Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Silkk]

@Colgatebrah Did she take off her towel/change in front of you?

 

[DapMeUp!]

What the fucck were you doing? Actually studying?

That was my exact reaction reading that

 

[Goon for hire]

Yes, she was feeling you and you def should have made a move. Once she lied that she was with her suitemate you shoulda known what time it is. These chicks know what their doing, don't ever forget that. To the bolded, make sure you're 100% on it. If you're gonna choose grades then make sure you're graduating with latin honours or something of that like. Otherwise you'll play yourself if your half assing it.

I’ve hit two chicks since I’ve been on campus so I haven’t been a complete failure. I’m still gonna try to get girls but I’m just not gonna go looking for p*ssy anymore, If it comes it comes, if it doesn’t it doesn’t. Like if I know for a fact a chick is straight up choosing but I’m not chasing bytches. My long term (career) is way more important than laying up with new hoes every week in the short term, You feel me?

What the fucck were you doing? Actually studying?

Well for some of it yeah, like I said she knows the shyt and I don’t. but other times we were just talking and she was telling me a bunch of shyt about her life and complaining about her boyfriend and her parents.

@Colgatebrah Did she take off her towel/change in front of you?

She asked if I minded her changing then she took the towel off in front of me she put the t shirt and shorts on inside of the closet but it was an open space so I could see if I was looking but I was trying not to

 

[Silkk]

@Colgatebrah

You were trying not look.......? Why?

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

What the fucck were you doing? Actually studying?

Nah I don't think buddy would have been able to smash.

Walking around in your towel around the opposite sex some white people shyt.

Like how white people in movies make a big ass breakfast and only grabs an orange.

That's just white people shyt.

There would have been more cues for breh if he could have smashed...

I'm speaking from college experience myself since I go to school too.

 

[Silkk]

Nah I don't think buddy would have been able to smash.

Walking around in your towel around the opposite sex some white people shyt.

Like how white people in movies make a big ass breakfast and only grabs an orange.

That's just white people shyt.

There would have been more cues for breh if he could have smashed...

I'm speaking from college experience myself since I go to school too.

Breh.....Ain’t no woman gonna get naked in front of you if she wasn’t feeling you.

There is no clearer signal than that

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Breh.....Ain’t no woman gonna get naked in front of you if she wasn’t feeling you.

There is no clearer signal than that

Nah man... the only thing I can think of is being in court and the judge asking why I made those sexual choices.


I can hear it now


"Just because she was in a towel means she wanted you to make a move?"


I'm not making any moves


I need more signs.

Like her "accidently" letting her towel slip down a little.

She talking about sexual things while we studying

She flirting

Playing with her hair and other body cues....


I just don't trust the u see me in a towel for 5 mins so it's safe to assume u wanna fukk type shyt.


Women out here wearing shyt that reveals more than a towel ever could


I'm not doing it in this pc world

Nope

No

 

[Silkk]

Nah man... the only thing I can think of is being in court and the judge asking why I made those sexual choices.


I can hear it now


"Just because she was in a towel means she wanted you to make a move?"


I'm not making any moves


I need more signs.

Like her "accidently" letting her towel slip down a little.

She talking about sexual things while we studying

She flirting

Playing with her hair and other body cues....


I just don't trust the u see me in a towel for 5 mins so it's safe to assume u wanna fukk type shyt.


Women out here wearing shyt that reveals more than a towel ever could


I'm not doing it in this pc world

Nope

No

A woman being naked in front of you not enough.............but if she naked in front of you playing with her hair thats the green light?

 

[DapMeUp!]

A woman has never been in front of me with just a towel unless I have smashed, or was about to smash.

 

[Silkk]

A woman has never been in front of me with just a towel unless I have smashed, or was about to smash.

Exactly

 

[NotaPAWG]

i need advice from men..

i met this guy off of Bumble, he was pursuing and putting kinda pressure on me to meet up and hang out, even though I was hesitant also because i’m financially strapped. he insisted anyways and offered to pay. and realized i probably shouldn’t be on a dating app since i’m trying to heal from my ex and our abusive relationship that was traumatizing to me. We made plans to hang out then i explained my situation to him and he appreciated my honesty but still encouraged me to at least give it a chance and told me not to over complicate things.

So we met up at a local bar, had a few drinks. We hit it off really well in my opinion, he was kind, a gentleman, funny, easy to talk to. He worked in finance on wallstreet and left that to become a golf pro. Were kinda opposites in terms of upbringing. But still had a lot in common. Anyways, about 12 he asked me if i was up for learning black jack because he mentioned he’d teach me prior to meeting up.

We ended up playing black jack until like 3:30-4 am, after we sat in his car and talked for awhile.

