Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[semicko82]

@semicko82

About 2 or 3 weeks ago I made a post saying some of these dudes aint living right and you responded what did i mean

Breh just read the majority of these posts, nikkas are going out SAD!!!

Would you fukkers please stop taking so many damn Ls to women.

I've read too many embarrassing posts, some from OGs of this thread

I assume it was the youngsters who were taking the L.
If at a certain age you still taking Ls, you need to start being more introspective

 

[Ahadi]

Yall brehs remember the girl I been talking about who had housing and we was supposed to move in together?...this hoe done played me!


So the other day we on the phone and she finally about to get her key and she gon tell me that I can't stay there

Im the one who paid the hundreds of dollars before the paperwork and took her to do all the paperwork.
Got people that was waiting on us to move to give us stuff, held her down when she was homeless, took her to the hospital when she started having breath problems, etc.
Now a few days after my grandma pass she wanna hit me with this dumb shyt.

She wanna bring up some old shyt on how this not gon work all of a sudden and she don't be with me.
Talking about "you never wanted to watch the shows I wanted to watch", "you don't act like you wanna be with me" ,etc

These hoes full of shyt brehs


Told me "you can come over sometimes, spend the night....but then you gotta go"
fukk kinda shyt is this? like we ain't been planning to get this crib for months. smh

& this is what happens when you invite outside ppl into your relationship.

Ppl got in her ear (her mom) and ruined everything. Now, idk how she’s gona pay for that cause she doesn’t have a job lol. Unless she’s gona rely on her unemployment. But even then, she’s an idiot cause why would you rely on 1 income instead of 2 during a pandemic. I have a feeling she’ll call you back towards the fall/winter, when the money runs dry.

Next time, you move in with a woman that is on YOUR level. Don’t move in with someone who isn’t unemployed.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

& this is what happens when you invite outside ppl into your relationship.

Ppl got in her ear (her mom) and ruined everything. Now, idk how she’s gona pay for that cause she doesn’t have a job lol. Unless she’s gona rely on her unemployment. But even then, she’s an idiot cause why would you rely on 1 income instead of 2 during a pandemic. I have a feeling she’ll call you back towards the fall/winter.

Next time, you move in with a woman that is on YOUR level. Don’t move in with someone who isn’t unemployed.

Thing is, I didnt wanna drop her cuz she ain't have no job no more. That woulda been wack.
And yeah thats dumb to not allow me in when im the one who could make things easier. She gone be sick when she there by herself and im nowhere to be found.
You might be right on her hitting me up around fall/winter to try and "check on me" and all that bullshyt.

I think when she dropped the bomb on me she told me that they wasnt gone charge or charge her low since she cant work right now. i dont remember.
But like i said, she gone be screwed cuz its no vehicle, no washer/dryer/, etc. She gone have to fight by herself.

How she gone stick in there when she down; now she making progress wanna cut me loose?

 

[VertigoKnight]

yes sir

Damn, you respect a chick by behaving yourself and she does you like this.

Maybe that security chick will cross your path again.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Damn, you respect a chick by behaving yourself and she does you like this.

Maybe that security chick will cross your path again.

thats what im hoping.
i been to whole foods twice and ain't seen her..

She was "conscious" too

 

[semicko82]

Yall brehs remember the girl I been talking about who had housing and we was supposed to move in together?...this hoe done played me!


So the other day we on the phone and she finally about to get her key and she gon tell me that I can't stay there

Im the one who paid the hundreds of dollars before the paperwork and took her to do all the paperwork.
Got people that was waiting on us to move to give us stuff, held her down when she was homeless, took her to the hospital when she started having breath problems, etc.
Now a few days after my grandma pass she wanna hit me with this dumb shyt.

She wanna bring up some old shyt on how this not gon work all of a sudden and she don't be with me.
Talking about "you never wanted to watch the shows I wanted to watch", "you don't act like you wanna be with me" ,etc

These hoes full of shyt brehs


Told me "you can come over sometimes, spend the night....but then you gotta go"
fukk kinda shyt is this? like we ain't been planning to get this crib for months. smh

Try to warn you but I can’t kick a man when he’s down.
The shyt when her mom tried to play you was your cue to cut her off

 

[semicko82]

shyt crazy.
the girl aint have nowhere to go multiple times and I made she her and her brother had somewhere to sleep.
Even had her getting paid to watch my nephew when she got out the hospital last year and had no income.
I swear I hope she fails
She ain't got no car, her daughter still ain't gone have no daddy and I ain't helping her with a goddamn thang.
Better call her brother or something when somebody tryna break in, she need something fixed, she need a ride, etc.

And she got the nerve to want me to bring her clothes and shyt thats in my car when she get into the apartment.
...the disrespect

She sounds like a bum, what did you see in her in the first place

 

[360dagod]

shyt crazy.
the girl aint have nowhere to go multiple times and I made she her and her brother had somewhere to sleep.
Even had her getting paid to watch my nephew when she got out the hospital last year and had no income.
I swear I hope she fails
She ain't got no car, her daughter still ain't gone have no daddy and I ain't helping her with a goddamn thang.
Better call her brother or something when somebody tryna break in, she need something fixed, she need a ride, etc.

And she got the nerve to want me to bring her clothes and shyt thats in my car when she get into the apartment.
...the disrespect

Dont worry about her failing..
Worry about you succeeding..

I know your hurt and you should take time to heal....

Some of us have been there before...

Take the L and learn..

At least you didn't move in and get her pregnant

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Try to warn you but I can’t kick a man when he’s down.
The shyt when her mom tried to play you was your cue to cut her off

I know breh. I fukked up

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Dont worry about her failing..
Worry about you succeeding..

I know your hurt and you should take time to heal....

Some of us have been there before...

Take the L and learn..

At least you didn't move in and get her pregnant

and she had to nerve to wanna get married and have another child.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

She sounds like a bum, what did you see in her in the first place

I mean she wasnt a hoodrat, she had natural hair and I was tryna rekindle something from our teens on some High School Fairy Tale shiit

 

[young yeesh]

Im not even gon @ anyone, theres no need to kick a brother when hes down.

Fellas gotta stop using this thread to just vent about they bytches. The "Gems" in the title is for advice. This aint a diary. This keeps happening and dudes dont apply what others tell them. Knowing how to handle women is not just a joke

 

[Sonny Bonds]

What do you guys say when they ask you what you’re looking for on the dating app?

 

[calixprynce]

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[Silkk]

Gahdamn these bytches annoying & trash AF


You can be talking to 7 chicks and 6 of em gonna be on some dumb shyt. But then when you got shyt planned they all trying to do something