in the gym, i like the slow game.
'accidentally' run into her, make a convo, whatever. anything small so she will recognize you the next time she come to the gym
try to be friends first, and then move on from there if the spark is right.
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in the gym, i like the slow game.
'accidentally' run into her, make a convo, whatever. anything small so she will recognize you the next time she come to the gym
try to be friends first, and then move on from there if the spark is right.
Some nikkas get the number and go straight to facetiming
It used to be where you could slow burn and work...
Now it's like you gotta be on some instant movement shyt
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
I agree with you bro but the down side is broads got mad options. I tried this several times with different women and it fell through. I get their number and set up a date for the weekend. Then when I text her the day of the date they never respond back. What it is these women have mad nighas texting them and have plenty of options. They do robably though that since I haven’t texted them for days that I ghost them or some shyt. We gotta measure how much interest a woman has. If her interest is moderate than we gotta work hard for it. If her interest is high then we can text them only to set dates and that it. Because at the end of the day she has high interest and can’t wait to see us. But a women with low or moderate interest isn’t going to reply back if you text her only for dates once a week. Nah she got plenty of options to choose from.
When all your boys getting skins and play while you the only one that isnt is the most horrible feeling in the world. You self esteem falls rock bottom.You start saying
My roommate gets mad play as well as his homies. nikka just DM bytches and get in their skins days latter. My ass does that shyt and get left on seen. When his crew goes to the club they pull bytches and get numbers and I do too. But a lot of the bytches does respond back to those texts. shyt is aggravating but it’s all in the game. Gotta keep it moving.
fukk these women bro
Dmx asked what these bytches want from a nikka and we still dont know.
Been trying to get this one chick n i take a L.
I go to the bar minding my business and have this other girl kissing all on me.
shyt is weird
StretfordRed
Afro-European
I met a really nice woman on Sunday for the first time off Okcupid. We got on really well, had a nice time a nice passionate kiss at the end of the date. She's really stunningand I got paranoid thinking she's gonna get scooped by some Chad type breh in no time (online dating profile and self confidence thing).
So we go out on Valentines Day, not for day but just for the fact it was our next free day. We have a good time again, but I go and kiss her again and she has an odd look on her face after like
So I asked her what was up and long story short, her ex led her on for 8 months and she said she gave up a lot and he bailed out as he didn't want to commit. He's an idiot as far as I can see.
But she said its only been a week and she's scared about how she feels already and is keeping her guard up in case I hurt her. But I don't want it to mean she gets distant - as man don't do chasing
I know common sense is to chill and wait, but mans thinking about the whole online situation. She hasn't been online since we had our first date (I checked once) and she says she really likes me and we planned our next date already. So maybe I need to just trust the process and chillax as its so early
Thought I’d come back to this. But we just put a payment on renting a place
We both felt it was a good time in our lives. We were with each other a lot each week.
I met her family and was at a family wedding the other week and met all her extended family and she’s met mine. I met all her buddies and most of mine
Things are going quick but we’re still taking cautious steps.
Will see how things go!
Silkk
Can't Change My Damn Avi :beli:
StretfordRed
Afro-European
A place for the weekend?
How long ago was that original post breh?
Nope! Full place to ourselves for a year
It’s been 7 months and it’s been amazing.
BornStar
Marathon Continues
I HATE not being the one to end things/win the relationship. nikka turnAF
I feel you.
It's nothing for me to ghost(mother issues) Even during my younger years. Its usually my duty to leave before any serious attachment. Most of the time I'll turn the corner without looking back.
Silkk
Can't Change My Damn Avi :beli:
Oh ok, Congrats then
BornStar
Marathon Continues
I'm happy I met my neighbor. We've been hanging out a good amount..we naturally click and she's really easy going. I like her vibe and I can tell she'd be a really supportive GF, which is a big plus.The type I could bring around my fam and they'd welcome her in with open arms. Plus I like how she looks at me with the
look...it's cute. The other girl might get bushed, but we'll see.
So I haven't seen the girl who lives across from her in about a month (they both live two doors down from me, but on opposite sides of the hallway)...we end up in the same elevator together. She's a decent 7 with a fatty lol.
We chat while walking towards out spots and I can kinda tell she's interested by the flow of the conversation. In the back of my mind I'm like "PLEASE don't ask for my # outside this girls door" lol. She asked for my name and it's origins, but I kinda played dumb to hurry up the convo. Crisis avoided.
So I think the neighbor I'm actually talking to was home and might have heard some of the convo...the next day she asked if I wanted to go bowling. I was supposed to hang out with the vegas girl I met but she aint reply so I was like sure....
