Babymama Magnet
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This message is exclusively for my bros without kids. You are in a great space. You currently have no responsibility to take care of anyone. You can make good decisions that will dictate the next 20-30 years of your life. Do not go out there and get you a "baby mother". I know these rap songs and now these R&B songs are out here talking about making women their baby mothers like it's some badge of honor, but it's the worst thing you could ever do. Having a baby with a woman you don't plan to or want to be with is setting yourself up for being a broken home manager. Kids here. Kids there. Kids everywhere.
All it's going to do is complicate your life. Especially when you find the woman you really want to be with and start a family with her. But you already got kids that somehow you gotta blend in the mix, and if you don't have custody of your kids and your baby mother feels a way, she's gonna make your life hell. Also, having a baby mother decreases your value. A majority of good women do not want to deal with your baby mother issues, because she knows you don't have custody and that you will constantly have to deal with the baby mama drama because of it. And God forbid your new girl looks better or is better off than your baby mother. Your drama will intensify. But you can avoid all of this by not getting these women pregnant. Cats frown on marriage, but having a plan for starting a family the right way is the way to go. Ask any dude with a baby mother. I guarantee you, he wish he would have done it differently. Stop telling these chicks during sex you want to put a baby in them. Stop taking off the condom during sex and playing Russian Roulette. Just stop. Your future self will thank you for listening to me.
Had to dump my ex because of this same reason.
Didn't see a future with her but the way the relationship was going i knew that eventually i was gonna slip up and get her pregnant (and i know for a fact she woulda kept it)
Foresight is a powerful thing. If you can't see yourself still being with the girl you're messing with in 10+ years then you have no business shooting your soldiers up in her sweet spot.










