Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Silky Johnson]

On some g shyt...yall trying too hard. It's supposed to be easy and free flowing at this stage in the game.

Women talk for sport, especially when you don't live with them and they don't see you 24/7. If she's not talking, believe me she's thinking of a whole bunch of stuff she doesn't want to say. You can be all dr phil and explore her feelings or whatever hoespeak you want or you can just say and go kick it with a woman that's interesting and invites a free flowing convo. Unless you have children and money tied up in investments together, there's really nothing stopping you from moving on and finding whatever it is you're looking for.

 

[Marzupial]

The harsh reality is I think you boring too

In my experience woman get the personality of they men, iam the type who make a lot of jokes and after a while they start doing the same kinda jokes I do

You talk to your women in the phone and actually want to hear her lead convos? Ian sorry but that sounds like a boring nikka

 

[Lootpack]

@56FLACCO

You might have seasonal depression...

The lack of sunlight heading into fall might cause a decrease in your vitamin d levels..

Im going thru the same shyt...gonna find me some vitamin d pills and report back...

I think I got this too.

 

[Malik1time]

The harsh reality is I think you boring too

In my experience woman get the personality of they men, iam the type who make a lot of jokes and after a while they start doing the same kinda jokes I do

You talk to your women in the phone and actually want to hear her lead convos? Ian sorry but that sounds like a boring nikka

Nah I’m always making jokes and talk about anything really I’m just tired of putting all the effort out and getting none back but every girl that’s interested in me makes great convo I don’t have to force nothing with the others idk breh

 

[360dagod]

I’d like to know for the guys who are saying “don’t give out your number, take hers” how old are you? Seems like a generational thing.

To be honest, if she fycks wit you, you can get away with both options. But in my experience giving my number out was way more successful then taking hers & it still works more to this day. Especially on dating apps, it weeds out the bs insta/onlyfans/cashapp promo hoes.

No one style is for everyone...

People just gotta find their groove

 

[360dagod]

I think I got this too.

Ever since the weather changed, my mood has went downhill...taking a supplement and gonna eat some more food...

 

[phcitywarrior]

@56FLACCO

You might have seasonal depression...

The lack of sunlight heading into fall might cause a decrease in your vitamin d levels..

Im going thru the same shyt...gonna find me some vitamin d pills and report back...

One of the reasons I dislike DST. Days get much shorter and there's less sun. I always feel more energized when I'm in Nigeria getting sun around the clock.

 

[Balla]

yes and im probably going to a different club (even tho I dont do clubs) the fukk I look like being that creeper nikka trying to holla at every girl in the club. They more than likely saw me get denied by the others

How old are you

 

[Lootpack]

Solo?

I don't know how to strike up a random convo with folks without coming off thirsty.

really breh ? do the hoes not be drinking where you at ? ive found if yall both drinking , no one really cares . just talk to em, if the bytch wanna act like you thirsty, keep it movin

Going out to the club solo was scary as fukk for me at first, but once I stepped in and got a lil alcohol in my system I was good to go though. Started doing this about two months ago. I mean I've struck out every time so far , but you'll get more comfortable each time you try it. The key while gaming solo is to also have fun. If you're really enjoying yourself out there then women will notice that and be attracted to that. I was so caught up in the numbers game that I forgot about that. I've stopped going since I felt like I was wasting money for the most part, but you'll ultimately notice that these women really don't care. They know nikkas be shooting their shots every day. We only live once fam, gotta take in these opportunities while we can.

I'm out here in DC by myself man. If I can do it, you can too.

Ever since the weather changed, my mood has went downhill...taking a supplement and gonna eat some more food...

Days closing faster now too. Get out of work and it's already dark as shyt. By the time I get home, shyt make me feel like I ain't got much of a night to enjoy.

 

[CookisaCac]

How old are you

29

 

[Balla]

29

How do you get girls if you don’t approach a few of them?

 

[CookisaCac]

How do you get girls if you don’t approach a few of them?

I never said that. I don't go out and start just shooting my shot until I gain one in abundance. That's mad desperate and creeper like. But none of that matters because I have a girlfriend...who approached me.

 

[Balla]

I never said that. I don't go out and start just shooting my shot until I gain one in abundance. That's mad desperate and creeper like. But none of that matters because I have a girlfriend...who approached me.

Well if you’re the relationship kind of guy, I get what you saying. There’s ways to approach without looking like that, but it doesn’t matter since you don’t care.

 

[CookisaCac]

Well if you’re the relationship kind of guy, I get what you saying. There’s ways to approach without looking like that, but it doesn’t matter since you don’t care.

I know there's ways to approach without looking like that. The example he gave wasn't one of them. Running around a club dancing/hitting on chicks until one accepts you?

 

[Balla]

I know there's ways to approach without looking like that. The example he gave wasn't one of them. Running around a club dancing/hitting on chicks until one accepts you?

I don’t think he means it the way you’re thinking, but if he’s trying to talk to multiple chicks back to back that are close to each other, then yes, that doesn’t look good.

But if a girl sees you get rejected it’s not a big deal.