Rocket Scientist
Superstar
The first date should always be at a Starbucks,Bowlng Alley. I learned taking women to restaurants on 1st date is a no-no. Its not the fact of $$,its fact they waste so much food 
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Clouded by wanting to be in love? Come on man that's not how men talk. It's clear that you put these women on a pedestal because you envision what they COULD be. That's counterproductive. They have to show you how they add value to your existence. Until you realize this you'll keep failing. You have to be comfortable flying solo.Right now you sound way too desperate. Get it together man.
Yuzo Lightheart
Rookie
that doesnt even seem like a real person
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Hmm...
Well they do say the first step to recovering from alcoholism is to admit that you're an alcoholic. Think of this thread as Simp AA.
We are the cure for this type of behaviour.
P.S. - I hope you're genuine and not winding us up.
Duhmarcus Danderstein
Rookie
Hmm...
Well they do say the first step to recovering from alcoholism is to admit that you're an alcoholic. Think of this thread as Simp AA.
We are the cure for this type of behaviour.
P.S. - I hope you're genuine and not winding us up.
Wow... do my actions/behaviors really come off that outrageous that my story is unbelievable? (I presumed cats went thru this shiit as frequent as bowel movement).
All i'm saying is that...
It's the people who are the most infatuated and head-over-bread, are most prone to doing the dumbest shiit - and that's me to a tee like after s.
I agree that my decisions haven't been the most sound and i know that to keep her, i have to be a little more indifferent and a tad more assertive/wise with my choices.
During the week, i barely even message her so i don't come off as a simp. I'll text her here an there during the week to let her know i'm still alive, but other than that, i try to wait for her to faciliate the conversation.
My goal is that i'm just trying to be different. Show her that not all guys are the same (not too nice, not too negligent, a happy medium is what they call it).
I agree, she needs to prove somehow that she's an asset to my life before i bend extra backwards and go gung heaux for the beighb. But this is the stage where i still have to wooh kid her for her affection. That takes several solid outings before she starts to feel enamored by my "supposed" charm.
This is to the general users of this thread: i don't know the dynamic of your relationshiops, but at some point in time, didn't you feel that you had to add a little umph to the new setting of a gal you felt strongly for?
Like i said, i didn't treat the last few gals like this cuz they were jumpoffs.
And yeah... i beat on the fifth date. So that's out of the way and i ain't concerned about twilight (friend) zone.
It's easy to tell me to treat her like the other girls (and perhaps i should), but i do feel like i want to build with this. So naturally, i'm going to give her slightly better treatment.
This guy feels that she's worth and and he wants to settle down. She's a keeper (she could lose 20 pounds but... that's neither there nor square).
I dunno guys... just help me try to do good with her and not fukk it up.
Like the bottom of a cut tree - i'm stumped.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
You say girl you feel strongly for her. What has she done to elicit such emotions from you? You're starting at a disadvantage by feeling you have to prove something. That's false. You don't do anything aside from be yourself. There shouldn't be any extra umph until you guys have established something. You're approaching this situation all wrong. Look at your words. Her roommate is gone and you haven't been invited over to her place, yet you're talking about all these feelings you have. Obviously things aren't the same for her because she'd want you there immediately once she has the place to herself. I'm not even talking about sex. When a woman has feelings for you she just wants you to be around. It doesn't matter where you are or what you're doing. Stop spending money on this woman until she SHOWS you that she's into you.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
if a chick watches any of the following shows you might not wanna fukk with her:
Basketball Wives (any version)
Bad Girls Club
Love and Hip Hop (any version)
Real Housewives of (any version)
i'm not saying its a guarantee but every hoodrat i know loves shows like that.
Basketball Wives (any version)
Bad Girls Club
Love and Hip Hop (any version)
Real Housewives of (any version)
i'm not saying its a guarantee but every hoodrat i know loves shows like that.
its a escape of their reality. I swear my cousin didnt know what a all white party was unitl she seen it in house wives, now she gives one in a run down bar ever 8 months, mind you she's broke as fukk1. Weddings and engagement rings. Many women won't have it without them and it will take a real man to knock this nonsensical ideal out of their head. To be honest, I can't even really think of any positives that come out of marriage for men... You sign away your dikk to one woman. She gains full control of the relationship. She will expect you to pull more weight than her and bytch about any shortcomings on your part (and trust me there will be many unless you are a top quality alpha, in which case I ask why the fukk did you get married?). Sure there is the dream of having a great family, but this will require immense work on the man's part. He has to change his entire identity, fight his own basic instincts on a daily basis, bring sanity to whatever woman he ended up with, and cross his fingers that she doesn't end up as a fat libido stripped cow who distains him despite all he had to sacrifice for her. Marriage is the ultimate form of prostitution because men are paying the highest price for it.
2. Fidelity check. A vast majority of women on this planet will not agree to have sex unless they know for sure that they are the only girl you're fukking. They want you to pay for sex with forced monogamy. This is why they will give you a constant stream of "you're not a player are you?" shyt tests until the moment penetration has been achieved. Mildly annoying at best, and at worst, betas and lesser alphas end up following suit and feel guilt when they can't deliver on their promises of exclusivity. My advice is to grow some balls and stop pandering to other's delusional visions and instead pander to your own. If you're going to live in a candy land, you should at least decide which candy land it is.
3. They expect you pay for dates, especially if you're loaded. For this reason, I suggest that you never tell a girl your occupation and location of work on a first date. It's best to keep things vague here and keep her guessing as to how much your net worth might be. Don't mention your Ivy League degree or 6 figure job either. These are much better downplayed until you've fukked her. If she gets a taste of cash she is going to want to milk you for everything you're worth, which means she is going to delay sex until she gets a more guaranteed commitment. The only women you should show cash to are real hookers, the few women that are honest enough to admit that they just want to get paid to fukk. The ladies might give you a break here if you are exceptionally entertaining, good looking or have other valuable qualities, but that just leads us to number four.
