Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

She hit me up yesterday and again today.

Taking it slow and pondering what stpps to take

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u better handle that.

 

[MikelArteta]

u better handle that.

In what way breh?

I'm still looking for early red flags to not chill again.

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[TRUEST]

In what way breh?

I'm still looking for early red flags to not chill again.

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how short was the skirt she was wearing?

go on another date with her man. what is she?? black, white, rican??

go another date with her, keep up almost the same level of take it or leave attitude u had in the beginning. but bring it down a lil bit so she thinks ur at least interested in her in some way (she doesn't have to know how much).

 

[MikelArteta]

how short was the skirt she was wearing?

go on another date with her man. what is she?? black, white, rican??

go another date with her, keep up almost the same level of take it or leave attitude u had in the beginning. but bring it down a lil bit so she thinks ur at least interested in her in some way (she doesn't have to know how much).

A pink mini skirt , but the lust of the flesh has no hold on me.

She's half Jewish half Romanian, but she looks Spanish

26
A teacher
Her own car
Doesn't club
No twitter or instagram, or close male friends.


I already casually went through her phone contacts, with this corny game I play to gage women.

I'm usually just a one date person when I do get out of my coc00n




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[TRUEST]

A pink mini skirt , but the lust of the flesh has no hold on me.

She's half Jewish half Romanian, but she looks Spanish

26
A teacher
Her own car
Doesn't club
No twitter or instagram, or close male friends.


I already casually went through her phone contacts, with this corny game I play to gage women.

I'm usually just a one date person when I do get out of my coc00n




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lol i aint falling for that "no twitter/instagram/facebook" sh1t again from chicks. chicks know these behaviors are a nono. they google how to deal with men just like we're doing here in this thread.

put it to u like this. the last chick i was with who had me sprung like u wouldn't believe, did some serious investigation on me before we got together. and she got me good. real good.

i have a common name that i didn't think anyone can easily identify when googling it (considering there'd be a lot of search results). but when i met this chick. everything about her just clicked. she wasn't hassling me like other chicks do, trying to drag me out the house like most other girls do. she was content doing what i wanted to do which is just chill at home, ffucck all day, watch movies, go out to eat, or to the movies. man, i was sprungg off this chick something serious. with most other girls, i always have to worry about finding sh1t for us to do, like go places so they dont get bored. and i have to deal with them always wanting to go out every damn weekend. i aint cut out for that.

this chick was nothing like that.

needless to say, it turns out this chick had already googled my name. only god knows how long she spent doing it. but she googled it and found many articles i had written about how men should stay away from party animals and girls who cant stand being in the house.

when we broke up, and i started to think back on things, i realized this chick was a avid party animal all along. she likes going to bars. even though she didn't let a hint drop of that predisposition.

that experience taught me never to drop any information that can be googled. or to be very bland in my responses to women.

that chick already scoped me out something serious and had me wrapped around her finger like it was nobody's business and its primarily because she tailored herself directly to what she knew i wanted based on the damn articles she read. lol.

lol i tell u man, women are on another level with their detective work and their chameleon like behavior.

 

[MikelArteta]

lol i aint falling for that "no twitter/instagram/facebook" sh1t again from chicks. chicks know these behaviors are a nono. they google how to deal with men just like we're doing here in this thread.

put it to u like this. the last chick i was with who had me sprung like u wouldn't believe, did some serious investigation on me before we got together. and she got me good. real good.

i have a common name that i didn't think anyone can easily identify when googling it (considering there'd be a lot of search results). but when i met this chick. everything about her just clicked. she wasn't hassling me like other chicks do, trying to drag me out the house like most other girls do. she was content doing what i wanted to do which is just chill at home, ffucck all day, watch movies, go out to eat, or to the movies. man, i was sprungg off this chick something serious. with most other girls, i always have to worry about finding sh1t for us to do, like go places so they dont get bored. and i have to deal with them always wanting to go out every damn weekend. i aint cut out for that.

this chick was nothing like that.

needless to say, it turns out this chick had already googled my name. only god knows how long she spent doing it. but she googled it and found many articles i had written about how men should stay away from party animals and girls who cant stand being in the house.

when we broke up, and i started to think back on things, i realized this chick was a avid party animal all along. she likes going to bars. even though she didn't let a hint drop of that predisposition.

that experience taught me never to drop any information that can be googled. or to be very bland in my responses to women.

that chick already scoped me out something serious and had me wrapped around her finger like it was nobody's business and its primarily because she tailored herself directly to what she knew i wanted based on the damn articles she read. lol.

lol i tell u man, women are on another level with their detective work and their chameleon like behavior.

This is why I love this thread.

Whenever I feel like my boat is swerving in the other direction I'm brought back to the calm shores.

No one can investigate me though, my Internet history is clear.

I have no Facebook, no pics floating around, no twitter, no instagram.

