Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Turbulent]

New Prospect:

Age: 21

Stats: 5'3, 130, Ds, DSLs.

Black Mom, White Dad.

Major: Nursing.

Shes cool, sweet, and she's the farthest from ratchet possible. She does well at school and she works. When it comes to religion she like so i know i can fukk.

But we work together, in the same store, not side by side or even same days or times. I'm possibly leaving to work with another company.

Thoughts? Doesn't smoke or drink to my knowledge. I'm tryna get her to ride this dikk. all i have agreed to at this point is a possible movie date (~$30). i even jokingly asked another coworker for $20 and she went in her pocket and put it in my hand today.

im very cautious brehs. all conversation has been done in person, not text though i do have her number but never called her.

on one hand, I'd say don't shyt where you eat.

but if you're trying to hit, i always say, let your intentions be known (not necessarily verbally) but don't play silly games with her. when your value is high and she's turned on, introduce fukking in the equation. She's either down or she's not. if she fronts, fall back, give her space and let her figure it out. it's either she gets your time and attention and she's fukking or she's not fukking and gets none of your attention. but the trick is to introduce this while your value is high. And also, you don't need to do it verbally. matter of fact it's better you do this on a non-verbal level because then she fills in the blanks on her own in her mind.

best game is no game. know what you want and go for it. don't settle for something you don't necessarily want (spending too much time with her while not fukking her)

 

[Turbulent]

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[sixsixtwo]

 

[Two Stacks]

on one hand, I'd say don't shyt where you eat.

but if you're trying to hit, i always say, let your intentions be known (not necessarily verbally) but don't play silly games with her. when your value is high and she's turned on, introduce fukking in the equation. She's either down or she's not. if she fronts, fall back, give her space and let her figure it out. it's either she gets your time and attention and she's fukking or she's not fukking and gets none of your attention. but the trick is to introduce this while your value is high. And also, you don't need to do it verbally. matter of fact it's better you do this on a non-verbal level because then she fills in the blanks on her own in her mind.

best game is no game. know what you want and go for it. don't settle for something you don't necessarily want (spending too much time with her while not fukking her)

she does SEEM like a good person and all but i know that can all be a facade. shes a nerdy chick too....

based on what i know she's a dating candidate, but she gotta earn that shyt and prove it to me. all i know being that i work in the same store with her nothing regarding me seeing her will come out of MY mouth thats for sure, to anyone.

it would be way easier if i become an external product rep like im trying to do at the moment.

my nikka, she was about to seriously give me $20...that says a tiny bit about her imo...and if and when we going to the movies, im going see what I wanna see.

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[Two Stacks]

dog, that person :sadray: LOST.

People wonder why i dont wanna have kids. i watched my pops pay CS....

i watch my sister struggle with my nephews pops

 

[Turbulent]

she does SEEM like a good person and all but i know that can all be a facade. shes a nerdy chick too....

based on what i know she's a dating candidate, but she gotta earn that shyt and prove it to me. all i know being that i work in the same store with her nothing regarding me seeing her will come out of MY mouth thats for sure, to anyone.

it would be way easier if i become an external product rep like im trying to do at the moment.

my nikka, she was about to seriously give me $20...that says a tiny bit about her imo...and if and when we going to the movies, im going see what I wanna see.

i feel you but all that 20$ says to me is that she's feeling you now. doesn't really say anything about who she is.

 

[GoldenGlove]

Brehs...

Stop lying to these women that you're dealing with. Don't say you love her when you really don't. When you play games and blatantly lie while fukking a girl you're asking for some shyt to go down.

 

[Two Stacks]

i feel you but all that 20$ says to me is that she's feeling you now. doesn't really say anything about who she is.

which means i should make that move...:babymelodatass:

 

[Turbulent]

which means i should make that move...:babymelodatass:

yeah but keep it real with her, show her you're not afraid of her saying no and not messing with you anymore, and don't switch up too much on her. If you were real with her from the beginning and didn't front, whatever she found attractive in you will stay on you as long as you stay real with her (lol, i realize it's phrased all fukked up but you get the idea.)

 

[sixsixtwo]

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[Two Stacks]

yeah but keep it real with her, show her you're not afraid of her saying know and not messing with you anymore, and don't switch up too much on her. If you were real with her from the beginning and didn't front, whatever she found attractive in you will stay on you as long as you stay real with her (lol, i realize it's phrased all fukked up but you get the idea.)

Bet that breh. one thing that made me say was the fact that she has been working at the store since oct. and she said she wanted to get a car...she got $1800 saved. thats commendable imo. she working for her own shyt

 

[Turbulent]

Bet that breh. one thing that made me say was the fact that she has been working at the store since oct. and she said she wanted to get a car...she got $1800 saved. thats commendable imo. she working for her own shyt

i'll keep it real with you man, i might not be the best dude to give advice at this moment cause i'm feeling a little jaded.

all i'll say is this. If you want her to continue to have "commendable" behavior towards you, you better continue to treat her like you do now. it's like i said in an earlier post, if you start feeling like she's an exception, then your feelings will trickle down to your actions and when she sees this she'll go from exceptional to typical. and i'm speaking from experience too. it's like Reincar said. if she's so great and exceptional, how come she hasn,t been wifed yet? I'm not saying to not pursue her at all. All i,m saying is to thread with caution and remember there is no exceptions to your principles. And if you want her to remain how she is with you, you better keep the same mindset and behavior towards her.

 

[Turbulent]

We're all chasing unicorns. that's the inner simp in us. there's no such thing as exceptions. deep down they are all just regular horses. but we keep looking. They pretty themselves up and put on a fake prostetic horn (they front) but once you're attached to them they feel like they can breed an take off the disguise cause it was getting heavy. they know you,re not going anywhere cause you're hooked. they all front to some extent.


i say, once you realize there are no exceptions, if a chick is acting good towards you but it's a front or mask, if you enjoy the way she acts towards you, force her to keep on the mask forever. force the horse to keep the prostetic on forever. She wanted to be a unicorn, she'll have to stay one as long as she wants your attention. Make her either keep it on forever or step. and don't attach yourself to her or rely on her. if she's real then it won't even be an effort for her and she'll stay forever anyway and everyone is happy.

if you are being yourself or are acting a certain way towards a chick, and in response to that she behaves exactly how you want her to behave, DO NOT change your behavior towards her!!!

 

[Two Stacks]

i'll keep it real with you man, i might not be the best dude to give advice at this moment cause i'm feeling a little jaded.

all i'll say is this. If you want her to continue to have "commendable" behavior towards you, you better continue to treat her like you do now. it's like i said in an earlier post, if you start feeling like she's an exception, then your feelings will trickle down to your actions and when she sees this she'll go from exceptional to typical. and i'm speaking from experience too. it's like Reincar said. if she's so great and exceptional, how come she hasn,t been wifed yet? I'm not saying to not pursue her at all. All i,m saying is to thread with caution and remember there is no exceptions to your principles. And if you want her to remain how she is with you, you better keep the same mindset and behavior towards her.

shes 21 breh...but u right