Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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those are usually the best when your meh
usually when you :gladbron: is when you get a hug and a messag you're a nice guy but

Again shyt is sick but its the way it goes. Some chicks feel your excitement and crush it.

All the chicks I've smashed made it very clear they were looking to fukk, so no games. Others I've been ambivalent with them on the date as I couldn't tell with them.

But a few chicks got back in touch with me months later and said they felt I was too good looking for them. And that messed with their confidence.

Can't make sense with some of these chicks.

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”Just tell me if you’re seeing other girls, I can take it”

What would the brehs thoughts on this comment be?

Do not do this and here is why...

Field Report

So I was on and off dating this thick black mami with nice fat fukking ass :mjcry:

We had a falling out a few months ago and we recently connected.

Mind you i never hit :mjcry:

This past friday we go out and had drinks and talked and she asked if i was dating. I said yeah, just dating here and there but nothing serious. She was like ok and we kept talking.

This past sunday she cooks dinner and she is wearing the tightest of clothes on :banderas: and while she is cooking i'm feeling all up on her, kissing her and rubbing that fat fukking ass. I swear, I was like 'damn, i'm bout to be all up in this shyt' :banderas:

As the night goes on, we on the couch making out and she stops me :francis:

I only have sex when i'm in a committed relationship...

nikka wtf :hhh:

man, i was fukking thowed:wow:

she basicallly send for me to think on it and so i left

Today i called her and told her I'm gonna keep on dating women and i'm not going to put my integrity on the line by lying to you saying we in a relationship, digging you out and me digging other chicks out on the side. :aicmon:

long story short, she said she can never date me because she knows i'm gonna date, and she said she past all that.

bytch, you 40 couch surfing like a bum ain't no way i'm gonna be tied down to your ass, don't care how fat that ass is. :camby:She 9/10 too.

I told her i'm a high value male and a woman is going to have to work her ass off if she wants me to claim her but ain't no way i'm asking a woman to be in a relationship with me.

So lesson learned. If she asks if you are dating, just say no. Let your unavailability to her suggest that you are dating others covertly, but don't admit to it.

Brehs I was so fukking heated after that phone call, that p*ssy was right there and ain't even hit :shaq2:

That's alright, she a bum broad anyways, literally was living house to house lol So she did me a favor. She knows what I bring to the table. fukk that, I built that fukking table and tell broads where they can sit at :ohlawd::youngsabo::smugdraper:
 

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Just a lil shyt test from her. I think you could have finessed it.

I have had girls tell me shyt like that and I fukked them when I didn't give af, but girls who tell you shyt like that will always play games.

I have had girls give me many reasons why they couldn't fukk, and I respected it, and left them alone, guess what ?

Never chilled with any of them again.

But do what makes u feel comfortable bruh.




Do not do this and here is why...

Field Report

So I was on and off dating this thick black mami with nice fat fukking ass :mjcry:

We had a falling out a few months ago and we recently connected.

Mind you i never hit :mjcry:

This past friday we go out and had drinks and talked and she asked if i was dating. I said yeah, just dating here and there but nothing serious. She was like ok and we kept talking.

This past sunday she cooks dinner and she is wearing the tightest of clothes on :banderas: and while she is cooking i'm feeling all up on her, kissing her and rubbing that fat fukking ass. I swear, I was like 'damn, i'm bout to be all up in this shyt' :banderas:

As the night goes on, we on the couch making out and she stops me :francis:

I only have sex when i'm in a committed relationship...

nikka wtf :hhh:

man, i was fukking thowed:wow:

she basicallly send for me to think on it and so i left

Today i called her and told her I'm gonna keep on dating women and i'm not going to put my integrity on the line by lying to you saying we in a relationship, digging you out and me digging other chicks out on the side. :aicmon:

long story short, she said she can never date me because she knows i'm gonna date, and she said she past all that.

bytch, you 40 couch surfing like a bum ain't no way i'm gonna be tied down to your ass, don't care how fat that ass is. :camby:She 9/10 too.

I told her i'm a high value male and a woman is going to have to work her ass off if she wants me to claim her but ain't no way i'm asking a woman to be in a relationship with me.

So lesson learned. If she asks if you are dating, just say no. Let your unavailability to her suggest that you are dating others covertly, but don't admit to it.

Brehs I was so fukking heated after that phone call, that p*ssy was right there and ain't even hit :shaq2:

That's alright, she a bum broad anyways, literally was living house to house lol So she did me a favor. She knows what I bring to the table. fukk that, I built that fukking table and tell broads where they can sit at :ohlawd::youngsabo::smugdraper:
 

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”Just tell me if you’re seeing other girls, I can take it”

What would the brehs thoughts on this comment be?

