Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So this bytch finally replies to my message. she says has a boyfriend now, despite her telling me that she liked me and wanting to go the movies and dinner. She says let's be friends. Yo, should i light the dumb bytch ass up or just ignore her because i'm mad af right now?
Ghost protocol. Don’t look back.


If she lives near nyc send her my way so I can get my promoter friends paid :mjgrin:
 

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How do you humble an arrogant woman without being disrespectful?
 

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Talkin' to my playa potna he told me I was trippin and it's the perfect setup

I'm laid up with this chick I've been kickin' it with for a week and I'm just staring at the ceiling tryna keep my playa together. Of the current roster, she's the chick I like the most, (ex co-worker) but I don't hear from her unless I'm reaching out. At the same time she never opposes anything I wanna do. Since we re-linked last Tuesday, we've spent 4 nights together (woulda been 5 but I got in my feelings one night smh) but we can go the whole day without talking even if we have plans.

That leaves me plenty of opportunity to entertain the roster but I find myself wanting to use that energy on her, plus ion like that shyt at all :snoop:

I don't know how I'ma handle her but I know ima fall back. She was in a relationship when I met in her '12 and she said she's been single a year, so at least 7 years with the same dude, who dogged her and ended up in a relationship with a girl he was cheating with.
 

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So this bytch finally replies to my message. she says has a boyfriend now, despite her telling me that she liked me and wanting to go the movies and dinner. She says let's be friends. Yo, should i light the dumb bytch ass up or just ignore her because i'm mad af right now?
From my experience ghosting a women hurts them more than actually saying something:yeshrug::yeshrug:
 

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Real talk brehs men are truly better people than women. So this chick jumps in my DMs on twitter like I’m so cute blah blah blah. And I’m answering her questions bout where I’m from, hobbies, etc. But from looking at her I already know she ain’t my type so why? If our genders were reversed a chick wouldn’t have even responded to the dm. So why do us men feel like we have to be polite all the time and guard women’s feelings? shyt is weird.
 

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Brehs, how do you detach yourself emotionally from someone you’re still involved with? I’ve noticed that I’m starting to like her way too much. We’re not in a relationship yet because of long distance. We’re waiting till she moves back here in the summer. Although she really likes me too, I’m starting to act different and over analyze everything. We’ve been talking everyday.
This is why you need to have your own life and hobbies and something to work on. Start hitting the gym or find a side hustle, just starting doing something constructive and don't focus on her focus on yourself. You aren't even really involved with her if it's long-distance and if you are getting attached from a long-distance relationship you are going to become even more attached when she moves here. Better get your shyt together now before she moves near you.
 

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Real talk brehs men are truly better people than women. So this chick jumps in my DMs on twitter like I’m so cute blah blah blah. And I’m answering her questions bout where I’m from, hobbies, etc. But from looking at her I already know she ain’t my type so why? If our genders were reversed a chick wouldn’t have even responded to the dm. So why do us men feel like we have to be polite all the time and guard women’s feelings? shyt is weird.


Yeah I’ve talked to ugly women before

most men treat women with respect even if we are not attracted it’s just the makeup of a man.
 

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Real talk brehs men are truly better people than women. So this chick jumps in my DMs on twitter like I’m so cute blah blah blah. And I’m answering her questions bout where I’m from, hobbies, etc. But from looking at her I already know she ain’t my type so why? If our genders were reversed a chick wouldn’t have even responded to the dm. So why do us men feel like we have to be polite all the time and guard women’s feelings? shyt is weird.
Nah that depends on your options man

When you the man

You treat the six and seven like shyt

And jump right to the one that is a ten

That's it
 

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Brehs, how do you detach yourself emotionally from someone you’re still involved with? I’ve noticed that I’m starting to like her way too much. We’re not in a relationship yet because of long distance. We’re waiting till she moves back here in the summer. Although she really likes me too, I’m starting to act different and over analyze everything. We’ve been talking everyday.
Long distance? Oof. And talking every day? You're a friend to her at this point. She's getting her back blown 2000 miles away and you are her emotional support
 

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Real talk brehs men are truly better people than women. So this chick jumps in my DMs on twitter like I’m so cute blah blah blah. And I’m answering her questions bout where I’m from, hobbies, etc. But from looking at her I already know she ain’t my type so why? If our genders were reversed a chick wouldn’t have even responded to the dm. So why do us men feel like we have to be polite all the time and guard women’s feelings? shyt is weird.
In america women have the most power in the dating game.
 
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