Poh SIti Dawn
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Ah my texting game is so<<< swear I hate that shyt just bc it gives a female an opportunity to not reply and bc I don't know how to hold a convo thru that shyt. Would rather talk irl.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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the only woman that will ever truly be there for me is my moms breh, i can depend on that woman for anything...which is why i give her everything.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
We need to drop some gems on bringing the freak out of a chick. I'm in a relationship and feel like I always gotta re-invent things to not get stale 
And the longer I'm lazy, the more she prudes back up. It's work breh
And the longer I'm lazy, the more she prudes back up. It's work breh
We need to drop some gems on bringing the freak out of a chick. I'm in a relationship and feel like I always gotta re-invent things to not get stale
And the longer I'm lazy, the more she prudes back up. It's work breh
prude? a girl is usually a prude when shes not that into a guy.
could be wrong but i think it's possible she prudes because she feels like she "got you". You gotta make her understand (not necessarily verbally) that you'll only be with a girl who accepts to play her position. then it all depends on if she wants you to be with her. and inversely, she'll only want to be with you if you play your position. this is always the common denominator when dealing with women whether talking about finances, respect, sex, devotion, etc.We need to drop some gems on bringing the freak out of a chick. I'm in a relationship and feel like I always gotta re-invent things to not get stale
And the longer I'm lazy, the more she prudes back up. It's work breh
the way to get a chick to be a superfreak with you is to get her to feel like she needs you in her life to be happy. Once that is done, depending on how bad she needs you, she'll do whatever to please you and love doing it too because she'll feel like she's putting in some good work. Because on a instinctual level she'll feel that if she doesn't do what is expected of her, you'll have no problem finding a chick on her level (or higher) who will.
So yall hear about Michelle Obama and another one of her "slip up accidents" and "misspeaking" with the whole "single mother controversey?
Yeah another "accident" by the First Lady.......this definitely hasn't happened before......
Yeah another "accident" by the First Lady.......this definitely hasn't happened before......
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I'm aware that at different intervals, humans need some sort of coddling. We need some type of reassurance that we are appreciated, and we need that positive confirmation that we have redeeming qualities that other people enjoy and seek out.
But this ego-inflating, attention-seeking society we're in fukking sucks. This isn't on no weird, "I want a sex change" type shyt, but I often times wonder what it'd be like to have a vagina. Good lawd, having the key to that occult lock has to be wondrous.
I'm thinking about it more now in terms of the Facebook/OKCupid generation. More often than that, you have to be an above-average, or maybe exceptionally attractive male in order to prompt a bunch of "likes", or thirsty, favorable type comments. Maybe more than the looks, is also the status of the male that promotes it. But, if you're just an average, partially decent female, an image of your flabby stomach that's sucked in at that moment, will garner a bunch of "mmmmm!", and "hot", "oh that's sexy" type of responses and I feel like there's a falsified light to it.
I really want to study the differences between the male and female cerebrum. I feel weird at times for devoting so much thought to this, but I think some people, NEED that type of attention, and validation, for sustenance. I'm a naturally, dark, cold, bleak person. I appreciate comments and shyt, and I feel really good when I know someone appreciates a quality of mine, but I think that since I'm so pessimistic and down on myself, that I never get compelled to start fishing for likes.
I damn near want to make a fake dating website account as a girl just for theory testing. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder for sure, and we're all created differently, but it's almost mind boggling to see the type of messages that seemingly insipid females will get on these dating sites. I don't know if it's a testament to desperation, or an ode to the game of sex-chasing, that so many of us are enshrined in.
But this ego-inflating, attention-seeking society we're in fukking sucks. This isn't on no weird, "I want a sex change" type shyt, but I often times wonder what it'd be like to have a vagina. Good lawd, having the key to that occult lock has to be wondrous.
I'm thinking about it more now in terms of the Facebook/OKCupid generation. More often than that, you have to be an above-average, or maybe exceptionally attractive male in order to prompt a bunch of "likes", or thirsty, favorable type comments. Maybe more than the looks, is also the status of the male that promotes it. But, if you're just an average, partially decent female, an image of your flabby stomach that's sucked in at that moment, will garner a bunch of "mmmmm!", and "hot", "oh that's sexy" type of responses and I feel like there's a falsified light to it.
I really want to study the differences between the male and female cerebrum. I feel weird at times for devoting so much thought to this, but I think some people, NEED that type of attention, and validation, for sustenance. I'm a naturally, dark, cold, bleak person. I appreciate comments and shyt, and I feel really good when I know someone appreciates a quality of mine, but I think that since I'm so pessimistic and down on myself, that I never get compelled to start fishing for likes.
I damn near want to make a fake dating website account as a girl just for theory testing. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder for sure, and we're all created differently, but it's almost mind boggling to see the type of messages that seemingly insipid females will get on these dating sites. I don't know if it's a testament to desperation, or an ode to the game of sex-chasing, that so many of us are enshrined in.
You'll get 100msgs and likes
The only hard part for women is out of 100 guys, 10 are probably sexual predators, 10 are abusers, 70 just want to smash and dash, and the ten perhaps decent ones 7 are too ugly for her and the 3 that aren't have options
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True Blue Moon
Superstar
Prude was an expression, I get plenty sex. I was just saying I like to branch out, and if I'm lazy she goes with the status quo. Can't get comfortable.
I agree with all of this. Being with someone for years, it gets easy to fall asleep at the wheel and get cozy. I've learned that women will react to whatever you feed them, but you HAVE to feed them something. You could be doing everything right, but you have to engage them and make them feel something also.
The best times in a relationship is when she realizes you're on your shyt and comes to you for guidance, approval or reassurance. When you set the tone for what's good in the relationship and even life itself, a woman will get with the program.
CrossBones
Louder than words
We need to drop some gems on bringing the freak out of a chick. I'm in a relationship and feel like I always gotta re-invent things to not get stale
And the longer I'm lazy, the more she prudes back up. It's work breh
it is though, you have to stay in good shape, and just tell her what you want in bed. I used to do it to my girl while we were fukking though. I would tell her, "we gon do it a little different this time"
or "do this for me" "Get down like that" etc etc. just tell her what you want while fukking. she'll probably be down. maybe she likes more dirty talk, I dont know. just get her engaged in the sex and have her respond as much as you can get her too
or, just tell her ahead of time whats going on. have a little talk with her. when everyone is relaxed, everyone is likely more polite. theres no reason to let it be unresolved, and she will have to respect that you took the initiative to approach this. Im sure shes down to try new positions or whatever.
maybe yall need an overall change in routines, or to get out for a weekend and then get freaky with her. she might want some excitement, and if youre bored too, it might do you both well to get into something new. the connection is important for a woman, so I say you two might need to do some more things that you might like together.
if one of yall is happy, chances are the other one will like that and feel happy too. if one of yall is bored, chances are both of yall are bored. you just have to do something about it and see whats going on bruh.
Not By Bread Alone
Rookie
POF brehs, how many messages before you go to meet up?
This girl sent me a message first, so obviously she's interested, and now we've sent a couple messages back and forth, but I don't know what the etiquette or rules are with meeting up.
I don't want to jump the gun but at the same time don't want to lose any momentum.
This girl sent me a message first, so obviously she's interested, and now we've sent a couple messages back and forth, but I don't know what the etiquette or rules are with meeting up.
I don't want to jump the gun but at the same time don't want to lose any momentum.