Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[hostsamurai]

Whats the key to gaining more confidence? Some days I just feel down and out.

God's honest truth? Bravery.

It's not a pill that provides immediate results but if you have the bravery to approach eventually your efforts will be rewarded. It might take 50 women but eventually, you'll at least care less, and that's a value in itself. Because it conveys to the woman every time I've approached a woman generally good things have happened.

If you go into an approach weak and limp, and do stuff like speaking your name out as if you're asking a question you're telling her, every other women I've approached thought I was a worthless lame.


Just don't be afraid to approach. Odds are there are hundreds of thousands of women in your dating range in your city, you have more first impressions than is physically possible to make. Just don't shyt where you eat.

 

[Vinny Lupton]

Feel you Breh. I don’t know why I’m still slightly hung up on the last chick that ghosted me. Maybe cause she was fine as shyt, which is fukking with my ego ,

Bytch was gassing me up heavy, talking about my attractiveness, sexual text messasges during the day, only to ignore ya boy at the drop
Of a dime

These heauxs wonder why niccas become savages after a while.

The wild thing is I was trying to hang up my savage card bc I been running thru these hoes so much
Not yet

 

[semicko82]

God's honest truth? Bravery.

It's not a pill that provides immediate results but if you have the bravery to approach eventually your efforts will be rewarded. It might take 50 women but eventually, you'll at least care less, and that's a value in itself. Because it conveys to the woman every time I've approached a woman generally good things have happened.

If you go into an approach weak and limp, and do stuff like speaking your name out as if you're asking a question you're telling her, every other women I've approached thought I was a worthless lame.


Just don't be afraid to approach. Odds are there are hundreds of thousands of women in your dating range in your city, you have more first impressions than is physically possible to make. Just don't shyt where you eat.

I meant confidence in general not just with women but you could apply the same methods.

 

[hostsamurai]

I meant confidence in general not just with women but you could apply the same methods.

Supreme confidence in one aspect of your life lends itself to everything else. What is an ant to a dragon?

To be honest, I can't exactly help you out with general confidence as it's part of how you view yourself. But, competency helps. I had a quiet, unclear voice, but after applying some singing tricks and tongue teasers for several months I grew confident in my voice, and I was still inconsistent. But I knew that I put in the work so I didn't give a fukk if anyone thought I was quiet or mumbling. But even that's not a guarantee because some people might gain imposter syndrome instead.

Another thing is facing your fears, believing pain is weakness leaving the body type stuff. The more you do so the more you realise "I'm not going to die if I do such and such".

 

[Clay Puppington]

This year was not really a great one for me. I've been a shell of my former self for majority of the year, been been a bum, gained like 4 stone (I was in the best shape of my life before that ), real low confidence and for a good portion of the year I was content on smoking and drinking my life away and passing away by 30 because I didn't think there would be a light at the end of the dark tunnel I was in.

But strangely enough it might go down as one of the most important years of my life as I've become a lot more wiser, learned alot about myself, life, spirituality and these ain't shyt bytches. I'm back and have a plan on turning shyt around.

Back in the gym. God bless my genes. Eating right again. The gym (and testosterone) does wonderful things to a man's confidence and psych.
Working again. Gonna apply for the air force in 6 months, got a good exit plan already

I need some p*ssy though I'm roasting like hell right now I hate Tinder. Tried POF but for some reason my account keeps getting deleted.

lol bro im having the exact same experience..it's like I typed this shyt
even down to the "fukk this imma just smoke loud and drink"
I took every L possible this year. it took one of my boys clowning me to realize how far I've fallen

i started cooking again, started hitting the gym again, put the loud down & have started interviewing
godspeed breh & allat. I think the hoes start comin thru when your vibe stops giving off that "I'm broke and fukked up" energy cause lord knows they smelled that shyt on me

 

[ZoeGod]

So shorty who flakeed on me Saturday hit me up out of nowhere today. Saying Hola and shyt. I’m not gonna initiate contact with her. She has to do the chasing.

