I cant believe chicks still have the gall to pull variarions of that bullshyt excuse out. And expect anything but the bushes.
Just tell me you got cold feet and are trying to waste your time and mine and we'll leave it at that.
And bad timekeeping is a massive red flag to me. Chick I saw on monday we agreed to 4.00pm and she turned up at 3.55pm she would have been earlier but had to find parking. I wish more women would understand that it's two people who have to impress each other and show up correct.
That's why it's common knowledge to show up for a job interview 10-15 minutes beforehand. Anyone serious about their time and business won't tolerate tardiness. Speed Awareness courses are even more ruthless, they'll turn you away at 3.01pm even if they start at 3pm and ain't trying to hear any excuses lol. Because of this, people KNOW not to show up late.
This scenario happens way too often because dudes don't put their foot down. Usually it's "Oh OK I understand maybe another time" instead "nah fukk that, don't bother I'm out". I've seen it in this very thread countless times. There's no way I'm hanging around waiting somewhere like a dikkhead because some chick decides she's just gonna show up whenever she feels like it. It's disrespectful. They wouldn't show up late for Trey Songz or Idris Elba and neither of them would tolerate it anyway.
You can't be scared to speak up for yourself and have a zero tolerance attitude. Being all mealy mouthed for a chick's approval will just get you ate up and walked all over.
goes for friends too
