Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[calixprynce]

About to pop out to a bar/club and grab some drinks. First time ever alone

 

[George Gooney]

BOSS

and yeah now you see why its so hard to "settle down" nowadays. You got like 34 numbers in your phone and growing and those chicks are also giving their number to 10 other guys no one is satisfied because a swipe away is a hotter chick etc.
I was talking to a chick last week, she was about a 6 look wise , church girl and all that was supposed to meet up but then i matched with a hotter haitian chick and yeah

Youre right OG and the thing about is as a man I'm doing myself a disservice because ever since I've been going hard at these chicks my productivity has dropped slightly for my hobbies and side hustles. The rush and joy of having a chick submit to you with her body got a hold on me.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

About to pop out to a bar/club and grab some drinks. First time ever alone

Lmk how that shyt go. Been thinking about doing this for a solid while.

I was at one last week dolo but that's cause the bytch I was suppose to meet ended up an hour late. I left after 30 minutes(and only waited cause I ran into a bro from my gym) She tried face timing when she got there I was already home on my couch watching NBA bytch gtfoh

 

[J.E.T.S]

I asked a chick I went out with a couple of times to be my side chick.

I've offered to help her in a situation a couple times and buy her lunch. She always said "no thanks love". She never really initiate conversation with me either. Whether via text or when we're around each other.

She had just broke up with her nikka.

bytch said, "I'll let you know by Monday "

6 hours later she texted, "I like you. But I just can't do it."

I still haven't smashed yet. Probably won't ever now.

First of all... LOL.

Second of all, what does any of this mean? How do y'all interpret this situation?

How should I proceed?

 

[Pyrexcup]

I asked a chick I went out with a couple of times to be my side chick.

I've offered to help her in a situation a couple times and buy her lunch. She always said "no thanks love". She never really initiate conversation with me either. Whether via text or when we're around each other.

She had just broke up with her nikka.

bytch said, "I'll let you know by Monday "

6 hours later she texted, "I like you. But I just can't do it."

I still haven't smashed yet. Probably won't ever now.

First of all... LOL.

Second of all, what does any of this mean? How do y'all interpret this situation?

How should I proceed?

wait you've taken her out a couple of times asked to help her and offered to buy her lunch and still not smashed? you better take that L and keep it moving you have done all of this and not smashed so she's not gonna let you now either you friend zoned yourself should have set the temperature straight away

 

[Ahadi]

I asked a chick I went out with a couple of times to be my side chick.

I've offered to help her in a situation a couple times and buy her lunch. She always said "no thanks love". She never really initiate conversation with me either. Whether via text or when we're around each other.

She had just broke up with her nikka.

bytch said, "I'll let you know by Monday "

6 hours later she texted, "I like you. But I just can't do it."

I still haven't smashed yet. Probably won't ever now.

First of all... LOL.

Second of all, what does any of this mean? How do y'all interpret this situation?

How should I proceed?

How you start with women is how you finish.

You create that energy Day 1. You don’t ask a woman to be your side, you tell her.

No more buying lunches and helping her. This leads to “friendzone / boyfriend territory

 

[J.E.T.S]

wait you've taken her out a couple of times asked to help her and offered to buy her lunch and still not smashed? you better take that L and keep it moving you have done all of this and not smashed so she's not gonna let you now either you friend zoned yourself should have set the temperature straight away

How you start with women is how you finish.

You create that energy Day 1. You don’t ask a woman to be your side, you tell her.

No more buying lunches and helping her. This leads to “friendzone / boyfriend territory

Ok, fellas help me maneuver and finesse this situation.

I see this female everyday. I still want to fukk.

How would y'all proceed if you were me?

Is there a way to flip this? Shift momentum?

 

[Ahadi]

Ok, fellas help me maneuver and finesse this situation.

I see this female everyday. I still want to fukk.

How would y'all proceed if you were me?

Is there a way to flip this? Shift momentum?

Nah it’s over. Best you do is fall back & keep that same energy. If she wants to come around, she will.

Move on to new prospects.

