Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

Women rarely realize the types of guys who are in their league. Don't get me wrong, there are tons of delusional men out here...but not nearly as many as there are women. Most men are simple and know that they are lucky just to have even one girl who fukks with them.

Give them a girl with a bit of titty or ass meat, and a somewhat decent looking face, who isnt a nag, is sexual and is compassionate and thats good enough for your average guy.

 

[Ohene]

Also it's way more quality women out here than men. Not even close, women collectively play their own type of superficial game, but they instinctively want marriage, kids or at least some type of relationships.

A lot of dudes just want sex from different women they find attractive.

Almost any dude, that wants a relationship can get into one, it may not be with your dream girl but you can definitely get into one.

breh, we must live in alternate realities. What city do you live in?

From what I see, most dudes get into relationships just for the convenient p*ssy because theyre tired of chasing random girls to smash. They might want sex from different women but know that it requires waaaaay too much effort. The women are the ones always choosing up because they know how easy it is to make men audition for them...it requires no effort on their part.

Women only want the marriage, kids once they are past their prime. And even then they usually want it for superficial reasons rather than their love and desire to be with the man. The problem is that the men worth settling down with at that point are merely just starting their prime. And that is where the disconnect is.

We must have different views of what quality women are. Wanting to be in a relationship doesnt mean shyt, if you havent learned the qualities and mentality needed to maintain that relationship. I had an issue with that recently. Shorty was very attractive, very educated, somewhat nice, but she was ultimately very self absorbed and didnt understand a relationship is meant to be a partnership. Most girls see relationships as courtships and the guy is constantly the one compromising and giving into her demands. That's why the women are typically the ones filing for divorce or breaking up with dudes.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Exactly, I have a lot of game I can contribute to this thread, but ultimately anything I reveal, is only in hopes of cats becoming better and more rounded men.


I’m not here to help cats play the same game as women. Getting just p*ssy out of woman, is meaning less and incredibly easy. It’s really a simple formula. But ultimately you have to evolve and want more out of Life than just sex with a woman / women. Seeing women as only an end game for sex, usually leads to an endless cycle of hurt, deceit and betrayal associated with dating and relationships.


It’s much better for cats to focus being a quality individual, to attract a quality woman, then it is to waste your time trying game up a quantity of women for superficial reasons. Trust me that superficial usually ends a couple ways. And your pockets, time and energy will exhausted, after it’s all set and done.


A solid chick enhances life. A solid woman become an asset not a liability.

That works for 40 year old nikkas or brehs that want relationships. Some of the brehs here can use that

 

[Ohene]

One thing I'll add, and this goes for the brehs in here too. Just because you have a lot going for yourself, it doesnt mean you should want/go for somebody on your level. That shyt is overrated and because there are so few high value individuals in this world you will be looking forever. If you are lucky and meet that woman fine, but there are more important things in life. What really matters is...

does shorty appreciate you and what you contribute to the relationship
does shorty respect you
does she have motherly qualities
is she agreeable and open minded
is she honest and loyal
does she live a healthy lifestyle
is she feminine

education, money, being a dime, being a freak...all that shyt is overrated and if you are a high value man it is also redundant

 

[Serious]

breh, we must live in alternate realities. What city do you live in?

From what I see, most dudes get into relationships just for the convenient p*ssy because theyre tired of chasing random girls to smash. They might want sex from different women but know that it requires waaaaay too much effort. The women are the ones always choosing up because they know how easy it is to make men audition for them...it requires no effort on their part.

This isn't as widespread as it seems, but more so of a generalization. Point is taken though, but I know what you mean.

Women only want the marriage, kids once they are past their prime. And even then they usually want it for superficial reasons rather than their love and desire to be with the man. The problem is that the men worth settling down with at that point are merely just starting their prime. And that is where the disconnect is.

This is actually where I'm at now, just entering my prime, so I'm in no rush to settle down, but plenty of women my age are.
But I also know plenty of women that wanted to get married and have kids in their early 20's, some did and some struggled to even go dates.

I say a lot of this because I know a lot of young women that don't go dates and rarely get asked out.

They're legit at home with their cats and dogs.

We must have different views of what quality women are. Wanting to be in a relationship doesnt mean shyt, if you havent learned the qualities and mentality needed to maintain that relationship. I had an issue with that recently. Shorty was very attractive, very educated, somewhat nice, but she was ultimately very self absorbed and didnt understand a relationship is meant to be a partnership. Most girls see relationships as courtships and the guy is constantly the one compromising and giving into her demands. That's why the women are typically the ones filing for divorce or breaking up with dudes.

Tbh we agree more than disagree, that's why I filter through women with unrealistic expectations.
With that said, I still come across way too many submissive women, that just want a dude.
Also the women divorcing the dudes, isn't simply because the dude stopped courting them, there was always a disconnect. They were probably always incompatible in some way.

But yeah i hear on the shorty, wasn't with the partnership mindset, I've bushed a woman like that before. It's definitely a learning experience, but there's legit attractive women out there that can play that role.

 

[Ohene]

This isn't as widespread as it seems, but more so of a generalization. Point is taken though, but I know what you mean.


This is actually where I'm at now, just entering my prime, so I'm in no rush to settle down, but plenty of women my age are.
But I also know plenty of women that wanted to get married and have kids in their early 20's, some did and some struggled to even go dates.

I say a lot of this because I know a lot of young women that don't go dates and rarely get asked out.

They're legit at home with their cats and dogs.


