Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Disrespectful ass women. Ray Lewis doesn't deserve that. All he does is try to lead by example and respect his faith. Yes he made a mistake but it was 12 years ago damn. I'm not religious but I'm sure he's paid for than his fair share of penance. Wes should check his woman ASAP but who am I kidding? That won't happen.



"I apologize to Ray Lewis and his family for my comments. In no way did I mean for them to be mean or hurtful. I'm embarrassed for being a sore loser," she wrote, according to TMZ. "I wish Ray and the Ravens good luck. Lesson learned!"

:comeon: These broads man and the bullshyt they spit
 

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Lmao "In no way did I mean for them to be mean or hurtful". You said what you meant to say girl. Stop the nonsense.
 

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Exactly who are you fooling? Wes should tell her straight up nobody cares about what you have to say. Some women think that just because they look good that means they're interesting, and should be heard... Negative. Like Patrice would say the problem is a man never told you to shut the fukk up when you started saying bullshyt.
 

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The woman you settle down with and have kids with is a major part of any man's legacy. I had a teacher who said one of the realest and most true, yet coldest things I have ever heard said: "bytches have bytches."

He taught for a long time. There was one family in which he taught 3 different generations of a single family. This family had deep roots in the area and as a result, all the kin went to the school. And to no surprise, all the kids in each generation were horrible students, had terrible behavior and bad attitudes.

One day after class, I said to the teacher, "You seem to be down on that guy. Do you know him well?"

And he said, "I know his whole family, his mom, his dad, brothers, cousins and everything."

Then he said, "bytches have bytches."

While this is not true in EVERY case, you often get generational cycles of bad attitudes, poor health, laziness - you name it.

Don't date just any girl and certainly do not have kids with just any girl. If you want great people to be around your kid in his or her upbringing, a great mom/woman is mandatory for the plane to even get off the ground.
 

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"I will spend the rest of my life dedicated to making you and only you happy"

Some shyt I heard the groom say at a wedding this past weekend :childplease: and I didn't hear her say shyt about her making sure he's happy :childplease:
 

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One of the great things about dressing to your own standard instead of being one of those negroes talking about, "I wear clothes that the females like. I follow the hot trends to get the girls" is that your confidence comes from WITHIN instead of it being external and dependent on what some random women think. This internal confidence is much stronger than external confidence. With external confidence, if some random women aren't feeling what you got on, your esteem is shattered and your head is hung low as you rush to 'rearrange' your look and morph into something that will please 'the ladies.' With internal confidence, you will say, "Man she's tripping. I know I'm out here looking fly. If she ain't feeling my style, another woman will." It's all about internal confidence.
 

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The woman you settle down with and have kids with is a major part of any man's legacy. I had a teacher who said one of the realest and most true, yet coldest things I have ever heard said: "bytches have bytches."

He taught for a long time. There was one family in which he taught 3 different generations of a single family. This family had deep roots in the area and as a result, all the kin went to the school. And to no surprise, all the kids in each generation were horrible students, had terrible behavior and bad attitudes.

One day after class, I said to the teacher, "You seem to be down on that guy. Do you know him well?"

And he said, "I know his whole family, his mom, his dad, brothers, cousins and everything."

Then he said, "bytches have bytches."

While this is not true in EVERY case, you often get generational cycles of bad attitudes, poor health, laziness - you name it.

Don't date just any girl and certainly do not have kids with just any girl. If you want great people to be around your kid in his or her upbringing, a great mom/woman is mandatory for the plane to even get off the ground.

This is real right here... one of the greatest gifts you can give your future kids is not money, it's not entertainment, but rather a great mother. Cats out here spreading their seeds to any ol' woman will end up giving their kids to a woman with a screwed up mentality and end up cursing that lineage of their family for a long time. It's akin to a 'generational curse' in the Bible.
 

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My 19 yo nephew recently got a girl pregnant...most people on here know I'm from the Philly area. My nephew took a year off after high school then got into a college up in Massachusetts. He left his girl back in Philly. First semester he's gone, she winds up pregnant :snoop:


Said it happened on Thanksgiving break. I'm sure they were fukkin and I'm sure they weren't being safe but, that nikka dont know what the fukk ole girl was doing when he was 300 miles away :why:

nikka dont want to get a blood test :why: Obviously he's 19 and stupid and in love and thinks it would be disrespectful :why: He's taking off this semester talkin about transferring to a school in the area (it sounds like he's gonna drop out :snoop:) and he's moving in with her...if its his, then its his. He need to man up and take responsibility but, changing his entire life DRAMATICALLY when he doesn't even know for sure if its his problem to worry about is :why:
 

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Lipstick Alley Quote (nycgirl) and Thread about the 42 year old lady alone...
This is why traditional roles are here for a reason.

Women have the task in modern society of trying to have it all in a short amount of time.

Childbearing years are career building years at the same damn time. Do you put all your eggs in one basket or another? That is the question

I wish this woman peace because it is something many women are dealing with, but worrying about what she doesn't have will land her in depression. She should travel, give back and get back to who she is.

http://www.lipstickalley.com/f41/i-...-do-better-now-im-childless-alone-42-a-467310
 

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This is real right here... one of the greatest gifts you can give your future kids is not money, it's not entertainment, but rather a great mother. Cats out here spreading their seeds to any ol' woman will end up giving their kids to a woman with a screwed up mentality and end up cursing that lineage of their family for a long time. It's akin to a 'generational curse' in the Bible.


:salute:
 

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This is what having a simp mentality will get you:

My wife's confession - LoveShack.org Community Forums

Last night, my wife of almost 15 years confessed to cheating on me.

I was floored. My wife is my best friend, and I had trusted her completely and totally. We had just moved back to this area. She had recently gotten involved in an exercise club and she met some people there. She started hanging out with them and the "circle of friends" that they are in. She tried to get me involved in their activities too, but I work an odd schedule and couldn't attend them. Besides, I thought it was nice that she was getting out and making friends after just moving to the area again.

I first started suspecting something when some of her comments seemed suspicious. She never was fat, but she had lost ten pounds and is able to were much skimpier clothing. I commented on how hot she was looking and how she is better than any other girl out there. She told me not to put her on a pedestal. Other comments were made that made me think she had a secret.

The crux came when she mentioned going out with the girls and bringing one home for a threesome (never done before but briefly talked about) and then she said that maybe she would bring a guy home instead because she "wanted some spice in her life". I had never heard her say that before, so I confronted her with my suspicions that she cheated on me already and the told her the circumstantial evidence I noticed, and she confessed to getting drunk while out with the group and had sex once with one of the guys in the circle of friends.

Rage. Anger. Embarrassment. etc... I'm on an emotional roller-coaster right now. I suspect that she isn't telling me everything about the incident, and I suspect it is with one guy who she has already denied and said it is someone else. I also suspect that it was more than once. I'm guessing twice based on evidence. I'm really mad about this. We had just had a vasectomy reversal done in the hopes of having more kids and I think this happened while I was on bed rest and couldn't go out with the group.

I love her. I really do. I wanted us to grow old together, and she agrees but says that we aren't old right now(both mid 30's), so we shouldn't act it. She feels that she married too young (19) and never got to party and be young. I'm considering trying to maintain an open relationship with her. I even told her that I would consider the threesome with her and another guy. We are going to have a big talk about it later tonight. I don't want to lose her. We have 15 years together and four kids. I have always been faithful to her, even when I was in the Navy and saw other guys cheat on their wives left and right. I was a good boy, and now I feel that I've wasted that time and investment and maybe I should have had more fun.

Help! I will listen to any advice you can give.
 
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