 

[pickles]

I asked a chick I went out with a couple of times to be my side chick.

I've offered to help her in a situation a couple times and buy her lunch. She always said "no thanks love". She never really initiate conversation with me either. Whether via text or when we're around each other.

She had just broke up with her nikka.

bytch said, "I'll let you know by Monday "

6 hours later she texted, "I like you. But I just can't do it."

I still haven't smashed yet. Probably won't ever now.

First of all... LOL.

Second of all, what does any of this mean? How do y'all interpret this situation?

How should I proceed?

Go on with your life. She doesn't care about you. There is nothing to interpret. What are you confused about, she has told you what you need to know.

 

[pickles]

This chick at gym was eying me for a minute at the gym. Last week Tuesday she sending signals again so I'm like aight I'm going for it.I usually ignore women in the gym. We meet up in parking lot I give her one of my personal cards (Creativity will get you places with women trust).She says multiple times you look familiar,I know you from somewhere,I seen your face etc . Judging by her response was she nervous?Edit:Saw her at gym today we didn't even speak

Giving out cards is being creative now?

You fukked up. Why the fukk would she call you? What kind of dumb shyt is this?
I swear some y'all nikkas don't even how to be a man.
Give her your phone and say put your number in and tell her you will text her later. It is not that hard.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Giving out cards is being creative now?

You fukked up. Why the fukk would she call you? What kind of dumb shyt is this?
I swear some y'all nikkas don't even how to be a man.
Give her your phone and say put your number in and tell her you will text her later. It is not that hard.

Yall can clown all y'all want I don't care. Cats in here talking about we are the prize yet we chasing the women calling them texting them.Let them chicks come to you,put the pressure on them.I gave her my # I wasn't gonna even take chance of her giving a bs excuse by me asking for her #. I don't think u cats understand how often women get asked and harassed for their #s and then nikkas gonna clown me for giving card and thinking differently . I bet some of you cats not even cold approaching .Yea I took an L but I rather take one talking to a chick in person then her ghosting me on an "swipe&match" dating app like common cat out here .

 

[J.E.T.S]

Go on with your life. She doesn't care about you. There is nothing to interpret. What are you confused about, she has told you what you need to know.

She just texted this..

"Morning ******..I hope it doesn't change anything cause I really do like you I just don't believe that would be a good idea.."



Respond or not?

How would y'all handle this?

 

[SATAN]

She just texted this..

"Morning ******..I hope it doesn't change anything cause I really do like you I just don't believe that would be a good idea.."



Respond or not?

How would y'all handle this?

Contrary to popular belief, most people don't want to knowingly be a side piece.

 

[The Message]

She just texted this..

"Morning ******..I hope it doesn't change anything cause I really do like you I just don't believe that would be a good idea.."



Respond or not?

How would y'all handle this?

dont respond breh. at all

your whole post was...i did this, i did that, i offered to, i asked her...

you forced it. women dont like force. it has to flow naturally

their favorite phrases are "it just happened." & "one thing led to another"

and if you wanted her as a side piece, it couldve happened. it just needed to be her idea and eventually unfold to her being a side thang.

you verbalizing it made her feel hoish even if thats what she really wanted

so fall back and dont respond.

next time just lead things down the path you want and let her follow if she wants. many girls are down for that, many arent

honestly it doesnt sound like she was even interested to begin with

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Brehs I'm getting so much play off these apps that it's getting detrimental. I see a fine chick, swipe right, we match, I copy paste the same questions and answers I do all chicks, she sends me her number, I forget all about her as soon I match with the next bad bytch. I got like 34 phone numbers on my phone and growing. I think I'ma delete a few apps then come back after I've fukked a few of these hoes on standby. This shyt can easily become addictive I noticed. It's like I dont even want the ass after I get the number. But thats hustling backwards so I gotta chill

Props but it's a delusion breh.

Until you get some or at least some nudes don't get think you have completed the game of hookups through these apps.

You not the only dude these chicks matching with and giving numbers out too. Their number of matches is times 5 compared to yours