Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Broke it off with my girl of 4 years last Saturday. described the relationship in another thread and how she was setting ultimatums on marriage by a certain time etc. I broke it off cause I didn't want to be forced into something, couldn't see a good future with her due to a lot of red flags and overall didn't have positive a good gut feel about it. Looking back on it thought the relationship was toxic as hell and can't believe i settled for that shyt for so long.


Good for u...my friend did the same thing...his girl ended up getn fat
 

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Idk if you guys remember but I knew this was gonna happen smh .


Chick I’ve been seeing for these past 2 months , ( dates , spending time together, raw sex ) hmu the other night after she left my house and asked me if I’m still on tinder , I told her yea I swipe here & there when I’m bored . But I haven’t been on a date nor have I been with anyone else since I’ve been with her ( which is the honest truth )

lol the reason why she asked is because I matched with one of her friends ( and her friend thought I was handsome & wanted to link ) btw idk her friend nor did she tell her friend that we’re dating .
Tonight she got on the phone crying after I told her that I wasn’t in a position to give her what she wanted ! Which is dating exclusively . Since I do travel when I can ( and I’m bound to smash something overseas ) and I don’t want to be pressed about who I’m talking to or what I did with anybody .

Idk how to salvage this situation , I was being truthful but she wasn’t having it , she started crying and told me that she wasn’t no average chick & she wouldn’t stand for that . I told her I respect her decision if she doesn’t want to talk anymore . But she asked me to fight for her & she’s asking me if she’s not enough for me .
How do you approach this situation Fellas ?
 

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It’s amazing how unappreciative many of these women are. You’d be amazed how many women go on dates where dude paid the whole thing and never even hear a “thank you for taking me out.”

I was at a bar and dude said she just gave him a half ass hug and said bye after a night of taking her to 3 different places. Lol
 

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Idk if you guys remember but I knew this was gonna happen smh .


Chick I’ve been seeing for these past 2 months , ( dates , spending time together, raw sex ) hmu the other night after she left my house and asked me if I’m still on tinder , I told her yea I swipe here & there when I’m bored . But I haven’t been on a date nor have I been with anyone else since I’ve been with her ( which is the honest truth )

lol the reason why she asked is because I matched with one of her friends ( and her friend thought I was handsome & wanted to link ) btw idk her friend nor did she tell her friend that we’re dating .
Tonight she got on the phone crying after I told her that I wasn’t in a position to give her what she wanted ! Which is dating exclusively . Since I do travel when I can ( and I’m bound to smash something overseas ) and I don’t want to be pressed about who I’m talking to or what I did with anybody .

Idk how to salvage this situation , I was being truthful but she wasn’t having it , she started crying and told me that she wasn’t no average chick & she wouldn’t stand for that . I told her I respect her decision if she doesn’t want to talk anymore . But she asked me to fight for her & she’s asking me if she’s not enough for me .
How do you approach this situation Fellas ?

Keep it moving. She wants something that you don't eventually the two differing wants would clash and end it anyhow so best cut your losses now rather than later.

Take it from me I've been there. See my post above about cutting it with a gf of 4 years. That started on tinder with just hooking up, she wanted more, told her what the deal and went ahead smashing. That lead to one thing then another and before I came to my senses I'm getting ultimatums over marriage
 
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Keep it moving. She wants something that you don't eventually the two differing wants would clash and end it anyhow so best cut your losses now rather than later.

Take it from me I've been there. See my post above about cutting it with a gf of 4 years. That started on tinder with just hooking up, she wanted more, told her what the deal and went ahead smashing. That lead to one thing then another and before I came to my senses I'm getting ultimatums over marriage

damn !! That’s fukking wild . I appreciate your insight tho .
 

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I like two. First can be feeling out and then second spot touchy feely can begin and see where her attraction is at. If it aint youre crib for 3 you fukking up. Byrds nowadays fukking on date 2 or 3 easy. You very shrewdly speed that up on date one going to several places
 

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Idk if you guys remember but I knew this was gonna happen smh .


Chick I’ve been seeing for these past 2 months , ( dates , spending time together, raw sex ) hmu the other night after she left my house and asked me if I’m still on tinder , I told her yea I swipe here & there when I’m bored . But I haven’t been on a date nor have I been with anyone else since I’ve been with her ( which is the honest truth )

lol the reason why she asked is because I matched with one of her friends ( and her friend thought I was handsome & wanted to link ) btw idk her friend nor did she tell her friend that we’re dating .
Tonight she got on the phone crying after I told her that I wasn’t in a position to give her what she wanted ! Which is dating exclusively . Since I do travel when I can ( and I’m bound to smash something overseas ) and I don’t want to be pressed about who I’m talking to or what I did with anybody .

Idk how to salvage this situation , I was being truthful but she wasn’t having it , she started crying and told me that she wasn’t no average chick & she wouldn’t stand for that . I told her I respect her decision if she doesn’t want to talk anymore . But she asked me to fight for her & she’s asking me if she’s not enough for me .
How do you approach this situation Fellas ?
If you doing it right and keep the distance, she’ll be back
 

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@FIVE 6 MAFIA did the Asian chick turn up?
She did. She's the shyest woman I've ever met, I can not read her at all. I tried flirting but it went right over her head. The loud noises of the band seemed to bother her. Maybe she has Asperger's I don't know.

We danced to a few songs then took a break to cool off. A guy asked her to dance so she danced with him. I was still cooling off so I was just chilling watching the dancers. The guy she was dancing with tried to get close, and he put his hand on the small of her back, and she pushed him off and left him standing there on the dance floor. I pretended not to see what just happened, like I was looking in another direction, and I asked her how the dance went. She said it was weird but okay. Then she went and got her sweater, and tied it around her waist. I think she wanted to cover up her azz, she didn't seem to like the attention and looks she was getting.

Then another song came on and I danced with a different chick for that song. She was watching me the whole time, then halfway through the song I looked over and she was not there. I didn't know where she had gone. She sent a text saying she got tired so she left. But no one gets tired 45 minutes into an event...

Even though we hadn't officially made it a date, and I didn't get a chance to let her know that I was into her, it seems like she got jealous and left when I danced with the new chick. Or maybe she's introverted and can't handle those loud environments. She was more comfortable and open when we were at dance class. A lot of guys were asking her to dance, and she said no to a lot of people but danced with me.

She's an attorney with a Juris Doctor degree. She is very logical and seems introverted. I'm thinking that with this woman, it may be more beneficial to simply tell her that I'm into her and that I'd like to take her on a date.

It's almost like she's so intelligent and logical, that the usual game doesn't work on her.
 
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