I think the growth of the IG 'self care' quote movement hasn't helped and makes women even more miserable. And it's mostly women who subscribe to this stuff. Basically makes it seem that any shytty decision they make is free of consequence and an excuse to be flaky and not apologize for anything they do because 'self care'.
A few chicks I've dealt with follow a lot of that shyt. Nothing wrong with actual guided self care that you learn from. But many treat it as an out for not being decent human beings.
I def have noticed over the past several years decidedly sociopathic behavior from women in general. I fukk with all types of women so its not isolated. Just do the sheistiest and most inconsiderate shyt on a whim

" Had to ignore her cuz i had a chick at work