 

[J Money]

lol bro im having the exact same experience..it's like I typed this shyt
even down to the "fukk this imma just smoke loud and drink"
I took every L possible this year. it took one of my boys clowning me to realize how far I've fallen

i started cooking again, started hitting the gym again, put the loud down & have started interviewing
godspeed breh & allat. I think the hoes start comin thru when your vibe stops giving off that "I'm broke and fukked up" energy cause lord knows they smelled that shyt on me

Breh I know its been tough but it's been a hell of a learning experience, maybe it was one we needed. At least we back on the path to greatness though just gotta keep the mind and body right and have a plan in place.

And you hella right about the vibe and broke energy bit lowkey certain days even I would look at myself in the mirror and be like

 

[John Reena]

Whats the key to gaining more confidence? Some days I just feel down and out.

U gotta get out ur comfort zone, be more social, basically u gotta do like that “Seinfeld” episode where George was stuck in a rut n decided to do tha complete opposite of what he had been doing.

 

[Silkk]

So shorty who flakeed on me Saturday hit me up out of nowhere today. Saying Hola and shyt. I’m not gonna initiate contact with her. She has to do the chasing.

She did

Tell her to link or

 

[phcitywarrior]

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[TRUEST]

Feel you Breh. I don’t know why I’m still slightly hung up on the last chick that ghosted me. Maybe cause she was fine as shyt, which is fukking with my ego ,

Bytch was gassing me up heavy, talking about my attractiveness, sexual text messasges during the day, only to ignore ya boy at the drop
Of a dime

These heauxs wonder why niccas become savages after a while.

It ain’t about u. Someone who she had more history with came thru and ruined your plans. That’s the only reason there is for why she did what she did.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Meh. I'm at this after hour party and I really don't have any initiative to talk to anyone. It's hard as fukk to find a wholesome woman out here

Breh take yo ass to bible study at a church

 

[Dreamzeedream]

The 4 pilars of man hood: get your Body right,game Tight,image on point and purpose on lock

 

[ZoeGod]

Have been reflecting on this year since we are the end. Good news is I got myself out of academic probation but I have been in a rut dating wise since January. Early this year I told the story how my roommate was gonna put me on some shorty he ex was cool with. And it seemed like it was gonna be guaranteed p*ssy. She was interested after seeing my photo. Well we went to a club in Jersey and she hooked up with another homeboy of my roommate. I charged it to the game. Found out she she slept with other dudes in my roommates crew and she got a bump on her p*ssy. Went to DC and Miami which was lit but no play. Went to clubs there, approached broads, got numbers but no reply or p*ssy. My roommate got with a stripper who had a sister who was bad as fukk and we were gonna hook up. But at the last minute the stripper broads ghosted him. We was gonna throw a party for some hoes he knew from Staten Island. But that fell through.


Summer time was broke looking for work and then bam got back to school in August. Cleaned up my dating profiles back in May for Bumble,Tinder,POF, OK Cupid and IG. Used them for the whole summer and got nothing but flakes. I should have went to do cold approaches but online dating makes you lazy and not wanting to approach. Got back to school in August and have been hella stressed this whole semester. So I went hard on online dating since I had very little time to apprach. Not but flakes. Shorty that flaked me this past Saturday was a broad who I DM’ed on IG. At the core of it all I have been in a long dry spell and it’s embarrassing that my roommate get plenty of bytches but I’m not.

In the end it’s my fault. I have to start eating cleaner and get back to my OMAD program. Lifting weights is good and doing cardio is great but a poor diet throws all that away. Gotta get back to cold approaches in a more consistent basis. I started cutting off people who ain’t making moves in life regarding money, career, health and women. This year was great academically and socially. But dating wise it was trash. I think the reason why I’m not getting play is probably because I’m overweight. Rom Wills is right the body game is important.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

My nikka...

Your whole approach is off...

You should have been trying to have fun...

Fam... you need to destroy and rebuild...asap

If you dont go to the gym...start asap
If you dont do any cardio...start asap
If you not apart of any clubs or outside activities...start asap..
If your eating habits suck, change...asap

I'm not changing myself for these thots. If certain women don't like me as the individual that I am, fukk them.

I'll continue to be me, until the right one comes along.