Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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could y'all tell me if I'm ugly or maybe even Black-Pearl could chime in? I've been having trouble with women my entire life and expected it would be easier once I got my life together,

I make 110k in the Midwest,
I own my own home and vehicles
I have a bachelors degree in computer science
no debt
I play guitar and do shows every month
I also travel frequently


I haven't had sex in 2 years, Dating apps are pretty much obese black women and the cute ones are ghetto/super young or have kids. I never meet women at my shows and the ones that do show interest are usually big.

Now I'm not in top physical condition I'm exactly 15 pounds overweight but I'm not down to date an obese chick. Every dating book I've read touts "confidence" but I have no reason to not be confident in myself given my accomplishments and the circumstances I came from.

So the only logical deduction I could make is that I'm physically unattractive, hell the last date I was on we got drunk and she called me ugly(not jokingly). so yeah.




we all have the hands were dealt and I'm cool with the unfiltered truth. At least I can drop bands on cool toys and be fulfilled otherwise.

Thanks for any input y'all


:dame: you probably lame or not confident enough. Most nikkas who get a lot of women spend a lot of time chasing women it's like another skill and once you get on a roll they fall out the sky.

:dame: and make sure your dreads are always fresh. Looked like you need a retwist.:dame:
 

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aye

could y'all tell me if I'm ugly or maybe even Black-Pearl could chime in? I've been having trouble with women my entire life and expected it would be easier once I got my life together,

I make 110k in the Midwest,
I own my own home and vehicles
I have a bachelors degree in computer science
no debt
I play guitar and do shows every month
I also travel frequently


I haven't had sex in 2 years, Dating apps are pretty much obese black women and the cute ones are ghetto/super young or have kids. I never meet women at my shows and the ones that do show interest are usually big.

Now I'm not in top physical condition I'm exactly 15 pounds overweight but I'm not down to date an obese chick. Every dating book I've read touts "confidence" but I have no reason to not be confident in myself given my accomplishments and the circumstances I came from.

So the only logical deduction I could make is that I'm physically unattractive, hell the last date I was on we got drunk and she called me ugly(not jokingly). so yeah.




we all have the hands were dealt and I'm cool with the unfiltered truth. At least I can drop bands on cool toys and be fulfilled otherwise.

Thanks for any input y'all


First of all get rid of them ripped jeans are you a thot nikka??
 

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aye

could y'all tell me if I'm ugly or maybe even Black-Pearl could chime in? I've been having trouble with women my entire life and expected it would be easier once I got my life together,

I make 110k in the Midwest,
I own my own home and vehicles
I have a bachelors degree in computer science
no debt
I play guitar and do shows every month
I also travel frequently


I haven't had sex in 2 years, Dating apps are pretty much obese black women and the cute ones are ghetto/super young or have kids. I never meet women at my shows and the ones that do show interest are usually big.

Now I'm not in top physical condition I'm exactly 15 pounds overweight but I'm not down to date an obese chick. Every dating book I've read touts "confidence" but I have no reason to not be confident in myself given my accomplishments and the circumstances I came from.

So the only logical deduction I could make is that I'm physically unattractive, hell the last date I was on we got drunk and she called me ugly(not jokingly). so yeah.




we all have the hands were dealt and I'm cool with the unfiltered truth. At least I can drop bands on cool toys and be fulfilled otherwise.

Thanks for any input y'all


Second piece of advice nikka forget about all that shyt your talking about earning 110k a year and owning your own home and vehicles, degree and no debt. Dont talk about all that shyt you 'have', if you start packaging yourself based on what you have in a material sense all you will attract is thots, goldiggers and shallow women, and any bytch you do get you will lose when a nikka with more comes along. And also that points to probably the reason why you are struggling

You sold yourself and played up yourself on here by talking about what you have, never mentioned shyt about who you actually are nikka. Who are you without any of that shyt that can go just as easy as it comes? all that shyt that another man round the corner has more off? You gotta believe your the shyt because of who you are, even if you had empty pockets nikka. nikka you dont have confidence, because if you had confidence in YOU you wouldn't try to validate yourself by talking about what you have
 

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It's all about confidence and charisma, material stuff doesn't mean shyt. There's dudes with millions in their bank account who couldn't get a bathtub wet.

I knew a dude back in the early 2000s who barely worked a day in his life and was the epitome of a wasteman. I never knew him to do anything productive with his life, but dude admittedly had a ton of charisma and was funny as fukk and always staying in different chicks homes. He had two babymamas who knew each other and were cool but I heard some broads (not his babymamas) fought over him in the street once. He had fukked up dreads and all. :mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
 

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aye

could y'all tell me if I'm ugly or maybe even Black-Pearl could chime in? I've been having trouble with women my entire life and expected it would be easier once I got my life together,

I make 110k in the Midwest,
I own my own home and vehicles
I have a bachelors degree in computer science
no debt
I play guitar and do shows every month
I also travel frequently


I haven't had sex in 2 years, Dating apps are pretty much obese black women and the cute ones are ghetto/super young or have kids. I never meet women at my shows and the ones that do show interest are usually big.

Now I'm not in top physical condition I'm exactly 15 pounds overweight but I'm not down to date an obese chick. Every dating book I've read touts "confidence" but I have no reason to not be confident in myself given my accomplishments and the circumstances I came from.