4. They want you to entertain them. If you go on a date and have nothing but trivial boring conversation, she will pass you on any sexual offer. You haven't paid her price yet. You see women don't want to have sex for the enjoyment of having sex. They only get a high out of sexual relations when they are getting paid for it. High quality entertainment backed with solid genetic strength will exhilarate them and engorge their vag to the point where they are willing to even fukk you in public on the first date. The only exception would be if you are vastly higher quality than her, then you can still be boring and she will fukk you eventually, but you will likely have to wait longer and pay a heftier price, which leads us to number five.
5. She will gladly trade sexual pleasure for genetic strength. This is the reason there are so many betas left wandering the dating wastelands in confusion as to why women won't give them the time of day. It still amazes me that the average number of sexual partners in a lifetime is somewhere around 7. Every alpha I know is well over 100 lays, some of them close to or possibly exceeding 1000, imagine the sheer number of betas it would take to correct these statistical anomalies. A quick calculation on my own data shows that it would take roughly 42 lifetime virgin betas to offset the man-whoring I have endured up to the ripe old age of 29, and I'm not even in my best years yet. Which means for every man like me out there in the world there are around 50-150 sexually starved betas, that is an absolutely mind blowing figure in my own personal opinion. No wonder the men of the world are always so pissed off.
6. Servitude. Many men make the mistake of thinking: "If I go on X dates with her, she will eventually let me fukk her." Although this is true in a small number of cases, I find it's best to either fukk them on the first date or not at all. What you end up with if you try to fill her imaginary panty dropping date number, is servitude. She made you wait for something she would gladly give away in a heartbeat if you had the genetic strength she is actually after. Don't expect a fulfilling relationship with a woman that makes you wait for sex, for she is a whore of the highest order.
2. Fidelity check. A vast majority of women on this planet will not agree to have sex unless they know for sure that they are the only girl you're fukking. They want you to pay for sex with forced monogamy. This is why they will give you a constant stream of "you're not a player are you?" shyt tests until the moment penetration has been achieved. Mildly annoying at best, and at worst, betas and lesser alphas end up following suit and feel guilt when they can't deliver on their promises of exclusivity. My advice is to grow some balls and stop pandering to other's delusional visions and instead pander to your own. If you're going to live in a candy land, you should at least decide which candy land it is.
3. They expect you pay for dates, especially if you're loaded. For this reason, I suggest that you never tell a girl your occupation and location of work on a first date. It's best to keep things vague here and keep her guessing as to how much your net worth might be. Don't mention your Ivy League degree or 6 figure job either. These are much better downplayed until you've fukked her. If she gets a taste of cash she is going to want to milk you for everything you're worth, which means she is going to delay sex until she gets a more guaranteed commitment. The only women you should show cash to are real hookers, the few women that are honest enough to admit that they just want to get paid to fukk. The ladies might give you a break here if you are exceptionally entertaining, good looking or have other valuable qualities, but that just leads us to number four.
4. They want you to entertain them. If you go on a date and have nothing but trivial boring conversation, she will pass you on any sexual offer. You haven't paid her price yet. You see women don't want to have sex for the enjoyment of having sex. They only get a high out of sexual relations when they are getting paid for it. High quality entertainment backed with solid genetic strength will exhilarate them and engorge their vag to the point where they are willing to even fukk you in public on the first date. The only exception would be if you are vastly higher quality than her, then you can still be boring and she will fukk you eventually, but you will likely have to wait longer and pay a heftier price, which leads us to number five.
5. She will gladly trade sexual pleasure for genetic strength. This is the reason there are so many betas left wandering the dating wastelands in confusion as to why women won't give them the time of day. It still amazes me that the average number of sexual partners in a lifetime is somewhere around 7. Every alpha I know is well over 100 lays, some of them close to or possibly exceeding 1000, imagine the sheer number of betas it would take to correct these statistical anomalies. A quick calculation on my own data shows that it would take roughly 42 lifetime virgin betas to offset the man-whoring I have endured up to the ripe old age of 29, and I'm not even in my best years yet. Which means for every man like me out there in the world there are around 50-150 sexually starved betas, that is an absolutely mind blowing figure in my own personal opinion. No wonder the men of the world are always so pissed off.
6. Servitude. Many men make the mistake of thinking: "If I go on X dates with her, she will eventually let me fukk her." Although this is true in a small number of cases, I find it's best to either fukk them on the first date or not at all. What you end up with if you try to fill her imaginary panty dropping date number, is servitude. She made you wait for something she would gladly give away in a heartbeat if you had the genetic strength she is actually after. Don't expect a fulfilling relationship with a woman that makes you wait for sex, for she is a whore of the highest order.
for men and women both, in life no matter how much money you have, how attractive you are etc., there will only be a few peple of the opposite sex in your whole life time who actually care about you
my life keeps changing ever since i got back from my vacation ive felt totally different, then i almost died in a car accident a few dies ago literally saw my life flash through my eyes,
my life keeps changing ever since i got back from my vacation ive felt totally different, then i almost died in a car accident a few dies ago literally saw my life flash through my eyes,
rapdonttweet
Pro
You should be wooing her with your entertaining personality and charm, not with money or simpish behavior. I keep saying this over and over but let me hammer this point home. Money will not buy her affection.
In my experience the females I didn't give a fukk about were the ones who went crazy for me. From my simpish days, the females I lavished the most attention on were the ones who lost interest. Your reasoning is flawed. You're trying to do all this stuff to impress her but by going above and beyond you are much, much more likely to fukk this up.
Son Of God
Pro
Glad to see your alive and well brother.