, you become more of a threat to them, so they got to try to chop you down with words to keep you stagnant.

It definitely feels lovely sitting back and sharpening your game and being able to look into the mirror and digging what you see. It's quite lovely to do things for yourself and not sitting around waiting for women to validate you. That's how you build real confidence. You use your judgment and make choices and stand on it. So many cats are confused in this day and age because they never learned to develop their own tastes, but instead validate themselves by what some women are saying or what television is saying is hot... and that is always changing, so these negroes are always shifting around and changing with the wind. That's why you got negroes bout 40 years old with a mohawk and in some skinny jeans. They out here following trends, trying to do 'what's hot' and looking extra out of place dressing like being in the age bracket they are in.

Keep it up bruh.

 

[kevm3]

When a man awakes from the slumber called simping, it is a woman's worst nightmare cause that is one less dude that she can dupe and control. Women, and even some men, here on The Coli are some ignorant ass people that accuse our advice as "weak" or "useless."

That's real talk. When you ain't no settle for less negro and you stop going for all the suckerness, then you got the simps and women trying to shame you. But real talk, don't even bother respond. Keep on improving... keep on sharpening yourself and enjoying the results that you've reaped. Like we said way back, don't ever bother arguing with females... and don't bother arguing with the simps either because they are females in male skin. Instead of wasting time going in circular arguments with them and entertaining their negativity, use that to improve another aspect of yourself. Let them talk while you walk the walk.

 

[Wild self]

Real talk mane, you definitely got to shake them haters from up around you. You did the right thing. The real ones will see you improving and be like mane you out there looking sharp, keep it up. But you also have those low key haters that always got something underhanded to say because they feel threatened. To them, if you're improving, you become more of a threat to them, so they got to try to chop you down with words to keep you stagnant.

It definitely feels lovely sitting back and sharpening your game and being able to look into the mirror and digging what you see. It's quite lovely to do things for yourself and not sitting around waiting for women to validate you. That's how you build real confidence. You use your judgment and make choices and stand on it. So many cats are confused in this day and age because they never learned to develop their own tastes, but instead validate themselves by what some women are saying or what television is saying is hot... and that is always changing, so these negroes are always shifting around and changing with the wind. That's why you got negroes bout 40 years old with a mohawk and in some skinny jeans. They out here following trends, trying to do 'what's hot' and looking extra out of place dressing like being in the age bracket they are in.

Keep it up bruh.

Im beginning to think that masculinity is on the ropes altogether. With many masculine men of the 30+ range getting older and not passing down the info to the lost young dudes, masculinity is in danger of being extinct. Like, there is an entire generation of dudes that can't think for their own and don't have an actual hobby. Scary cause if the important info is not passed down to the younger heads soon, shyt like standing up for your dignity/ thinking what others do not/ etc. wil be a thing of the past.

I'm proud of this thread in not just improving men's lives, but a beacon for hope and perservation of masculinity.

 

[Illuminatos]

Unless you find that "Lebron James" level woman, then you don't wife girls up and have kids.

You build franchises with "Lebrons"(starting a family, settling down), you bring in "Shane Battier" types for limited minutes and to hit shots. You never commit nor build anything of significance with "Shane Battier", only the superstars(women who strive for success, responsible, virtuous, etc) get commitment or kids.

That is all

 

[RickyGQ]

w...t....f?

She's like the man...and he's like the woman...I was actually kind of on her side too. it's dude's fault. Dude is acting like a female hoodrat while she's driving, making a scene and everything. He's not giving her the proper options and now she's acting out on him. That's a manly behaving bytch right there...

y'all might disagree with my take on this video but i'm not even 'ing here, it's really up to the man to set the standard. him behaving like a hoochie-mama hoodrat iw forcing her to assume the male role. She may not stay in that relationship for long and when she's with the next dude, this manly attitude that was necessary in her past relationship will be tattooed in her brain and it will be hard to get rid of it. A lot of men will not tolerate her shyt and she'll be another woman complaining about how she can't find a good man. I feel for her because in her toxic relationship the only options she had was either "assume leadership of the relationship or leave him". Those are the only options he gave her... She probably stayed cause she's in love and blablabla but she should have left and not learn bad behavior.


Still her fault for choosing the wrong dude and getting caught up emotionally. But this is what i meant when i said we need to teach our women how to live. This woman gets no leadership or structure from her man. Matter of fact, she's the one who has to provide some for him. But what the fukk does she know about leading a man? it's not her job or her role. It's like the blind leading the blind. They're bound to eventually walk off a cliff...Of course she will be damaged in the next relationship and get rejected because she will be so used to having to dominate her man (for survival) that she won't be able to turn her instincts down and it will be a MAJOR turn off for men of value...

EXACTLY... im tired of dudes constantly blaming the women for when relationships go wrong... ITS ALWAYS YOUR FAULT FELLAS, whether its for choosing a lousy bytch, for not staying on your game or for lettting shyt get out of hand, you have to take responsibility... that's part of being credible... passing off blame is a bytch move imo...

 

[RickyGQ]

Brehs, I don't think I've ever witnessed a bigger L LIVE right in front of me than the story I'm about to tell...

