Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Dreamzeedream]

Basically women will categorize men into their own definition of certain words..

These bytches will create titles for nikkas they wanna keep around...or give you no title at all

It's flexibility at its finest

What it mean when they call you boyfriend even tho u ain't they boyfriend

 

[DapMeUp!]

You failed the shyt test

The residual p*ssy would have still been there..

Women mix and match "titles" all the time depending on how they feel about you...

I don't know breh...

The way I saw it is she wants to keep me around in case she wants to double back on her decision. I'm not with the games either your on the team or you not.
Haven't got time for the half-hearted shyt. I've made my stance clear if she wants to come back around she knows the terms and conditions now.

 

[Silkk]

Breh, she text me last night asking if it's ok if we just be friends now. Basically told her to kick rocks

Basically told her she's free to contact me, but I'm not going to be hitting her up again.
Can't not want to see me but still want my non-sexual attention like we are seeing each other

Had some similar shyt tried to go down today with me too, told that bytch to and now all of a sudden i'm evil/selfish/and everything else

 

[360dagod]

I don't know breh...

The way I saw it is she wants to keep me around in case she wants to double back on her decision. I'm not with the games either your on the team or you not.
Haven't got time for the half-hearted shyt. I've made my stance clear if she wants to come back around she knows the terms and conditions now.

You might have doubled down unnecessarily..

you were messing with her casually, so if she wanted to reverse course, there should be no downside at all...

 

[360dagod]

What it mean when they call you boyfriend even tho u ain't they boyfriend

It could mean she wants you or it could mean she stringing you along...

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

My UK rampage is on hiatus for now. Found me a cool shorty and I’m chilling. Cute 27 year old, runs her own business, her parents are still together, no kids, and she willingly follows my lead. I’m forever vigilant but I think I’ve got a good one so I won’t do her dirty.

 

[phcitywarrior]

This one chick asked me for $30 for an uber to get to work. Her sister was apparently with her CC. Cool no problem, she said she pay me back once she got hold of her sister.

Haven't been paid back since ("loaned" her the money last week Thursday).

I'm thinking about just charging that to the game instead of asking for the $30 back.

What y'all think? I'm not pressed for it, but $30 could get me a decent bottle of wine for Thanksgiving

It's kinda like that old saying: "If you loan person A $50 but never hear from them again, was it actually worth it?"

FYI - I've smashed shawty before

 

[phcitywarrior]

My UK rampage is on hiatus for now. Found me a cool shorty and I’m chilling. Cute 27 year old, runs her own business, her parents are still together, no kids, and she willingly follows my lead. I’m forever vigilant but I think I’ve got a good one so I won’t do her dirty.

You've maxed out at the casino. Take your earnings and go home.

 

[Solano707]

This one chick asked me for $30 for an uber to get to work. Her sister was apparently with her CC. Cool no problem, she said she pay me back once she got hold of her sister.

Haven't been paid back since ("loaned" her the money last week Thursday).

I'm thinking about just charging that to the game instead of asking for the $30 back.

What y'all think? I'm not pressed for it, but $30 could get me a decent bottle of wine for Thanksgiving

It's kinda like that old saying: "If you loan person A $50 but never hear from them again, was it actually worth it?"

FYI - I've smashed shawty before

Charge it to the game. I wouldn't even look for about the money. Next time if she talks to you, don't even bring it up unless she does. If she does saying "well I was going to pay you back and blah blah blah", just be cool and collective and say this: "you leveraged your relationship with me to get over, its cool i got it - i was just trying to be a helping hand and nothing more. I hope you got your shyt together now". I did that to shorty one time, that look on her face was priceless cause it was true. Again, don't sound salty by saying it, but say it that you recognize what she is.

If I'm cool with the person, i'd just give it to them and they don't have to pay it back, but then I tell him i can't do it again either. Because 1 i hate chasing people for my money and 2 its only 30.

Next time, don't loan her or anyone female you fukked before money. Cause they gonna leverage that against you.

 

[phcitywarrior]

Charge it to the game. I wouldn't even look for about the money. Next time if she talks to you, don't even bring it up unless she does. If she does saying "well I was going to pay you back and blah blah blah", just be cool and collective and say this: "you leveraged your relationship with me to get over, its cool i got it - i was just trying to be a helping hand and nothing more. I hope you got your shyt together now". I did that to shorty one time, that look on her face was priceless cause it was true. Again, don't sound salty by saying it, but say it that you recognize what she is.

If I'm cool with the person, i'd just give it to them and they don't have to pay it back, but then I tell him i can't do it again either. Because 1 i hate chasing people for my money and 2 its only 30.

Next time, don't loan her or anyone female you fukked before money. Cause they gonna leverage that against you.

Damn, wish you told me this earlier.

I hit her with "Hey, you got that $30" and left it at that.

It's all good though. I'm done with ole girl. She's flaked once and I gave her benefit of the doubt. Now twice and I've gotten the message. But like you said it's 30. This is the first time this happened to me so I wasn't too sure how to handle it.

Only other people I've ever loaned money to are my boys or my family members. With that, I usually see it more like I'm giving them money. Depending on the amount and their situation, I may or may not ask for it back.

EDIT: If anything, I'll take this as a sign to fall back for a little bit and focus on the grind for a little longer.

 

[Deafheaven]

So chick I was digging was posed to meet up with her last night after she got off. She texts me saturday saying shes super sick, but still wants to see me and I should come into her job so she can buy me a drink. She bartends so I go up there and she is sick and gives me a martini. Shes busy so I kind of chill for a bit, say hi to her people and leave. I got bougie cracker vibes from the dudes but the ladies loved me, so I left before I said something ignorant to the dudes. Its weird because she said they all thought I was cool so its neither here nor there. I left feeling like it was a waste of time because we barely talked and I built up no further attraction, other than her female family was engrossed by me but who cares.

