Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mr. Glass]

You're choosing the wrong hoes if you're fukking up the text game. If she's really into you, you can say whatever the fukk you want to her. I say random shyt to all my females. It doesn't matter, they eat it up.

 

[mortuus est]

if she aint texting she aint feeling you

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

Texts should 95% of the time be about setting up to meet in person

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

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[ColdSlither]

If you're getting one word replies you're in the danger zone. You're boring her. If you're getting one syllable replies then shyt is over. You're not just boring her, you done lost her respect. There ain't no coming back from that.

Don't text all day. You will be tempted to but don't. It's different when you're in a relationship. The rules change. Until then, end conversations or know when it's the type of convo where you can just leave things hanging. Act like you have things to do, and get back to her message later. Let her see that you read the message. On that note, unless you are talking about something important, don't worry about being quick to reply. Those two things show neediness, and women don't respect needy men.

 

[Primetime21]

There is no such thing as text game. There is woman who are attracted to you and woman who aren't. That doesn't mean you can't talk yourself out of p*ssy by saying some really stupid shyt, but it's never over minor details. If the bytch is fickle, she wasn't really interested in the first place.

This is really all that needs to be said.

 

[Tommy Sheppard]

meh

if you around 30 years old or below you know these girls will find phone calls damn near intrusive and creepy.
not every girl is down for them until they have really established that they like you

calling unannounced is a quick way to hear "can i call you back i have to do xyz" and never hear from them again

Some of these women won’t even answer the phone if your not FaceTiming them.

 

[god shamgod]

Man there’s some bad advice in this thread. I see exactly why most you coli dudes struggle with women

 

[mortuus est]

damn us london boys are deep in here init

 

[mortuus est]

Those mixed breed light skin byproducts are bad as shyt. went to Stratford mall and almost out my mind

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[MikelArteta]

Lol sounds like my experiences with moving in that world. I also used to live on East Street just off old kent road ends. Grew up near Yellow Brick in Peckham.

I got into that world because I started working in museums and the art galleries and meeting important people. Because I was also articulate you get to see how the other side live and how they conduct themselves. Not gonna lie a lot of those people put me on and I certainly would not be where I am today without doors being opened and people looking out for me with no want of anything in return.

But I'll always be a boy from Peckham. I never forget my roots or look down on people I came up with. But yes London is heavily classist.
but if you can walk the fine line you can use it to your advantage.

Always curious why did you leave London if you don’t mind me asking?

 

[mortuus est]

Fam you in south Kensington, says it all. Where did you meet those two black women you asked? Because what they said is bullshyt. Go Peckham, Croydon, Brixton, Tottenham, Edmonton, Hackney you will see nikkas dating black girls. Like i said Different places in London attract different types of people. You will rarely ever see black couples frequent the same spots as these interracial couples.

Like you said about Hinge, attractive black educated women. Those types in London are looking for a specific type of black guy, who walks, talks, dresses and thinks a certain way and that type of nikka they want is only looking at white girls. The nikkas that date black women they don't check for. You need to understand that shyt

Class and Classism is a real thing here in London ill tell you that now, its why alot of places in central london got dress codes, its to keep a certain type of person and a certain type of nikka from certain areas out. I dated a white girl cuz, her dad worked for MI5 for 20 years and works for the UN now, when with her we went out to places in london i have never been before, places i didn't even know existed and im born and bred in London. It was all similar type people in those spots too, and the types of nikkas there were not like me. I dont fukk with those type of nikkas, although cause of my personality, im funny and the fact i can articulate myself in many different ways i have the ability to get on with all sorts of people and i do but i grew up by East street off Wolly Road, Elephant and Castle im not the same as that type nikka and me personally i dont really get them. I hated being in them spots man, its where i peeped how bad classism is here in London, i felt like an alien in them spots, i couldn't believe i grew in the same city as these people.

Most of them type nikkas date white girls and these educated black girls are funnily enough looking for them type nikkas cause of their education they wanna be in a particular social and class circle in london and its them nikkas that are there.

You go out to Leicester square, Liverpool street, Soho, Covent garden etc and go out to restaurants bars there of course your gonna see 9/10 interracial couples. When i dated that white girl those were the spots i was hitting. When homie from the bits going out to eat with his girl they going to places like Kervan in edmonton fam

i can 100% co sign this, said what i had in my head for time

classism is a thing although alot of broke people out there pretending but you can usually tell who's showing and proving

this is also one of the reasons people need tour guides that really know their shyt , you'll miss out on alot of hood shyt but real shyt if you dont know where to go if youre not a local , same thing if i was to go to Chicago, id need a serious person to take me to Oblock for some cheesy fries and a turkey burger LOL

 

[mortuus est]

Because I was also articulate you get to see how the other side live and how they conduct themselves. Not gonna lie a lot of those people put me on and I certainly would not be where I am today without doors being opened and people looking out for me with no want of anything in return.

this , its always good to see how both sides of the grass really is

i started working in oxford street when i was 15 and looking back i really had to pattern myself up quickly , i also remember dressing like a wu tang member cira 93

 

[RealAssanova]

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Chick I just met

I have the same nike windbreaker

Damn not only are we possibly sharin the same hoes but the same jackets too

 

[MikelArteta]

damn us london boys are deep in here init

We in here


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