Tbh we agree more than disagree, that's why I filter through women with unrealistic expectations.
With that said, I still come across way too many submissive women, that just want a dude.
Also the women divorcing the dudes, isn't simply because the dude stopped courting them, there was always a disconnect. They were probably always incompatible in some way.

But yeah i hear on the shorty, wasn't with the partnership mindset, I've bushed a woman like that before. It's definitely a learning experience, but there's legit attractive women out there that can play that role.

we def agree more than we disagree. i think I just believe that when it comes to dating that women have most of the power at the onset and misuse it

theres a good chance its a city thing. Are you from Portland or just a Blazers fan?
I live in Toronto where the women have quite a rep. I've even met people outside the city who come here and are like when they meet the women here and learn about how they move

 

[Serious]

we def agree more than we disagree. i think I just believe that when it comes to dating that women have most of the power at the onset and misuse it

theres a good chance its a city thing. Are you from Portland or just a Blazers fan?
I live in Toronto where the women have quite a rep. I've even met people outside the city who come here and are like when they meet the women here and learn about how they move

I disagree with this part. It's subjective imo.


Real talk the game is the game, from city to city, shyt doesnt change. You must not be aware of how your peers are moving. Because a lot of brehs are ruthless. Wondering about who has the upperhand is wasted energy imo. Just focus on being that dude with leverage or qualities that women seek, without being a spineless simp.



Blazers fan but I'm in and from LA, but have smashed chick a couple chicks from T-Dot, while they were in town. Some of the easiest lays in my life. They set eyes on me and let me know whats up.


I mean women can be ruthless in LA as well, but there's a lot of regular chicks that aren't into that shape shifting game. They just want a dude, with no unrealistic expectations. i feel like thats the same everywhere though, because if it exits in a flashy and pretentious city place like LA, then it has to exist everywhere.

 

[Ohene]

I disagree with this part. It's subjective imo.


Real talk the game is the game, from city to city, shyt doesnt change. You must not be aware of how your peers are moving. Because a lot of brehs are ruthless. Wondering about who has the upperhand is wasted energy imo. Just focus on being that dude with leverage or qualities that women seek, without being a spineless simp.



Blazers fan but I'm in and from LA, but have smashed chick a couple chicks from T-Dot, while they were in town. Some of the easiest lays in my life. They set eyes on me and let me know whats up.


I mean women can be ruthless in LA as well, but there's a lot of regular chicks that aren't into that shape shifting game. They just want a dude, with no unrealistic expectations. i feel like thats the same everywhere though, because if it exits in a flashy and pretentious city place like LA, then it has to exist everywhere.

im completely aware of how my brehs are moving. i know what youre referring to from that standpoint
and yea Toronto girls love Americans lol

 

[Serious]

im completely aware of how my brehs are moving. i know what youre referring to from that standpoint
and yea Toronto dudes love Americans lol

The truth is people like what's different. People tend to associate different with being better and fetishize it. Just like I could go T-Dot for a couple months and

Having women on their best behavior and shyt, forgetting all their little rules and shyt, just because I'm not from there and will seem different.

Part of the game, is selling women dreams or a fantasy of being special.

Just like if you came to LA and stressed your accent it would, it would attract a lot of women from LA, and they'd assume that you'd be different and treat them different / better

But the thing is, the game is the game.

A lot of this shyt isn't worth hurting your head over though.

But you could also use this as leverage to bag a quality chick from somewhere else. Like i said, women like the fantasy of being special / different. It gives them bragging rights.

 

[Kairi Irving]

-Another one, slightly flirt with her friends. It put the fire under they ass, and sparks that female competitiveness, it will make her work harder to keep you.

Bruh what

It's sad having to play bullshyt ass games to get or keep a women

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Any brehs here rusty with getting at women? Quarantine kept me out of the game and dating apps ain’t the wave for me at least

 

[MikelArteta]

One thing I'll add, and this goes for the brehs in here too. Just because you have a lot going for yourself, it doesnt mean you should want/go for somebody on your level. That shyt is overrated and because there are so few high value individuals in this world you will be looking forever. If you are lucky and meet that woman fine, but there are more important things in life. What really matters is...

does shorty appreciate you and what you contribute to the relationship
does shorty respect you
does she have motherly qualities
is she agreeable and open minded
is she honest and loyal
does she live a healthy lifestyle
is she feminine

education, money, being a dime, being a freak...all that shyt is overrated and if you are a high value man it is also redundant

yup
its why you see some men who have it all marry a average azz looking chick but her qualities are

what you listed is like a potato its great, all of this - education, money, being a dime, being a freak...all that shyt is overrated and if you are a high value man it is also redundan

is just gravy, you can still enjoy the potato without it

 

[RoidJonesJr]

first few days on Tinder and you're getting likes and matches so you're like

after those few days it's like they put your profile at the bottom of the stack or something

 

[sfgiants]

first few days on Tinder and you're getting likes and matches so you're like

after those few days it's like they put your profile at the bottom of the stack or something

delete it and start over
I did that on bumble after the 14 day trial. Deleted it and reinstalled it and got 2 more free trials before they smartened up. The third time I tried it I got charged so I had to complain to get a refund

 

[TRUEST]

delete it and start over
I did that on bumble after the 14 day trial. Deleted it and reinstalled it and got 2 more free trials before they smartened up. The third time I tried it I got charged so I had to complain to get a refund

Dude they’re providing a service you obviously find beneficial. Don’t be a scumbag. Just pay them.