I text her a lil later like you sick as a dog come let me give you a lymph massage (I'm a esthetician/masseuse) and shes not having it. So I charge the night to the game and tell her I give equal effort. She said this week would be a no go beforehand because her family and holidays so I'm guessing hit her up like next fridayish and see what she on? I don't feel like I'm being chasey but I'm def pursuing more than I would like right now. I'm still maintaining mystery or w/e but I'll be honest the fact she wasn't trying to chill with a cold pulled back the blinds because if a chick is into you they usually will raise hell to see you. so interest isn't as high as I initially thought.

brehs how would you handle this. our first actual date she was all over me so I know she was into me. I haven't used the phone to spill my life story either. just texts to set shyt up, learn what I want about her, sharing snippets of myself

 

[Solano707]

Damn, wish you told me this earlier.

I hit her with "Hey, you got that $30" and left it at that.

It's all good though. I'm done with ole girl. She's flaked once and I gave her benefit of the doubt. Now twice and I've gotten the message. But like you said it's 30. This is the first time this happened to me so I wasn't too sure how to handle it.

Only other people I've ever loaned money to are my boys or my family members. With that, I usually see it more like I'm giving them money. Depending on the amount and their situation, I may or may not ask for it back.

EDIT: If anything, I'll take this as a sign to fall back for a little bit and focus on the grind for a little longer.

Completely fall all the way back, not just a little bit, breh.

 

[Solano707]

So chick I was digging was posed to meet up with her last night after she got off. She texts me saturday saying shes super sick, but still wants to see me and I should come into her job so she can buy me a drink. She bartends so I go up there and she is sick and gives me a martini. Shes busy so I kind of chill for a bit, say hi to her people and leave. I got bougie cracker vibes from the dudes but the ladies loved me, so I left before I said something ignorant to the dudes. Its weird because she said they all thought I was cool so its neither here nor there. I left feeling like it was a waste of time because we barely talked and I built up no further attraction, other than her female family was engrossed by me but who cares.

I text her a lil later like you sick as a dog come let me give you a lymph massage (I'm a esthetician/masseuse) and shes not having it. So I charge the night to the game and tell her I give equal effort. She said this week would be a no go beforehand because her family and holidays so I'm guessing hit her up like next fridayish and see what she on? I don't feel like I'm being chasey but I'm def pursuing more than I would like right now. I'm still maintaining mystery or w/e but I'll be honest the fact she wasn't trying to chill with a cold pulled back the blinds because if a chick is into you they usually will raise hell to see you. so interest isn't as high as I initially thought.

brehs how would you handle this. our first actual date she was all over me so I know she was into me. I haven't used the phone to spill my life story either. just texts to set shyt up, learn what I want about her, sharing snippets of myself

I'd just leave her be and won't reach out after that. I wouldn't have said "i give equal effort" either, that sounds sort of desperate in my opinion. I would just move on and if she hits up to hang out then so be it, but that would be it for me. She asked you to come to her job and then she really didn't talk? fukk that, sound like she just wasting your time.

 

[Deafheaven]

I'd just leave her be and won't reach out after that. I wouldn't have said "i give equal effort" either, that sounds sort of desperate in my opinion. I would just move on and if she hits up to hang out then so be it, but that would be it for me. She asked you to come to her job and then she really didn't talk? fukk that, sound like she just wasting your time.

It was actually busy, so I didn't hold it against her with that. IDK it wasn't coming from a desperate place it literally was pretty much if you joooks with me I'll do the same, if you don't we don't. take it or leave it. I don't think this is a lost cause at all, but I'm curious of what angle I should take. I don't think just moving on yet is what I want to do cuz I'm pretty confident another actual date its a high chance I stain.

 

[Astroslik]

So chick I was digging was posed to meet up with her last night after she got off. She texts me saturday saying shes super sick, but still wants to see me and I should come into her job so she can buy me a drink. She bartends so I go up there and she is sick and gives me a martini. Shes busy so I kind of chill for a bit, say hi to her people and leave. I got bougie cracker vibes from the dudes but the ladies loved me, so I left before I said something ignorant to the dudes. Its weird because she said they all thought I was cool so its neither here nor there. I left feeling like it was a waste of time because we barely talked and I built up no further attraction, other than her female family was engrossed by me but who cares.

I text her a lil later like you sick as a dog come let me give you a lymph massage (I'm a esthetician/masseuse) and shes not having it. So I charge the night to the game and tell her I give equal effort. She said this week would be a no go beforehand because her family and holidays so I'm guessing hit her up like next fridayish and see what she on? I don't feel like I'm being chasey but I'm def pursuing more than I would like right now. I'm still maintaining mystery or w/e but I'll be honest the fact she wasn't trying to chill with a cold pulled back the blinds because if a chick is into you they usually will raise hell to see you. so interest isn't as high as I initially thought.

brehs how would you handle this. our first actual date she was all over me so I know she was into me. I haven't used the phone to spill my life story either. just texts to set shyt up, learn what I want about her, sharing snippets of myself

I would fall back


She's super sick but she can still show up to work?

She's super sick but she's handling customers drinks and staying within close proximity to them and her coworkers

Looks like she invited you to show you off to her coworkers/friends and/or seek their approval.


I wouldn't have even showed up to her job , have to let her know you're not that pressed to see her, especially when she told you she's "sick".


I would fall back asap, you're acting a little desperate/needy breh