Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

Nice. What end goal (ideally) are you leaning towards with each chick? (i.e. relationship, smash n dip, FwB, etc?). Bc if the first chick got wifey qualities but may not let you hit til marriage, then you gon have to make a choice lol, based on what you're lookin for

My ideal situation is to have a roster of 2- 3 women, till I decide to get married in 2 years time.

If the wifey type doesn't let me hit till marriage, that's where the second chick comes in, she will provide my sexual needs lol.

I don't know much about the second chick, I know she has been in a FWB situation since she been single for 3 years. She was honest, she said she talking to multiple guys on online dating website(about 7 guys including me), I met her online. She smokes, its a negative for me. She seems fun, like she would be down to fukk & fulfill your nastiest sexual fantasies. Will come back with a report after the date.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Got two dates with two on the same day this Saturday

One in the afternoon, bowling & lunch

One in the evening cocktails & dinner.

First lady very religious, average, nice body but wifey qualities. I get a hint she might make me wait till marriage to fukk, this is our second date

Second lady, she cute, nice juicy t*ts, could do with losing 15 pounds ,she is a party girl but got her own business & someone to have lots of fun with.

You taking these girls on the types of dates I only take my main on lol.

Then again you might be older and dealing with older women so this might be expected and I live in NYC so bowling can get expensive unless you get a Groupon and go on a Tuesday or some shyt

I take ransoms I haven't smashed for drinks and that's it! Especially if I'm meeting them inside Saturday or Friday night when I know happy hour been over. If they get hungry I've already been strategic I know something cheap but good near by but she not getting bowling and dinner outta me unless I smashed/one date from smashing or she's the main.

Not wining and dining off the bat.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

 

[VertigoKnight]

this is genius, and such a small and overlooked thing

I definitely feel grabbing a table at the local spot I go to has been a hindrance to escalation till we leave in the past. I'mma make sure to do this from now on.

Genius and repped

It works like clockwork. Went on a date to a cocktail bar yesterday for some after dinner drinks with a chick. Who I'd met before but who flaked on me when I invited her round my place two weeks ago

She told me she was scared she'd have to fukk.

Anyway. Sitting at the bar forces you to have to lean into each other. I guess you can tell how a woman feels about you. When you sit like this. This chick was leaning on my shoulder. Telling me how nice I smelt, rubbing my leg. Spent an hour and a half there.

Got her outside and she asked to kiss me while we waited for a cab. I was trying to take it easy with her as she's this little petite Chinese/ Honduran ting But we kissed and ended up back at her place. Where we got down to it.

 

[MollyGalaga]

LMAO bruh on god i get more n more proof everyday that women don't know wtf they want

 

[The ADD]

We had a lot falling out and decided to just be cool. No need to be around her kid

The comedy continues:
Her: Do you want to date me?
Me: Naw, you need a better dude than me
Her: You would be ok with losing the opportunity?
Me: What opportunity
Her: If you had the opportunity to date me

 

[360dagod]

The comedy continues:
Her: Do you want to date me?
Me: Naw, you need a better dude than me
Her: You would be ok with losing the opportunity?
Me: What opportunity
Her: If you had the opportunity to date me

She gonna go into overdrive now

 

[The ADD]

She gonna go into overdrive now

I was a POS a few months ago and needed to deal with issues according to her but now this.

That “if you had an opportunity to date me line” is an all-timer

 

[Silkk]

The comedy continues:
Her: Do you want to date me?
Me: Naw, you need a better dude than me
Her: You would be ok with losing the opportunity?
Me: What opportunity
Her: If you had the opportunity to date me

I KNOW this shyt stung

 

[360dagod]

I was a POS a few months ago and needed to deal with issues according to her but now this.

That “if you had an opportunity to date me line” is an all-timer

Cuffing season brings out the desperation

 

[The ADD]

I KNOW this shyt stung

To me that's a odd thing for anyone to say. Have some humility.

Cuffing season brings out the desperation

Clearly it does. I figured she would tell me to kick rocks but she didn't

 

[Nuke Dukem]

What’s everyone’s thoughts on

“Using the phone to only set dates”

Not using it to chat these females up ?


Do y’all agree or think since it’s about to be 2019 you gotta use the phone (text,snap,messenger) for more then setting dates

 

[Actually6Foot3]

What’s everyone’s thoughts on

“Using the phone to only set dates”

Not using it to chat these females up ?


Do y’all agree or think since it’s about to be 2019 you gotta use the phone (text,snap,messenger) for more then setting dates

I chat em up sometimes it builds good rapport and they're less likely to flake on the date. Just don't be lame on the phone.

 

[VertigoKnight]

What’s everyone’s thoughts on

“Using the phone to only set dates”

Not using it to chat these females up ?


Do y’all agree or think since it’s about to be 2019 you gotta use the phone (text,snap,messenger) for more then setting dates

Chat but don't get too chatty patty. I do one message and if she returns one then I'll return one And yeah avoid overly corny stuff, I've lost out on chicks doing that And got too relaxed.

If you can, just ring her. So many guys don't that it can make you stand out. That or a voice note.

Tbh the best advice is to get her to meet up asap. My rule is, my city is small enough that if we can't meet up within two weeks. Even for a quick coffee, it's the bushes.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

This chick kept hounding me for my social media and got mad when I didn't give it to her.Im not type of cat who takes selfies but this chick raised a hissy fit I had to bush her