Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[SATAN]

I find it funny how I’m always the one who gets friends out the house during a breakup and I go above and beyond for all my friends but since I broke up with my girl no one gives a shyt and never once try to hang out or whatever lesson learned I’m to nice

I was going to say to surround yourself with better friends, but actually there is something more important you need to know.

You need to learn how to be emotionally self-sufficient and how to not need other people to help you feel happy. You have to know how to cheer yourself up when something like this happens to you. It's normal to feel sad for a min, but you have to know how to feel happy without others inviting you to hang out.

You can't truly rely on anyone else for shyt, just remember that.

EDIT: I don't mean to just cut everyone off and be alone. But just don't expect to be able to rely on anyone for shyt. Don't expect anyone to repay your kindness. Could be your wife, your parents, your best friend of 15 years, whoever.

Be kind just to be kind, you will be rewarded with good karma.

 

[Malik1time]

I was going to say to surround yourself with better friends, but actually there is something more important you need to know.

You need to learn how to be emotionally self-sufficient and how to not need other people to help you feel happy. You have to know how to cheer yourself up when something like this happens to you. It's normal to feel sad for a min, but you have to know how to feel happy without others inviting you to hang out.

You can't truly rely on anyone else for shyt, just remember that.

EDIT: I don't mean to just cut everyone off and be alone. But just don't expect to be able to rely on anyone for shyt. Don't expect anyone to repay your kindness. Could be your wife, your parents, your best friend of 15 years, whoever.

Be kind just to be kind, you will be rewarded with good karma.

Nah I feel you 100% breh I just find it odd how I’m always there for all my homies when things go wrong with them but when a situation rise up in my life no one bothers to care/call me to hang out I always have to hit up people first but yeah thanks for the advice

 

[Astroslik]

bytches will go all day without saying shyt to you and then when they finally call they ask why you haven’t texted/called. bytch I called you twice hours ago and you didn’t answer.

We still entertaining this in 2020?

automatic bushes when these games start happening. I feel like a lot of you dudes deal with shyt like this due to lack of options.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

I went on a date last week and we sat at the bar. Why was she facing forward while I was facing her? It was weird as hell.

 

[Soundbwoy]

My girl has been acting real childish while I was out of town, already downloaded hinge

 

[SATAN]

I went on a date last week and we sat at the bar. Why was she facing forward while I was facing her? It was weird as hell.

She wasn't interested in you. A woman will have her body, or at least her feet, turned toward you if she's into you. They do it subconsciously

 

[MikelArteta]

there are just too many single women out there
the odds are in our favour brehs

Always remember you don't owe anyone a thing put yourself first. I'm not saying be a a$$hole or user/abuser , cheater etc. but just like a job if you can get a better job out there with less stress you're going to take it right? The same with women if i'm talking, cavorting with a chick and there is a better option who's interested me i'm taking the better option. Women end 85% of all relationships and most of the time it's because they think they can do better.

 

[DaRealness]

I find it funny how I’m always the one who gets friends out the house during a breakup and I go above and beyond for all my friends but since I broke up with my girl no one gives a shyt and never once try to hang out or whatever lesson learned I’m to nice

Those guys aren't your friends. At best they're aquaintances.

It's easy to hang out with you and chill when things are going good. You know who you're friends really are when you hit rock bottom.

I used to be that 'good friend' to people who clearly didn't deserve it and life threw me some really hard lessons as to how a lot of people ain't shyt.

The mere fact they don't reciprocate the help you gave them shows they don't have any type of honor or loyalty. If you posted about a chick who left you because you lost your job or was temporarily disabled, we'd tell you to cut her loose. Likewise, I personally wouldn't keep a fake friend around either. Those are the types who mysteriously disappear when you fall on hard times but pop up like a Jack-in-the-box the minute the smoke clears and you're doing well again.

If you still want to hang with those dudes, that's up to you. But just remember when it's their time, then you're "busy" now.

In future, don't use the term 'friend' loosely. Like that saying goes: don't cross oceans for people who wouldn't step over a puddle for you.

 

[J.E.T.S]

My girl left yesterday because I cursed her out and nutted up on her a week ago about some bullshyt she did. She said I'm an a$$hole and need to work on me. Whatever that means? Lol.

I fukked up though...

I got drunk and begged for her back. She was ignoring a nikka heavy. I asked if she's done, she won't answer me directly... just keep saying "It's only been a day, that I need to stop focusing on the status of the relationship... work on me and let her know when that process starts"

What the hell does that mean? That's not telling me anything. The fukk kinda open ended answer is that?

Coli?

Second of all, I'm not drunk no more and I'm about to go kick it with some other hoes. BUT! I love this girl and can't stop thinking about her. I'm going to no contact her... I hope she comes back though. I ain't gonna even cap.

Opinions?...

 

[Marzupial]

Nah I feel you 100% breh I just find it odd how I’m always there for all my homies when things go wrong with them but when a situation rise up in my life no one bothers to care/call me to hang out I always have to hit up people first but yeah thanks for the advice

A king doesn't have friends

He got followers or enemies

 

[semicko82]

My girl left yesterday because I cursed her out and nutted up on her a week ago about some bullshyt she did. She said I'm an a$$hole and need to work on me. Whatever that means? Lol.

I fukked up though...

I got drunk and begged for her back. She was ignoring a nikka heavy. I asked if she's done, she won't answer me directly... just keep saying "It's only been a day, that I need to stop focusing on the status of the relationship... work on me and let her know when that process starts"

What the hell does that mean? That's not telling me anything. The fukk kinda open ended answer is that?

Coli?

Second of all, I'm not drunk no more and I'm about to go kick it with some other hoes. BUT! I love this girl and can't stop thinking about her. I'm going to no contact her... I hope she comes back though. I ain't gonna even cap.

Opinions?...

Is this the chick with the two kids

 

[J.E.T.S]

Is this the chick with the two kids

Yes

 

[semicko82]

Yes

why you keep putting up with her? You should've left her behind in 2019.
I know you're in "love" , but is it worth a headache

 

[semicko82]

I find it funny how I’m always the one who gets friends out the house during a breakup and I go above and beyond for all my friends but since I broke up with my girl no one gives a shyt and never once try to hang out or whatever lesson learned I’m to nice

I been there brehs. I've been on the phone for hours with friends who were going through a divorce. I was the friend who took a call at 4 in the morning when homey found out wife was cheating on him.
When I was going through my struggles none of my "friends" were no where to be found

 

[Malik1time]

I been there brehs. I've been on the phone for hours with friends who were going through a divorce. I was the friend who took a call at 4 in the morning when homey found out wife was cheating on him.
When I was going through my struggles none of my "friends" were no where to be found

And I’m not complaining but this situation really opened my eyes like damn I’m always that friend that be there but ohh well lesson learned