Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Killigraphy]

how about divorced (kid is ex-husbands) vs. never married? i would think that might make a bit of difference in it maybe...

You have to pay attention her red flags, and a bit of her past (if possible). You have to wonder, always, why she's single, besides the kid, if she toxic? broke? a loser? etc. If you're gonna deal with this person seriously, you have to analyze every aspect.

 

[Killigraphy]

Who here smashes regularly and is good with women?

Idk what it is about me, I’m a normal dude - keep myself clean, nice fits, starting my career. Not afraid to approach a woman

But I just can’t catch one - I went out like 5 months straight to the clubs back before rona hit and I ain’t even get a call back. The ones that do just play games and it never goes anywhere.

Only smashed once all 2019 - shyt is crazy, I’m beginning to think there’s something wrong with me. Idk maybe I’m just lame, any advice for getting out of this phase? I can vibe, real laidback, but it always just dies off

Clubs are nice for the ego stroke and working on game....but you're gonna have a lot of dry dikk/lonely nights, with just a bunch of numbers on your phone that you'll forget or wont hit you back up. Women are the biggest pieces of scum in that environment....plus you know, they also enjoy a good ego stroke from time to time.

Get familiar with a girl at either a coffee shop, or any other work environment that isn't too hectic. Time + proximity = fukk. Always remember that equation. The more you can hangout around a broad, the higher probability of getting laid...so long as you don't do anything stupid to cock block yourself.

 

[Noriega]

So I mess with two shortys heavy right now. One I smash, the other I dont(a 21 year old virgin, comes from a strict catholic fam so you know how that go).

Both Latinas(Mexican & Venezuelan/white)

The one I’m not smashing i enjoy her company more, she’s funny and better looking. Has her own car, in school. Good head on her shoulders but she’s so into that no sex before marriage shyt

The one I smash. No car, works at a clothing store. we have good times but loves to drink and smoke, two things I’m not into like that. Overall a chill girl . Sex is good

I want to pour all my energy/effort into the shorty actually doing something with her life but the fact I know she ain’t finna let me clap cheeks is a turn off

 

[MAKAVELI25]

So I mess with two shortys heavy right now. One I smash, the other I dont(a 21 year old virgin, comes from a strict catholic fam so you know how that go).

Both Latinas(Mexican & Venezuelan/white)

The one I’m not smashing i enjoy her company more, she’s funny and better looking. Has her own car, in school. Good head on her shoulders but she’s so into that no sex before marriage shyt

The one I smash. No car, works at a clothing store. we have good times but loves to drink and smoke, two things I’m not into like that. Overall a chill girl . Sex is good

I want to pour all my energy/effort into the shorty actually doing something with her life but the fact I know she ain’t finna let me clap cheeks is a turn off

Have you suggested anal? And no, I'm not kidding.

 

[Noriega]

Have you suggested anal? And no, I'm not kidding.

 

[Barnett114]

Put me on to some of them Latinas mijo

 

[phcitywarrior]

One of my boys is getting married in a couple of months. He and his wife are young, 26 and 25, respectively. He courted her for like 1.5 years. Did it "by the book" so to speak. I haven't met his fiance but from word I've gotten from our mutual friends, she's a real one. I'm really happy for him because I know from personal experience (parents been happily married 25+ years) that having the right woman in your life is definitely a blessing.

The key is finding that right one.

SN: Some fellas in here just need to get comfortable being around women. Don't even think about getting numbers or "running" game per se. Just get comfortable talking and relating to women in a social setting. That comfort comes from confidence in yourself and comfort in your own skin.

 

[phcitywarrior]

Sometimes you need to just network and build some social circles, because that leads to being invited to house parties, pool parties, BBQs, and other types of outings (apart from the club) where you can meet women.

Great advice here.

I'll take it a step further: focus less on going out to meet women, but focus more on having a solid social circle(s). If you have a good social circle, then women will inherently be part of it. And since you already know friends of friends, women will be far more open towards you.

And don't always look for the invite. Make things happen as well. It doesn't take much to have a good event. Food, drinks, music and a decent space is really all you need.

 

[SATAN]

So I mess with two shortys heavy right now. One I smash, the other I dont(a 21 year old virgin, comes from a strict catholic fam so you know how that go).

Both Latinas(Mexican & Venezuelan/white)

The one I’m not smashing i enjoy her company more, she’s funny and better looking. Has her own car, in school. Good head on her shoulders but she’s so into that no sex before marriage shyt

The one I smash. No car, works at a clothing store. we have good times but loves to drink and smoke, two things I’m not into like that. Overall a chill girl . Sex is good

I want to pour all my energy/effort into the shorty actually doing something with her life but the fact I know she ain’t finna let me clap cheeks is a turn off

The "virgin" is letting some other nikka clap her cheeks.

Latinas are the freakiest especially the ones raised in a strict Catholic family

Her body count prolly 100 bro

 

[Primetime]

Great advice here.

I'll take it a step further: focus less on going out to meet women, but focus more on having a solid social circle(s). If you have a good social circle, then women will inherently be part of it. And since you already know friends of friends, women will be a little more open towards you.

And don't always look for the invite. Make things happen as well. It doesn't take much to have a good event. Food, drinks, music and a decent space is really all you need.

Yup, for any breh struggling to find women and feeling like it's basically the club, the gym, or "hoping for the best" at Walmart.. take a step back and assess/build your social circles.

I think of it like the young college breh who might not have a car yet but is friendly/outgoing with different student orgs, frats, jocks, dorm-mates, and ppl on campus..

He's in a better position than the college junior who has a car but never built any strong social circles (too busy on xbox Live), and has to drive out/scavenge clubs and bars.

 

[Astroslik]

Great advice here.

I'll take it a step further: focus less on going out to meet women, but focus more on having a solid social circle(s). If you have a good social circle, then women will inherently be part of it. And since you already know friends of friends, women will be a little more open towards you.

And don't always look for the invite. Make things happen as well. It doesn't take much to have a good event. Food, drinks, music and a decent space is really all you need.

Yup. Throw events at the crib. Great way to meet people and establish a rep

 

[sfgiants]

would y'all deal with a single mother under any circumstance? This isn't specific to anything I'm dealing with i'm just wondering if u would ever entertain one

I did for a year and a half. She was 26/27 and was getting her MBA and got an IUD. I also under no circumstances ever made her think I was tryna settle down with her. We had a good run, thousands of creampies but eventually she hit me with the “what we doin” long story short we wasn’t doin nothin but fukking so she dipped.

sometimes you get these workaholic types where they’re happy just hanging out watching a movie and cumming.
If a bytch starts talking to you about 5 year plans and how u feel about having kids and shyt cut ur losses and fukk off. Don’t waste their time or yours

 

[Noriega]

The "virgin" is letting some other nikka clap her cheeks.

Latinas are the freakiest especially the ones raised in a strict Catholic family

Her body count prolly 100 bro

Nah I knew this shorty since high school she legit doggie

 

[young yeesh]

This one shorty i'm talking to now tho

Here's hoping I seal the deal

Just by reading this, You’re set up to fail

good luck tho honestly

 

[Chris Cool]

Nah I knew this shorty since high school she legit doggie

At least she a virgin. Had a girl tell me last year she was saving herself for marriage who wasn't one.