We flirted, kissed. etc he wanted to take it further and go back to his place and “watch a movie” but i stopped that and knew what it was he wanted. And i wasn’t trynna to sleep with him as casual sex isn’t my thing and i hold myself to higher standards now. Anyways, so i had him bring me to my car, thanked him for taking me out and we split ways..

and texted him a couple hours ago, wishing him a nice day at work. no response, before we hung out, he was the one texting me, getting no responses, kinda not taken seriously given my ex situation etc..

am i overthinking this? or over complicating it?

i was really into him. someone who had to convince me to even go out, but i really ended up enjoying my time with so if he dubs me i’ll be disappointed

i’ll let him pursue me. if he’s interested in seeing me again he’ll show it but it’s hard to not wonder what i did wrong or maybe i’m just being insecure or anxious

 

[Silkk]

i need advice from men..

i met this guy off of Bumble, he was pursuing and putting kinda pressure on me to meet up and hang out, even though I was hesitant also because i’m financially strapped. he insisted anyways and offered to pay. and realized i probably shouldn’t be on a dating app since i’m trying to heal from my ex and our abusive relationship that was traumatizing to me. We made plans to hang out then i explained my situation to him and he appreciated my honesty but still encouraged me to at least give it a chance and told me not to over complicate things.

So we met up at a local bar, had a few drinks. We hit it off really well in my opinion, he was kind, a gentleman, funny, easy to talk to. He worked in finance on wallstreet and left that to become a golf pro. Were kinda opposites in terms of upbringing. But still had a lot in common. Anyways, about 12 he asked me if i was up for learning black jack because he mentioned he’d teach me prior to meeting up.

We ended up playing black jack until like 3:30-4 am, after we sat in his car and talked for awhile.

We flirted, kissed. etc he wanted to take it further and go back to his place and “watch a movie” but i stopped that and knew what it was he wanted. And i wasn’t trynna to sleep with him as casual sex isn’t my thing and i hold myself to higher standards now. Anyways, so i had him bring me to my car, thanked him for taking me out and we split ways..

and texted him a couple hours ago, wishing him a nice day at work. no response, before we hung out, he was the one texting me, getting no responses, kinda not taken seriously given my ex situation etc..

am i overthinking this? or over complicating it?

i was really into him. someone who had to convince me to even go out, but i really ended up enjoying my time with so if he dubs me i’ll be disappointed

i’ll let him pursue me. if he’s interested in seeing me again he’ll show it but it’s hard to not wonder what i did wrong or maybe i’m just being insecure or anxious

Was just the first date, He hasn’t fukked yet. He’s not going anywhere yet.

He is probably a little annoyed rn now, But it was yall first time linking. If it wasn’t, you might be in the bushes now tbh.

 

[NotaPAWG]

Was just the first date, He hasn’t fukked yet. He’s not going anywhere yet.

He is probably a little annoyed rn now, But it was yall first time linking. If it wasn’t, you might be in the bushes now tbh.

Yeah, i mean.. he probably figured since he paid for drinks and dropped 300 teaching me how to play black jack he’d get some. he seems like a calculated man that’s a charmer and knows how to get into a women’s pants just with his mouth. probably annoyed it didn’t work on me since it usually does for him.

i know the games men play and wasn’t gonna put myself in a position to be fukked and thrown to the bushes. rather not give it up and not feel regret then give it up and feel used. ‍

 

[George Gooney]

i need advice from men..

i met this guy off of Bumble, he was pursuing and putting kinda pressure on me to meet up and hang out, even though I was hesitant also because i’m financially strapped. he insisted anyways and offered to pay. and realized i probably shouldn’t be on a dating app since i’m trying to heal from my ex and our abusive relationship that was traumatizing to me. We made plans to hang out then i explained my situation to him and he appreciated my honesty but still encouraged me to at least give it a chance and told me not to over complicate things.

So we met up at a local bar, had a few drinks. We hit it off really well in my opinion, he was kind, a gentleman, funny, easy to talk to. He worked in finance on wallstreet and left that to become a golf pro. Were kinda opposites in terms of upbringing. But still had a lot in common. Anyways, about 12 he asked me if i was up for learning black jack because he mentioned he’d teach me prior to meeting up.

We ended up playing black jack until like 3:30-4 am, after we sat in his car and talked for awhile.

We flirted, kissed. etc he wanted to take it further and go back to his place and “watch a movie” but i stopped that and knew what it was he wanted. And i wasn’t trynna to sleep with him as casual sex isn’t my thing and i hold myself to higher standards now. Anyways, so i had him bring me to my car, thanked him for taking me out and we split ways..

and texted him a couple hours ago, wishing him a nice day at work. no response, before we hung out, he was the one texting me, getting no responses, kinda not taken seriously given my ex situation etc..

am i overthinking this? or over complicating it?

i was really into him. someone who had to convince me to even go out, but i really ended up enjoying my time with so if he dubs me i’ll be disappointed

i’ll let him pursue me. if he’s interested in seeing me again he’ll show it but it’s hard to not wonder what i did wrong or maybe i’m just being insecure or anxious

Don't think too much. He'll be back. He's playing it cool. He's gonna take his time responding to your texts.