So the only logical deduction I could make is that I'm physically unattractive, hell the last date I was on we got drunk and she called me ugly(not jokingly). so yeah.




we all have the hands were dealt and I'm cool with the unfiltered truth. At least I can drop bands on cool toys and be fulfilled otherwise.

Thanks for any input y'all

breh just open a hinge account and you'll eat, if theres no bw in your area fukk it and date whoever is into you
 

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aye

could y'all tell me if I'm ugly or maybe even Black-Pearl could chime in? I've been having trouble with women my entire life and expected it would be easier once I got my life together,

I make 110k in the Midwest,
I own my own home and vehicles
I have a bachelors degree in computer science
no debt
I play guitar and do shows every month
I also travel frequently


I haven't had sex in 2 years, Dating apps are pretty much obese black women and the cute ones are ghetto/super young or have kids. I never meet women at my shows and the ones that do show interest are usually big.

Now I'm not in top physical condition I'm exactly 15 pounds overweight but I'm not down to date an obese chick. Every dating book I've read touts "confidence" but I have no reason to not be confident in myself given my accomplishments and the circumstances I came from.

So the only logical deduction I could make is that I'm physically unattractive, hell the last date I was on we got drunk and she called me ugly(not jokingly). so yeah.




we all have the hands were dealt and I'm cool with the unfiltered truth. At least I can drop bands on cool toys and be fulfilled otherwise.

Thanks for any input y'all

CS gang :blessed:


I switched my shyt tho, you can keep the math

On topic: You can drop them bands bro but as you see now you are still unfulfilled and are insecure about yourself
Confidence is different from your self esteem and you have some self esteem issues.
If you don’t like the way you look, change it

If you do, keep your image.

I aint finna tell you u ugly cause there’s somebody for everybody
But in 2019 we got bytches getting lipo and ass shots and nikkas getting hair lining and ab treatments.
So yeah
You dont gotta do any of that tho just get your shyt retwisted and get a lining/clean up your face.

Some fresh-er clothes too. look like you still shop at forever 21. Go to Neiman Marcus or if not that Nordstrom/Nordstrom rack or some shyt

Another thing, women problems do not magically get better once your shyt is right

As you can see with the world today, that shyt gets WORSE

Like i said its 2019 the money n materials do not please these women, they are gassed up

Women are semi retarded, and the more you understand that the better.
I think you should work on your self-esteem first, then decide on what kind of chick you going for
Is it just black women?
Does she have to be IG thot model type fine?

Last thing is location, the Midwest :huhldup:

Gotta hit up the coast, cause u sound like you only going for black women and black women do not fukk with the midwest


I hope i gave it to ya raw

:dame:



SN: Fat chicks got good p*ssy too breh
Gon get you a lil big bytch one night :steviej:
 

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Got the your a great guy but we should just be friends text :heh:

I didn’t even feel anything if anything relief. As I haven’t even seen this chick in a month and did yesterday and it was just out of my way and wanted to leave as soon as I arrived.

It’s crazy back in the day I would have been affected somewhat now meh not even my ego feels tarnished
 

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Had a great first date last night and we're going out again on Saturday.

And on Tinder, I matched with an Australian chick vacationing alone in New York for the first time. I think I'm going to try the classic bar hopping in my neighborhood and end up back at my place technique on her.
 

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Got the your a great guy but we should just be friends text :heh:

I didn’t even feel anything if anything relief. As I haven’t even seen this chick in a month and did yesterday and it was just out of my way and wanted to leave as soon as I arrived.

It’s crazy back in the day I would have been affected somewhat now meh not even my ego feels tarnished

Lol the I still want you to give me attention but I'm gonna put you on the back burner for a few months till I circle back round to check in with you text.

Yeah before that kinda text would sting like a motherfukker. Now I'm mostly non-plussed.

Did you hit?
 

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Lol the I still want you to give me attention but I'm gonna put you on the back burner for a few months till I circle back round to check in with you text.

Yeah before that kinda text would sting like a motherfukker. Now I'm mostly non-plussed.

Did you hit?

numerous times for like the past 6 months

and yep it's amazing I literally feel nothing except I can hop on dating apps without feeling guilty anymore

I didn't even reply to the text just deleted her contact, every experience I've had with women throughout the year molded me into this where nothing surprises me or effects me.
 

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I mean for one;

Don't listen to any broad on this thread or forum....its bad enough fish are giving fiahermen "pointers" on how to fish, but many are on here thinking they understand game....thousands of years of form and function, and a pair of t*ts, thinks she knows what she wants....spoiler; they never know what they want, what we do know, is that women crave emotion, regardless of how they get it. Endgame; put your Infinity Gauntlet on, and snap her into submission.


-Create Space between you and your target, keep her wanting.

-Have the Power to control any scenario or event. Don't like the conversation? Change the topic. You should ooze strength, both mentally and physically, walk tall, chin up, chest out, proud.

-Your Reality is the only one that matters, she wants to get into your club, not the other way around, she's a groupie, you're the rockstar.

-Always keep peace of Mind, she'll shyt test you, lie, and demand something of you...give her nothing while being aloof and fan her shyt tests with self amusement. What makes you laugh, annoys her, use to your advantage.

-Time, more importantly yours, is valuable, its a rare gem, something used for your profit, never allow someone to waste it. You're the king of your dominion, you being late to an event should still be a blessing.

- You, the conqueror of lands, the victor of wars, and the mind behind invention, your Soul is the spark of creation, its the music that we make and the dreams that inspire those to be dreamers.


You are man....you, are, inevitable.


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