She texts me that she's ready and asks if I wanna take a shot before we leave. I'm like sure
Brehs....she had on a black jumpsuit/onsie/romper
She kinda laughed cuz I naturally went fromto
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and I couldn't help it. She had to have heard the convo cuz I'm almost 100% sure the avg girl wouldn't wear that bowling. She kicked my butt too. I was distracted
It was a good time though, went bowling, dancing, and then chilled and got some drinks
I had to spoiler that b/c I showed her a thread in TLR and she noticed this thread up top smh
Weren't you the one saying you had 7 on the roster and 4 of them you were going in raw
If I were you I wouldn't bush anything. I learned my lesson from getting rid of the whole roster to get a star player. As a coach how would you be looking Pop? You went all out for this one player.. that's not your style. She liked you for being coach pop not acting brand new because you found a star. Keep your same system.
What happens if that star player holds out?
Remember everything is all peachy the first 3 months to a year. Sit down by the fan and Let the sweat dry before you make a huge decision.
Might end up like the Knicks when they acquired Carmelo.
NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
What women SAY and DO are totally different. They get turned by emotional stimulation. Make her FEEL some type of way and FOLLOW up. They lowkey enjoy persistence but still play the game
Use embedded commands. It's called suggestive language
Be dominant and assertive. Navigate the convo to get what u want
Talk slower and move slower. Being quick shows anxiety
If you want to avoid paying, offer something of value like a date to the park or some shyt. It's the thought that counts
Delay your time and response
Stay resilient
Passing shyt tests is easy. Dont take it seriously
Have FUN. The game is about YOU, not her.
Speak from the diaphragm
Touch her. Dont be afraid to physical affectionate. It's a test
Use embedded commands. It's called suggestive language
Be dominant and assertive. Navigate the convo to get what u want
Talk slower and move slower. Being quick shows anxiety
If you want to avoid paying, offer something of value like a date to the park or some shyt. It's the thought that counts
Delay your time and response
Stay resilient
Passing shyt tests is easy. Dont take it seriously
Have FUN. The game is about YOU, not her.
Speak from the diaphragm
Touch her. Dont be afraid to physical affectionate. It's a test
Yeah I had mystikal movements lol...I walk and talk quick and had to slow shyt down...I def try to catch myself now
If I were you I wouldn't bush anything. I learned my lesson from getting rid of the whole roster to get a star player. As a coach how would you be looking Pop? You went all out for this one player.. that's not your style. She liked you for being coach pop not acting brand new because you found a star. Keep your same system.
What happens if that star player holds out?
Remember everything is all peachy the first 3 months to a year. Sit down by the fan and Let the sweat dry before you make a huge decision.
Might end up like the Knicks when they acquired Carmelo.
Good point breh. I'm not gonna necessarily "bush" her, but I'm not gonna initiate the convo anymore. I had to double text twice within the past few weeks about hanging out so I'll fall back until she wants to chill. No biggie at all. I might pick up someone else for the roster instead though. Until someone is GF or truly GF potential I think I'll just entertain two at a time. That's all I can handle
If things don't work out between either girl I'm not trippin at all, honestly. Thank God I don't really have a problem meeting anybody new
. Idk what's changed about me the past couple years but there has been a big difference in the amount of women giving me attention. Idk if it's the confidence, gaining muscle, gaining wisdom, being more assertive, or a mix of all of it. I'm here for it though 
BornStar
Marathon Continues
Good point breh. I'm not gonna necessarily "bush" her, but I'm not gonna initiate the convo anymore. I had to double text twice within the past few weeks about hanging out so I'll fall back until she wants to chill. No biggie at all. I might pick up someone else for the roster instead though. Until someone is GF or truly GF potential I think I'll just entertain two at a time. That's all I can handle
If things don't work out between either girl I'm not trippin at all, honestly. Thank God I don't really have a problem meeting anybody new
Yes being Men as we Age our Stock Rises.
(still in my 20s but looking forward to the future)Anyone making fun of the elders is uninformed. Money , Knowledge, Wisdom , Game , Could Careless Attitude, Assertiveness , Abundance Mindset from the interactions with various people/friends/women.
We know Money helps however you can't buy wisdom.. some/most things you have to experience to get a full understanding of it.
Just remember As your value goes up .. you will get a steady stream of p*ssy. Keep that in mind.. you might want to rethink that having a gf decision when there are a plethora of women out here that will be interested in you (just wrap it up) .
but to each his own.
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BornStar
Marathon Continues
that's a fact.
I broke her heart, shouldn't have happened like that
Wonder what she think about me
Why them other bytches can't get a drink up out me - Surf
if someone offered you a million dollars right now, would you ponder? would the other person have to beg for you to take it?
View yourself as a million dollars, why should a chick ponder if you are good enough to be with you, why are you literally begging her to be with you?
screw those chicks, they piss, poop, will get cancer, heart attacks and grow old and die just like us they ain't special. Never met a dude lusting after a 70 yr old woman have you?
View yourself as a million dollars, why should a chick ponder if you are good enough to be with you, why are you literally begging her to be with you?
screw those chicks, they piss, poop, will get cancer, heart attacks and grow old and die just like us they ain't special. Never met a dude lusting after a 70 yr old woman have you?