Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deafheaven]

Bolded is facts

Shoutouts to not following your own advice brehs

flew too close to the sun and got nexted on some sloppy text plays

Personally I don't think what I said was crazy but it doesn't matter the words are there for them to interpret however than want and thats how she took it so RIP


edit: since I know neggas gonna be like what your dumb ass do ol girl was posed to link with me tonight. she texted me today and said she sincerely wants to see me but has to have mommy time. Okay cool, I'm like cool kid should come first np lets re schedule. she goes totally and says MAYBE sunday. I tell her I try to stay away from maybes, I like definite dates. She then says she doesn't know because she has plans with a friend but shes flaky so she doesn't know if she will show or not. Now....this is where I fukked up because I should have just said "okay well, have fun with your friend if you do hit me up when you have a definite time youre free" instead in my amazing display of hubris I said paraphrased "that sounds fukked. I want to see you but if its gonna be dependent on flakes, I respect myself too much to go along. If you not feeling it thats cool"

now why I texted this instead of the first statement IDK maybe I'm just tired of the wishy washy bullshyt. she has a kid and job but nikkas be busy too and its what 168 hours in the week. can't find several for me? Anyway she goes sunday was the closet thing, you do you though. and i'm like you really mad? apparently she thought I was more chill and less demanding she gets spiteful and condescending and TLDR we wish each other well and that shyts dead.

My sister said I was in the wrong. maybe I am, but how I'm feeling if thats all it takes to make you flip then fukk it. that wasn't gonna work any fukking way. on to the next and perhaps I'll follow my own advice to a tee at some point

 

[VertigoKnight]

Shoutouts to not following your own advice brehs

flew too close to the sun and got nexted on some sloppy text plays

Personally I don't think what I said was crazy but it doesn't matter the words are there for them to interpret however than want and thats how she took it so RIP

I had a close call yesterday. Was texting this chick and she said something about the undead. I joked what else can you make rise.

she texted back the eyeroll emoji

I was like Luckily I quickly said the answer was bread. Which she laughed at and we carried on.

She still came and met me for a drink last night was a fun night. We made out heavily, but I'm not gonna push too hard on certain chicks.

 

[Deafheaven]

I had a close call yesterday. Was texting this chick and she said something about the undead. I joked what else can you make rise.

she texted back the eyeroll emoji

I was like Luckily I quickly said the answer was bread. Which she laughed at and we carried on.

She still came and met me for a drink last night was a fun night. We made out heavily, but I'm not gonna push too hard on certain chicks.

read the edit fam. I'm too arrogant for my own good some times.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

Where you going?

Anamabra?

Nope. I’m working in Europe for a few months

 

[MikelArteta]

Nope. I’m working in Europe for a few months

you are nigerian

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

you are nigerian

Biafran


Igbos set me up with an internship. Our professional network is amazing. Going to grind/fool around until the summer

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

I never really have anything to tallk about, I always hit a dead end

I mean that's better than talking too much and talking yourself outta p*ssy.

Texting back and forth too much is no good...nowadays you can stand out by not chatting so much because it's a bunch of dudes who will never learn and chat with these chicks for hours and giving them free attention

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

I mean that's better than talking too much and talking yourself outta p*ssy.

Texting back and forth too much is no good...nowadays you can stand out by not chatting so much because it's a bunch of dudes who will never learn and chat with these chicks for hours and giving them free attention

Random, pointed conversations are key. Jokes, you flexing on a major accomplishment, invitations to do something - that’s key, I think

 

[FishNGrits]

I mean that's better than talking too much and talking yourself outta p*ssy.

Texting back and forth too much is no good...nowadays you can stand out by not chatting so much because it's a bunch of dudes who will never learn and chat with these chicks for hours and giving them free attention

Ain’t that the truth. It’s always the broads that really be fukking with me the most that I let my guard down and appear too available and talking too much.All of a sudden it take 12 hours to respond to a text. These the hoes that approached me first and I stay fukkin up.

 

[Killigraphy]

Crehs, I'm in New York..way way more matches on Bumble but then I realized if a girl is "5 miles away" somewhere else that aint even that bad, but fukk I look like driving or taking the train from uptown manhattan to Queens to meet a chick? Oh hell no

Pretty much how I treat it. I make sure they always come down for me, I'm in Manhattan,its New Mecca, I'm not making a pilgrimage to some shythole in Brooklyn or Queens.

 

[VertigoKnight]

read the edit fam. I'm too arrogant for my own good some times.

Was this the chick from the bar again?

 

[Deafheaven]

Was this the chick from the bar again?

yup. I mean to be fair. beautiful big tittied in shape single mom bartender who was on some free love shyt. it was never gonna be serious but it could have been fun lol.

I was pretty against having a roster in the past but this last year has shown me in this current climate you'd be retarded not to so that's gonna be my mentality int he new year. I'll probs chill for the rest of this year unless something amazing falls in my lap. I was trying to play the mono game this whole year and that shyt, at least for me. is dead. I think I have enough drip to attract multiple versions of what I want to poly could be beneficial to me. Cuz usually its some shyt completely in the womans favor cuz they get dikk for nothing but if you got your shyt together as a man you should be getting cheeks at a similar rate. I do fine but I don't spread my wings nearly enough so thats gonna change.

 

[NobleDrewAli]

Yeah, i'm definitely trying to get myself right though and stop wasting so much time on bytches and the energy that goes into bytches.

Starting to focus more on putting the right inputs into my system, update my youtube subscriptions, read more, etc.

Not to toot my own horn but it's no way I shouldn't be pulling in at least 10k a month. Need to get my income streams up.

What you subscribe to on YT? I’m looking to upgrade mine too.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

My 19 yo told me this stupid shyt yesterday talking bout she don't want to seem easy

Women

It's like embedded in them..had a 38 yr old and a 55 yr old pull that shyt...

I just hit them with the "what are you talking about? You're not making sense( ) "

In my thinking id rather feign ignorance than run the risk of trying to persuade her..give her the impression that you're not pressed for the p*ssy.

 

[VertigoKnight]

yup. I mean to be fair. beautiful big tittied in shape single mom bartender who was on some free love shyt. it was never gonna be serious but it could have been fun lol.

I was pretty against having a roster in the past but this last year has shown me in this current climate you'd be retarded not to so that's gonna be my mentality int he new year. I'll probs chill for the rest of this year unless something amazing falls in my lap. I was trying to play the mono game this whole year and that shyt, at least for me. is dead. I think I have enough drip to attract multiple versions of what I want to poly could be beneficial to me. Cuz usually its some shyt completely in the womans favor cuz they get dikk for nothing but if you got your shyt together as a man you should be getting cheeks at a similar rate. I do fine but I don't spread my wings nearly enough so thats gonna change.

With like minded women it's the way. Never having to chase anyone she either wants to be involved or not and if she doesn't someone else will step in.

I'm lucky I live in a city where there are so many busy career women who want occasional companionship and are grown and upfront about it. I also tried the mono thing earlier this year shyt was a headache. I like to be myself and not be under any female.