Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apex]

True. Sometimes you gotta just trim the fat, focus on what needs to get done, and be efficient.

If it's a chick at the gym that you just want to smash n dip, your most (reasonably) efficient actions may boil down to: 1. break the ice, 2. formal introductions, 3. ask her out, 4. get sensual (at yalls outing), 5. get her back to the crib. 6. Smash. 7. Dip. lol

1-7 can happen in a day if a chick is really into you, or it could be a couple weeks, but the one thing us men can control is being efficient and definitive in our actions along the way. It makes moving things along or pinpointing bs (and falling back/bushing her) that much easier

yall ask people out the moment u meet them?

 

[Vinny Lupton]

never tried this either. how you do this natually/without looking thirsty though?

I had sales jobs before so I'm good at just blabbing til I find my entry point. Maybe it's their drink - whatever she tries, ask her how is it, she gonna offer you some, maybe first sip you let her slide it across the table but then you go can I try that again? Ima just come around to your side. If she says no stay over there she's wack anyway. I guess this is better halfway or 3/4ths into the date tho

 

[Arithmetic]

why do women never want to initiate contact
been with my girl for 10months now and majority of the time she waits for me to call her
u cant pick up the phone and call sheesh

That's not normal.

 

[Primetime]

yall ask people out the moment u meet them?

True. Sometimes you gotta just trim the fat, focus on what needs to get done, and be efficient.

If it's a chick at the gym that you just want to smash n dip, your most (reasonably) efficient actions may boil down to: 1. break the ice, 2. formal introductions, 3. ask her out, 4. get sensual (at yalls outing), 5. get her back to the crib. 6. Smash. 7. Dip. lol

1-7 can happen in a day if a chick is really into you, or it could be a couple weeks, but the one thing us men can control is being efficient and definitive in our actions along the way. It makes moving things along or pinpointing bs (and falling back/bushing her) that much easier

It's just steps i'd lay out in my mind for a specific example, with the intent that i always know what i ultimately need to do next. Really it should all be common sense/second nature, but just spelling them out.

And yea, if i meet a chick at the grocery and she is feeling me after the small talk, i'm asking her out and getting her number right there lol.

What happens sometimes tho is dudes continue 'breaking the ice' everyday (with a girl at the gym/store/class/workplace/etc) but are stuck on what to do next (and/or are just too shook/tentative).

 

[Actually6Foot3]

A few times I tried to just take a bih to get a drink and her and the host conspired to turn into a table deal (hoes wanna eat, but I didn't order food so she knew she woulda looked dumb ordering food alone ). At some point I just come over to their side of the table anyway

That only works if you're sitting at a booth or some shyt. If they place you at a "table for two" you kinda assed out.

I'm sticking to the bar.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

?????

It’s a thing.

Women hold back saying nice things to men because it keeps the man in the dark about how she feels. It’s like dangling a carrot. When she stops doing that, she’s stopped playing games.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

It’s a thing.

Women hold back saying nice things to men because it keeps the man in the dark about how she feels. It’s like dangling a carrot. When she stops doing that, she’s stopped playing games.

Fair enough, here is a thread where you're most welcome to post in
The Official Show Ur Booty THread For The Coli Ladies

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Fair enough, here is a thread where you're most welcome to post in
The Official Show Ur Booty THread For The Coli Ladies

 

[Apex]

It's just steps i'd lay out in my mind for a specific example, with the intent that i always know what i ultimately need to do next. Really it should all be common sense/second nature, but just spelling them out.

And yea, if i meet a chick at the grocery and she is feeling me after the small talk, i'm asking her out and getting her number right there lol.

What happens sometimes tho is dudes continue 'breaking the ice' everyday (with a girl at the gym/store/class/workplace/etc) but are stuck on what to do next (and/or are just too shook/tentative).

Does that work for teenagers too

 

[LiveFromLondon]

 

[International Playa]

Got two dates with two on the same day this Saturday

One in the afternoon, bowling & lunch

One in the evening cocktails & dinner.

First lady very religious, average, nice body but wifey qualities. I get a hint she might make me wait till marriage to fukk, this is our second date

Second lady, she cute, nice juicy t*ts, could do with losing 15 pounds ,she is a party girl but got her own business & someone to have lots of fun with.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Got two dates with two on the same day this Saturday

One in the afternoon, bowling & lunch

One in the evening cocktails & dinner.

First lady very religious, average, nice body but wifey qualities. I get a hint she might make me wait till marriage to fukk, this is our second date

Second lady, she cute, nice juicy t*ts, could do with losing 15 pounds ,she is a party girl but got her own business & someone to have lots of fun with.

What’s your budget for Saturday? Two dates on the same day sounds pricey

 

[International Playa]

What’s your budget for Saturday? Two dates on the same day sounds pricey

That's the main problem with dating multiple women, it can be costly, will find cheap independent restaurants, they tend to be cheaper lol

 

[Primetime]

Got two dates with two on the same day this Saturday

One in the afternoon, bowling & lunch

One in the evening cocktails & dinner.

First lady very religious, average, nice body but wifey qualities. I get a hint she might make me wait till marriage to fukk, this is our second date

Second lady, she cute, nice juicy t*ts, could do with losing 15 pounds ,she is a party girl but got her own business & someone to have lots of fun with.

Nice. What end goal (ideally) are you leaning towards with each chick? (i.e. relationship, smash n dip, FwB, etc?). Bc if the first chick got wifey qualities but may not let you hit til marriage, then you gon have to make a choice lol, based on what you're lookin for

 

[International Playa]

Nice. What end goal (ideally) are you leaning towards with each chick? (i.e. relationship, smash n dip, FwB, etc?). Bc if the first chick got wifey qualities but may not let you hit til marriage, then you gon have to make a choice lol, based on what you're lookin for

My ideal situation is to have a roster of 2- 3 women, till I decide to get married in 2 years time.

If the wifey type doesn't let me hit till marriage, that's where the second chick comes in, she will provide my sexual needs lol.

I don't know much about the second chick, I know she has been in a FWB situation since she been single for 3 years. She was honest, she said she talking to multiple guys on online dating website(about 7 guys including me), I met her online. She smokes, its a negative for me. She seems fun, like she would be down to fukk & fulfill your nastiest sexual fantasies. Will come back with a report after the date.