Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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My girl taking finals this week, but she been distant lately too. I haven’t been perfect, but I’m working to build my business. I told her that. I can stand up and say when I’m wrong.

But she hasn’t been responding to my texts lately and it’s frustrating. Like today we were supposed to link after I got off work and she was done with her final. No response:beli:this is the last straw. I’m done.

Sick of investing in these hoochies and getting hurt:mjcry:Shyt is wack
 

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Only deal with women who have a CLEAR interest in you.

My girl taking finals this week, but she been distant lately too. I haven’t been perfect, but I’m working to build my business. I told her that. I can stand up and say when I’m wrong.

But she hasn’t been responding to my texts lately and it’s frustrating. Like today we were supposed to link after I got off work and she was done with her final. No response:beli:this is the last straw. I’m done.

Sick of investing in these hoochies and getting hurt:mjcry:Shyt is wack

Leave her and move on, homie. It has nothing to do with finals.
 

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My girl taking finals this week, but she been distant lately too. I haven’t been perfect, but I’m working to build my business. I told her that. I can stand up and say when I’m wrong.

But she hasn’t been responding to my texts lately and it’s frustrating. Like today we were supposed to link after I got off work and she was done with her final. No response:beli:this is the last straw. I’m done.

Sick of investing in these hoochies and getting hurt:mjcry:Shyt is wack
:mjcry:

There were times when we know they're busy so they CAN'T respond. But we all know when a girl is feeling feeling you, she will find a way to respond. Even if she at both her parents' funerals, she will respond within five minutes.

Like right in the beginning stages of getting to know each other, you know how she feeling you by the response time strength.


So that shyt hits hard when you know shyt ain't sitting right and someone ain't responding all-day:mjcry::mjcry::mjcry:

Flashbacks man..... they hurt:mjcry::mjcry::mjcry:
 

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:mjcry:

There were times when we know they're busy so they CAN'T respond. But we all know when a girl is feeling feeling you, she will find a way to respond. Even if she at both her parents' funerals, she will respond within five minutes.

Like right in the beginning stages of getting to know each other, you know how she feeling you by the response time strength.


So that shyt hits hard when you know shyt ain't sitting right and someone ain't responding all-day:mjcry::mjcry::mjcry:

Flashbacks man..... they hurt:mjcry::mjcry::mjcry:

All it takes is about a minute to respond so if she can’t take the time out her day to message you then that shows you your place in her life
 

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I've never been in a relationship before and when I look at what some people have to deal with I don't think I want to.

My boss got a phone call from his wife because she lost her glasses at the gym.

She calls him back 45 minutes later to say she found them.

His expression while talking back to her was "That's great. I'm so glad you found them:unimpressed:"

In my head I'm thinking he has to respond that way, or else his wife would be legitimately angry with him when he gets home that he was not upset about the fact that she lost her glasses at the gym:mjtf:

Is that what a relationship is like?

Having to pretend you care about bullshyt when you actually don't just to spare your spouse's feelings?
 

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All it takes is about a minute to respond so if she can’t take the time out her day to message you then that shows you your place in her life

Yeah, this is my logic.

It doesn't even take a minute actually. It takes seconds to fiddle your thumbs and text someone.

I just told a chick this last week, and of course they deny it and are like "sorry, I've just been stressed out, and this person this, that problem that, blah blah"

But on an even deeper level remember this, it shows whether or not you cross their mind. If you cross somebody's mind, they will text you, especially a woman. If she's not replying in a timely fashion, it should be crossing her mind to be curious/check her phone to see if you have texted her, whether you did or didn't. So no reason your texts should sit for hours unanswered.

Some women are like, "I'm not really on my phone like that", that's a lie. If you texted anybody all day, you could say something to someone you claim to be interested in.

It may take you a min to see that and learn her behavioral patterns, and in that time you may be overextending yourself, double texting etc. I never like to accuse ppl right from jump so I give them rope. BUT once you see that behavior, either slowly abort mission or give that same behavior back to them.

Believe me, they notice when your behavior/texts go from being interested on level 10, down to a level 2.

I'm preachin to myself here if nobody else.
 
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I've never been in a relationship before and when I look at what some people have to deal with I don't think I want to.

My boss got a phone call from his wife because she lost her glasses at the gym.

She calls him back 45 minutes later to say she found them.

His expression while talking back to her was "That's great. I'm so glad you found them:unimpressed:"

In my head I'm thinking he has to respond that way, or else his wife would be legitimately angry with him when he gets home that he was not upset about the fact that she lost her glasses at the gym:mjtf:

Is that what a relationship is like?

Having to pretend you care about bullshyt when you actually don't just to spare your spouse's feelings?
He doesn’t have to do that
 
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I've never been in a relationship before and when I look at what some people have to deal with I don't think I want to.

My boss got a phone call from his wife because she lost her glasses at the gym.

She calls him back 45 minutes later to say she found them.

His expression while talking back to her was "That's great. I'm so glad you found them:unimpressed:"

In my head I'm thinking he has to respond that way, or else his wife would be legitimately angry with him when he gets home that he was not upset about the fact that she lost her glasses at the gym:mjtf:

Is that what a relationship is like?

Having to pretend you care about bullshyt when you actually don't just to spare your spouse's feelings?

He doesn’t have to do that
Not only that, that bytch sounds annoying as fukk to be with
I'm trying to do something important and you call me to tell me you lost your fukking glasses :mjtf:
Then you call me 45 min later that you found them like I give a fukk :mjtf:
I would lose my mind being with someone like that :snoop:
 

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Yes he does.
In order to submit.

He knew the shyt storm that would be waiting for him when he got home had he hung up on her, or told her "I don't care".
No.

You've never been in a relationship and it shows.

In a real relationship, neither partner has to pretend they care. They both will genuinely care about each other enough to be honest with each other
 
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