Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Turbulent]

i'm starting to accept that for most of these women what we call a sense of entitlement is really just the only world they know. saying they feel entitled is like saying you feel entitled to breath.

the world they live in treats them a certain way and they adjust to it. and after a long time of this happening they don't know any other way of life. you're looking at them as a man that sees that you have to go out and earn the money to take the time to take them out and they're looking at this as a woman who lives in a world where men take them out to fancy places. not even as a reward or because they deserve it its just something that happens and that's the way it is.

you say they have a sense of entitlement but it was us who thought them that life for a woman is that way. not us as individuals but as a collective.

"we need to give these bytches another option on how to think."

that shyt wasn't just stuff said to sound funny or hard. It's profound. They were never given another choice.

I've said it too many times but fukk it. the show changed my life

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

I still haven't listened to the last episode yet. What a visionary.

 

[winb83]

"we need to give these bytches another option on how to think."

that shyt wasn't just stuff said to sound funny or hard. It's profound. They were never given another choice.

I've said it too many times but fukk it. the show changed my life

a person that was born into money can see how a a poor person lives and be shown that lifestyle and intellectually understand it but they'll never really know that pain and struggle until they too are poor.

you can't really be given the option to think about something you'll likely never be able to experience because as a human being there's that gap between intellectually understanding something and understanding something from actual experience.

if you've always seen a blue sky and i've always seen a purple one you can tell me the sky is blue. i know that blue looks like and i know you see a blue sky but to me the sky is still purple.

 

[philmonroe]

i'm starting to accept that for most of these women what we call a sense of entitlement is really just the only world they know. saying they feel entitled is like saying you feel entitled to breath.

the world they live in treats them a certain way and they adjust to it. and after a long time of this happening they don't know any other way of life. you're looking at them as a man that sees that you have to go out and earn the money to take the time to take them out and they're looking at this as a woman who lives in a world where men take them out to fancy places. not even as a reward or because they deserve it its just something that happens and that's the way it is.

you say they have a sense of entitlement but it was us who thought them that life for a woman is that way. not us as individuals but as a collective.

I agree with this alot of women are raised like this by guys that can't have sex with them aka dads, brothers, other males in their life. I see it all the time and they expect that treatment from the outside world but it won't work like that just like we not going to find many women that treat us like our moms, sisters, treat us. I think at times that where both sides go wrong at in expecting that but its going to be hard for that to happen esp how both sides look at dating. I mean look at this thread for all of its good honestly we come off as dudes thats just waiting for the knife to be jammed up in us. I feel its hard to be that way but expect everybody else to be so open towards you. I definitely see your point though Winb on this issue.

 

[CrossBones]

The Obsidian Files - Bravenet Blog

this article raises a lot of good points we've talked about and some more.

For those who don't know, All My Babies' Mamas centers on the life and times of Shawty Lo, an Atlanta-based small time hood-turned-rapper/producer, and his relationships with the 11 kids he's sired with 10, well, Baby Mamas.

"The show sends an unrealistic message to Black Men on what it means to be a Man."

Uh, nice try, but no cigar. First, Men - Black or otherwise - are quite clear on what is and is not "realistic" and they understand very well that successful guys like Shawty Lo always have been, and always will be able to, literally write their own reproductive and evolutionary ticket (*cough, Ghengis Khan, the Sultan of Siam, Osama bin Laden AND his daddy, cough*) . The show, if anything, only underlines this powerful and profound point. Guys are under no illusions in the least that they can honestly think they can get that many Women to actually carry and bring forth their seed with little if anything to offer in return - and if you actually DO believe that of guys, you have a much bigger problem than some reality show about to air in a few months. Indeed, what Shawty Lo - or rather, I should say, his Baby Mamas, proves, is that when push comes to shove, Women can and will elect to a timeshare on a successful Man, than to have an unsuccessful one all to themselves. And you can best believe, the fellas will be paying rapt attention to that.

Im not completely behind everything in the article, but it says some things to think about

 

[sixsixtwo]

Like installing a Pacemaker into a corpse.. « M3

 

[sixsixtwo]

The Ironies Of Female Empowerment

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

Am I the only one who suspects that the current trend in music is not by mistake and is designed to eliminate any trace of the alpha male in society?

Not saying songs should be "bang bang shoot em up" records but I just feel like there is a lack of alpha men in mainstream music these days.

Their either gay have gay like tendencies (extremely emotional) or express extreme examples of vunerability whether to drugs women or their own emotions.

Take urban music for example as a whole, I feel like its geared towards women completely which overtime has manipulated the content on what's appropriate for a mainstream album.

The point I'm making is that there's a lack in music that encourages manly like behavior or integrity. Not saying that artist have to be role models or play daddy but its obvious that media as a whole can and has in the past shaped and guided society for better or for worse.

It vaguely reminds me of that interview Dave Chappele did with Oprah on how black men are treated in Hollywood, trying to get them to dress in drag or play gay roles.

Just a thought.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

What do you guys think about the Carmelo Anthony/KG- Lala situation? (allegedly)

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Of course music and movies are brainwashing people. Its bad enough daddy is being erased out of the home,but music and media influences people more then people think. If Steve Harvey,Tyler Perry and Oprah told women they dont need a man,guess what?They will believe it somehow.