It's a trick.​

She is checking the temperature on the fukkery she can get away with.

If she knows that she is your only option subconscious she will take advantage.

It also shows that you might be undesirable.
If no one else wants you, something must be wrong with you:picard:



Now If you tell her "Yes, I am dating other people." it will put her in a competitive mode. She has other competition and now she knows. Once she knows there are more options for you, she will straighten up and you will have the upper hand. Don't fukk it all up by being a simp.:patrice:



However I will warn you.. I did this to this one teacher that I'm messing with and after I told her im dating other women (I said 2 more) it took me 3 more times of smashing just to smash without a condom.:francis:


She held it against me, kept bringing it up "oh what about the other women." And was happy as shyt to get the condom.

We would be in the bed about to fukk.. my dikk out shes naked.. I'm about to penetrate her walls .. then she would loudly say "OH LET ME GET THE CONDOMS" then proceed to get out of the bed and walk 10 fukking feet to the dresser to pickup a condom from the top draw.


Annoying af.:francis:


But guess what breh. I'm still smashing her till this DAY!

Till this DAY- Wilder . :mjlit:
 

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I'm see if she let slide over one of these nights :patrice:


Gotta ask in away that dont make her feel like I just want sex.


She tried to get me to come over plenty times in the past
 
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It's a trick.​

She is checking the temperature on the fukkery she can get away with.

If she knows that she is your only option subconscious she will take advantage.

It also shows that you might be undesirable.
If no one else wants you, something must be wrong with you:picard:



Now If you tell her "Yes, I am dating other people." it will put her in a competitive mode. She has other competition and now she knows. Once she knows there are more options for you, she will straighten up and you will have the upper hand. Don't fukk it all up by being a simp.:patrice:



However I will warn you.. I did this to this one teacher that I'm messing with and after I told her im dating other women (I said 2 more) it took me 3 more times of smashing just to smash without a condom.:francis:


She held it against me, kept bringing it up "oh what about the other women." And was happy as shyt to get the condom.

We would be in the bed about to fukk.. my dikk out shes naked.. I'm about to penetrate her walls .. then she would loudly say "OH LET ME GET THE CONDOMS" then proceed to get out of the bed and walk 10 fukking feet to the dresser to pickup a condom from the top draw.


Annoying af.:francis:


But guess what breh. I'm still smashing her till this DAY!

Till this DAY- Wilder . :mjlit:

I was thinking the same... it’s more of a test to see how I react and if I change how I handle her.

We’ve been seeing eachother for three months tho... She followed the question up with what my intentions are with her. I think she wants more of my time and is trying to force my hand a bit.

I think the best way to handle this situation is to say that I’m not seeing other girls but keep being a challenge and not start simping. S/O to @Yashin

She’a actually cool as hell but super insecure.
 

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I was thinking the same... it’s more of a test to see how I react and if I change how I handle her.

We’ve been seeing eachother for three months tho... She followed the question up with what my intentions are with her. I think she wants more of my time and is trying to force my hand a bit.

I think the best way to handle this situation is to say that I’m not seeing other girls but keep being a challenge and not start simping. S/O to @Yashin

She’a actually cool as hell but super insecure.

Yeah
This changes everything.
Super insecure women.. they want all of your time and are super clingy.

They are easy as hell to mind fukk:banderas:




You might have one here

I will say tho proceed with caution (IF you want a relationship):usure:


After a while shyt might get tiresome.

All them "where are you" texts, wanting to be on the phone for hours of the day. Wanting to see u everyday of the week without getting tired of you. Chill out bytch. :hhh:


The thing about them is if you don't provide these women with attention or approval they will seek it elsewhere. It always happens. When you are at work and can't be on the phone with her she will probably facetiming someone else.


If you don't text them back in a certain time frame... Welp after a while she will seek that attention somewhere else:francis:



These bytches love complements from other nikkas.


She will reply to 4 to 6 out of 10 dms saying "thank you" or start semi small conversation after a nikka sends her a flattering remark.:queen:


She will not shut down a nikka that initiates flirting behind your back .. Not because she doesn't respect you but it's because of her damn NEED for approval because she is so damn non confident and insecure on the inside.

She might try to flirt with the waiter just to check the gauge and build her confidence if you bite on jealous. :mjlol:



You sitting over there like :fire: on the inside.



These unconfident bytches are lowkey the worst.. and the best..:wow:


Be careful with these insecure women. They will make you feel like a King (especially if they are bad) but are very time consuming and low-key sneaky.


They trap simps and use them for approval.


Like they say

"Find out if she loves you.

Not the attention you give her."
 
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