Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm pretty sure u already know breh, Don't text them back? but still have an interesting story going on your snapchat, if you get any eye roll emojis just offer a meetup
Looool ion really like airing people out but fukk it my ways not working good :yeshrug:
 

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Two twos how the fukk do y'all be texting multiple girls at once? On my mom's I'm actually not trying to brag but I scored a lot of girls Snapchat the past week but texting them all is hella draining holllayyyyy I'm an "keep to myself" type of guy and I don't like long interactions one of y'all hook me up with some pointers blease
Lol that’s why I kinda kept off those apps. The endless texts is Just too overwhelming. Some dudes revel in that sh1t though cause it’s an ego boost. But y’all, the devil is clever. Your time is being robbed from u and chances are u ain’t gon find your wifey on those apps. So keep that in mind when u concentrate copious amount of time on frivolous activities.
 
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Just broke up with my girl.

Next to my mother, she's the best woman I've ever known.

But im not the same person I was when I met her.

So let this be a lesson brehs, don't be a dumb fukk like me and get involved with someone during the biggest transition period of your entire life.
 

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Just broke up with my girl.

Next to my mother, she's the best woman I've ever known.

But im not the same person I was when I met her.

So let this be a lesson brehs, don't be a dumb fukk like me and get involved with someone during the biggest transition period of your entire life.

The same person in a positive or negative way?
 

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The same person in a positive or negative way?

Both, if that makes sense.

I have more career opportunities in front of me than ive ever had, but ive become more selfish, self centered, solitary, and self sufficient because of it.

Im entering a new career field (IT and Systems Development) that is humbling me to my core. I moved across the country for these jobs. We were LDR so that didnt help matters.

But More and more im realizing the Marcus I am will not succeed in this new field so ive been slowly deconstructing my self and trying to reassemble myself to adjust to my new life.

The problem is in the process of trying to recreate myself, I checked out of our relationship.

And I wasnt going to string her along because im not sure I wouldve checked back in.

Im not completely noble however. I wasnt faithful.

I just got to a point where i wanted to wake up everyday and work on myself. Not a relationship. Even for someone as great as she is.

shyt still hurts though. I cried and am drinking now
 

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Both, if that makes sense.

I have more career opportunities in front of me than ive ever had, but ive become more selfish, self centered, solitary, and self sufficient because of it.

Im entering a new career field (IT and Systems Development) that is humbling me to my core. I moved across the country for these jobs. We were LDR so that didnt help matters.

But More and more im realizing the Marcus I am will not succeed in this new field so ive been slowly deconstructing my self and trying to reassemble myself to adjust to my new life.

The problem is in the process of trying to recreate myself, I checked out of our relationship.

And I wasnt going to string her along because im not sure I wouldve checked back in.

Im not completely noble however. I wasnt faithful.

I just got to a point where i wanted to wake up everyday and work on myself. Not a relationship. Even for someone as great as she is.

shyt still hurts though. I cried and am drinking now
You’ll eventually regret it
 

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Both, if that makes sense.

I have more career opportunities in front of me than ive ever had, but ive become more selfish, self centered, solitary, and self sufficient because of it.

Im entering a new career field (IT and Systems Development) that is humbling me to my core. I moved across the country for these jobs. We were LDR so that didnt help matters.

But More and more im realizing the Marcus I am will not succeed in this new field so ive been slowly deconstructing my self and trying to reassemble myself to adjust to my new life.

The problem is in the process of trying to recreate myself, I checked out of our relationship.

And I wasnt going to string her along because im not sure I wouldve checked back in.

Im not completely noble however. I wasnt faithful.

I just got to a point where i wanted to wake up everyday and work on myself. Not a relationship. Even for someone as great as she is.

shyt still hurts though. I cried and am drinking now

Expect to do a bit more of that at a heavier rate in the future, all because you couldn't muster the strength to bring someone that would hold you down along for the journey while reconstructing yourself for it.
I mean, I get it though. It's hard. :yeshrug:

Unless she specifically has something that could negatively impact your chosen route I'm not sure you made the right move.

Listen to Success by Jay-Z and Nas to understand that where you're headed isn't that special that you can just afford to drop the good things on the way to it.
 

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I've been on the apps heavily trying to setup a date for this weekend. All this texting is super annoying. And I'm a little surprised by the amount of women who already had plans for the entire weekend by Wednesday night.
Why are you “heavily “ trying to setup a date for this weekend?
 

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I need to start dating/find me a woman soon. I don’t feel comfortable with online dating and I’m a loner (I LOVE my own space/ can be a bit quirky :dame:and I have attention issues :russ:) so that’s a few strikes against me (on top of being pretty picky/only dating black women and being older although I don’t really look it as much). Before corona shyt was somewhat challenging (80% my fault) but now:dwillhuh:. I live in NYC so I should have options but I don’t really :patrice:. I really don’t care about other people (To be blunt, I sometimes see people as objects or background characters in some other story that I don’t care for) but I do sometimes wonder if I have a reputation :snoop:. I remember some random dude coming up to me saying he knew me from somewhere and that through me off.

I’m all over the place with this post :russ:. I guess I gotta start cold approaching but that feels disgusting right now. I need a woman that I want soon :beli:

the chick I did like (I mainly liked her t*ts but she was also kinda cool) basically dissed me and this other chick I got tired of (not to sound rude but that’s the gist of it). Again, I need a woman soon, lol.
 

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Expect to do a bit more of that at a heavier rate in the future, all because you couldn't muster the strength to bring someone that would hold you down along for the journey while reconstructing yourself for it.
I mean, I get it though. It's hard. :yeshrug:

Unless she specifically has something that could negatively impact your chosen route I'm not sure you made the right move.

Listen to Success by Jay-Z and Nas to understand that where you're headed isn't that special that you can just afford to drop the good things on the way to it.

We will see bruh. I had to do it to know for sure.
 
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