 

[Rich Spirit]

I feel one of the most important things to remember when dealing with women is to know how and when to keep your emotions in check.

When you're not fully analyzing a situation and act/react based off of emotions alone, you may do some things which you'll regret later.

Steelers cut RB Chris Rainey after arrest in Florida

The Pittsburgh Steelers cut running back Chris Rainey several hours after he was arrested in Gainesville, Fla., on one count of simple battery (dating violence) Thursday morning following an argument with his girlfriend over his cell phone.

"Chris Rainey's actions this morning were extremely disappointing," Steelers general manager Kevin Colbert said in a statement Thursday afternoon. "Under the circumstances and due to this conduct, Chris will no longer be a member of the Pittsburgh Steelers."

According to a press release from the Gainesville Police Department, Rainey, 24, began pulling the victim from the passenger side of his roommate's vehicle before witnesses observed him slap her across the face with an open hand. After the victim ran away, Rainey allegedly chased her down because his cell phone was in her bag and grabbed the bag, knocking both of them to the ground.

Officer Ben Tobias, spokesman for the Gainesville PD, said Rainey admitted to trying to grab the purse to get his phone but denied slapping her.

"We do have at least two witnesses that saw that part of it," he said.

Rainey told police that the woman fell out of the car when he went to reach for her purse and that he chased her after she ran away. The two fell to the ground, Rainey said, when he tried to grab the purse again.

Rainey, who has reportedly been dating the victim for nine months, was arrested by the Gainesville Police Department and taken to Alachua County Jail for booking.

The running back will remain in the Alachua County Jail at least until Friday morning when he will have a first appearance in court, Tobias said.

Rainey went to college in Gainesville, starring as a running back for the University of Florida football team before being selected by the Steelers in the fifth round of the 2012 NFL draft.

This isn't the first time Rainey has spent time in the Alachua County Jail in relation to his conduct with women. Rainey was arrested on a charge of felony aggravated stalking in September 2010 and accepted deferred prosecution for a lesser charge of misdemeanor stalking after he texted his on-again, off-again girlfriend of three years, "Time to Die bytch."

The victim supported the reduction in charges and released a statement following the conclusion of that case.

"We have known Chris Rainey for three years and never during that time has he displayed any violent or threatening behavior towards us or anyone," she wrote. "His actions that night were out of character for reasons unknown to us, which is why we stood up in court on his behalf."

As he was in 2010, Rainey is being represented by Gainesville attorney Huntley Johnson, who frequently represents current or former UF players in court.

Reached Thursday afternoon, Johnson said he had spoken with Rainey but could not provide comment at this time.

Rainey played a sporadic role in the Steelers backfield as a rookie this season, contributing mostly on special teams, where he returned 39 kicks for 1,035 yards as the team's primary kick returner.

kicked out of the team over some p*ssy

 

[Jason B]

The last 20+ pages of this thread have been nothing but straight heat. It is too much for delusional females and their male counterparts(simps).

 

[rapdonttweet]

So we all seem to be in agreement that women have been put on a pedestal by a world full of simps and have developed a sense of entitlement because of it. But most of you guys seem angry about it. From my perspective its a good thing. Me not being a simp makes me more unique and interesting than 99% of the guys out there. I love the fact that most guys are simping away. Because my confidence and self worth makes me a more attractive prospect to many of the women out there.

I'm just saying, there's a bright side to the situation.

 

[Jason B]

It is important to be mindful of what woman that you involve yourself with because many women nowadays are hella scandalous and will attempt to pull janky shyt like the woman in the article linked below:

Cheating wife's plot in Pittsburg results in one man's death | abc7news.com

Situations such as this gives more justification in being very distrustful of not only women,but people in general. It is far too easy to caught up in some bullshyt that can jeopardize your life,so being distrustful is sensible because it shows that you value self-preservation no matter what. It is unfortunate that the soon-to-be ex-husband had to kill someone but he did the right thing because his life was in danger. I hope the wife and those other shady nikkas get life in prison although I have a feeling that SIMPathy by the court may be given to the woman and she'll end up being sentenced to less time than what she actually deserves.

 

[Jason B]

So we all seem to be in agreement that women have been put on a pedestal by a world full of simps and have developed a sense of entitlement because of it. But most of you guys seem angry about it. From my perspective its a good thing. Me not being a simp makes me more unique and interesting than 99% of the guys out there. I love the fact that most guys are simping away. Because my confidence and self worth makes me a more attractive prospect to many of the women out there.

I'm just saying, there's a bright side to the situation.

I mostly agree. However, many posters are expressing how dealing with these entitled women can make dating seem like a headache. Plus,for some (myself included),they are mainly disturbed by the harsh reality that they cannot show respectfulness to a woman in any instance because it is categorized as simping (there is an extreme difference but women do not care about it) although we were taught as boys that women want to be treated with respect,which many us internalized as something positive only to be despised most of the time and to notice how guys who treat women like trash are highly revered by them.