There's a dude at my job (a pretty physical warehouse job) who's 27 years old with 4 kids with his wife... My nikka works about 3 jobs...
1. Our job, he works 10-7pm, and then pulls CRAZY OT every night from 7-11 most of the time... sometimes working till 1 in the morning (like last night)
2. He works at ups from 5 in the morning to 9:30 am before coming back to work
3. Word is he works a third job on the weekends too...

There are countless days when he sleeps in his car and doesn't even take showers. nikka is working all this to buy a house, which in most cases is honorable, but now for the kicker...
His wife DOES NOT WORK.
He drives a shyt car, but he bought her a Range Rover.
He is also paying for a baby sitter... for his wife... WHO. DOESN'T. WORK!


Now, the final fact SHOULDN'T matter that much on it's own but added all together, makes this shyt worse... A dude said he saw him and his wife at walmart a few saturdays ago (he was still in his work uniform) and said his wife was fat and hideous... I couldnt believe it... at least if she was a beyonce type bytch i could rationalize it in my mind as him simping but she don't even look good...

Dude is killing himself for a worthless bytch...

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Video: Give Me My Debit Card: Couple Turning It Up On Each Other!

Not sure why im so angry after watching this video

 

[Turbulent]

Brehs, I don't think I've ever witnessed a bigger L LIVE right in front of me than the story I'm about to tell...

There's a dude at my job (a pretty physical warehouse job) who's 27 years old with 4 kids with his wife... My nikka works about 3 jobs...
1. Our job, he works 10-7pm, and then pulls CRAZY OT every night from 7-11 most of the time... sometimes working till 1 in the morning (like last night)
2. He works at ups from 5 in the morning to 9:30 am before coming back to work
3. Word is he works a third job on the weekends too...

There are countless days when he sleeps in his car and doesn't even take showers. nikka is working all this to buy a house, which in most cases is honorable, but now for the kicker...
His wife DOES NOT WORK.
He drives a shyt car, but he bought her a Range Rover.
He is also paying for a baby sitter... for his wife... WHO. DOESN'T. WORK!


Now, the final fact SHOULDN'T matter that much on it's own but added all together, makes this shyt worse... A dude said he saw him and his wife at walmart a few saturdays ago (he was still in his work uniform) and said his wife was fat and hideous... I couldnt believe it... at least if she was a beyonce type bytch i could rationalize it in my mind as him simping but she don't even look good...

Dude is killing himself for a worthless bytch...

maybe she's extorting him somehow lol

your coworker is not a victim. he's a volunteer...

 

[winb83]

why is it when in a breakup

when a guy breaks a girls heart...he the worst guy in the world he right there with Hitler and bin laden

but when a girl breaks a guy heart..it oh well shyt happens there other bytches

You're finally starting to notice female logic. Doesn't matter what goes in as long as it comes out as woman right man wrong it adheres to female logic.

 

[CrossBones]

That's what we're here for, my dude. You got some chick called 'mi rawtid' in another thread right now (obviously taking shots at us here) talkin' about how we're bitter and all these other usual shaming accusations, when this thread is actually more focused on self improvement than anything else.

on the real, this is one of the realest, most insightful, and low key sometimes one of the funniest threads Ive ever seen. big up to the crew and everyone who knows. everyone else can play the back and keep the drama amongst themselves.

 

[RickyGQ]

maybe she's extorting him somehow lol

your coworker is not a victim. he's a volunteer...

lol oh indeed... idk where he get's this idea of ULTRA masculinity... that shyt is too much man... he LOOKS sickly and malnourished too... nikkas have tried to talk to him but he don't wanna listen... dude is literally killing himself...

 

[CrossBones]

On the bolded, you gonna see a lot of bytch made dudes that will keep you down and make them look good, sorta like how chicks keep that ugly friend around them to make them look better. When i grew outta simp mode some years ago, a lot of cats were when I got success and no longer depend on them. That is another part of self-improvement that you gotta keep your eye on: hating ass friends.

its very real, thats why a man has to have HIS OWN standards, his own code and own goals that are his and his alone. not everyone wants the same thing. as importantly, not everyone wants the same thing for everybody else. if a peer sees you doing well and happy with your own program, then hes automatically going to feel a certain way about it. if hes not as happy with his own life, the easiest thing for him to do is to feel jealousy and try to pull a man down. the hardest thing to do would be to honestly look at himself, see what hes not happy about with, address what needs to be changed, and then do it. theyd rather be crabs most of the time on somebody else, rather than look in the mirror.

 

[Turbulent]

lol oh indeed... idk where he get's this idea of ULTRA masculinity... that shyt is too much man... he LOOKS sickly and malnourished too... nikkas have tried to talk to him but he don't wanna listen... dude is literally killing himself...

i know a dude who often complains about how women treat him, how much he sacrificed in passed relationships and even in passed/current friendships with males and females. and yet he still gets into those types of relationships eventhough he feels that way. I told him a couple of times, you don't have to do shyt in life. it's all your choice. stop being a victim. he's says "you don't understand...blablabla..." After the second time i just let him be. My theory is that dude has a martyrdom complex. Like he's attached to the state of mind of feeling sorry for himself and others feeling sorry for him. so he ensures it continues. the dude from your post might be one of those type dudes too. The feeling of "sacrifice" makes them feel happy and not being appreciated makes them feel even more happy because it makes them a martyr even more.