My pictures used to show up on Google reverse but I cleansed that

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[CrossBones]

But basically to sum it all up, chick was a big booty white chick who was in her last semester of nursing school (an HBCU I might add which should've been the BIGGEST sign) which is why I think I put up with the BS that I did. But anyways for part of her clinical work she had to work at this inner city school for a couple weeks. So one day she mentions how this teacher was married but she caught him on POF making an account. She went on and on about how disgusted she was that could do that, knowing he was married and he had kid. She went on to tell me out of the blue that I was satisfying all of her needs and she would never talk to another dude.

a couple days later she brings up how this same teacher had an app on his phone that he uses to give his number to the chicks he meets so the texts that he send the chicks don't show up on his phone. Went on and on about how much of a dirtbag that guy was. I'm like Okay.....don't worry about this dude, just worry about us.

need yall to check this out:




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if theres one thing you need to know about young women, and also older immature women, is that if they dont "feel" any intense feeling from being around you, then after some time passes you will see them disappear with the quickness. they pretty much cant control it, and they cant help it because theyre not even entirely aware its happening to them. simple chicks and younger chicks especially, they LOVE to be involved with something that moves them. it doesnt even matter how, but if it moves them, it stays in their mind and it takes over their decisions.

its like this brothers: females run hot.



if you want to get a REAL reaction from them, then you need to be able add to their couldron. get the heat going. start to make her feel a certain way. add some pepper and some hot water to their feelings, and watch it grow

if you can inspire ANY kind of feeling in her, then she will gravitate towards you. whether she loves you or hates you, if she gets that intense feeling around you, trust, she will secretly begin to like it. women crave that kind of heat. that is the flame to a moth. if you can find a way to occupy time in her mind, she will be with you even if shes not HAPPY with you, you dig what Im saying?

now take a good look at this. I want you to look at the factors that are around you and be objective about it. what do you think is the easiest emotion to inspire in somebody? love or hate? to make a person somewhat happy or to make them somewhat disgusted?

even in preschool, a lot of boys instinctively use this. you be a jerk, and the girl that you like will recognize you. when they grow up, girls start to notice the "bad boys" even more strongly. it evokes a lot of feelings from them. even if it means that he wont treat her right and give her what she may need, he will certainly treat her accordingly to her wants. if you get in their head and it draws a strong emotional response from them, whatever response, they will be attached to you. challenge them and belittle them and watch how quick they are to open up to you. be bigger than them. Ive even seen it in older women. yes, I mean it. this is all the truth. you step on toes and theyre in awe. you step on her, she wants to prove herself to you and thus wants you to choose her. if her emotions are wild enough, she will do it regardless if her dignity is involved or not. a lot like a groupie.

they dont even know why, but the particularly corrupted ones start to only like guys who treat them so-so at best, and are addicted to the feelings they get when they are around them.

start to poke and prod at a young girls self esteem and she will begin to feel like "I hate him" "oooo motherfukker! damn what a jerk. Im going to show him wasup!" "hes such an a$$hole. I cant believe it!" but guess what? now shes going to try and see what youre about, and want to fukk you even more. its negative energy, but it makes them heat up. you become her project, her object of desire, and her source of drama.

everything a young girl could ask for.

why do you think a$$holes get so much success and strong reactions from women?

why do you think women run back into abusive relationships where they get their ass kicked, self esteem hurt, and emotions put down?

many times with these emotionally manipulated women, if they dont go back to the same guy who treated her bad its because he doesnt want her anymore and moved on ... or because shes too embarassed by her own circle to go back after what he may have done to her. she will find another man to beat and berate her. its a part of what she is now. shes too much of an emotional junkie and cant put it down.


its all a rush to them. like a fiend who doesnt know how to stop their addiction. its the same thing. they need that bad treatment and feed off of that intense, negative rush.

men who can control that kind of rush with females, will begin to get control of her thoughts, her time, and quite possibly her desires. hes her world now. hes her pusher, her daddy, and her boss all in one. in essense, he takes her heart and mind by inspiring strong feelings in her. its sort a dark spell if you really look at it.

its a little kept secret of science that pimps use, a$$hole players dogging women left and right, and basically the all of the bad boys who use or toss aside girls. if you ever have a nice little time of peace and quiet with yourself, notice, that most women wont like it very much. she will tell you "its too quiet." "hes boring." "I dont get THAT feeling anymore... I dont know why." theyre ready to book out because its not exciting to her anymore. she may have conquered you. theres no excitement if she isnt challenged and put down so she can prove herself to you. pimps know what they have to do, they degrade her, take her money because "she cant handle it," and she keeps coming back.



what an emotional junkie wants is a man to poke and prod her. to get at her whole world view and pick at her for anything, right out the blue. start a fight. or just ignore her. it makes her hot. any kind of diss towards her, and she will start to feel a certain way and begin to chase YOU in order to get her next fix. she will get riled up, and start to feel some strong emotions about the whole thing, but she wont understand why. frustration leads many women to fukk men they cant even stand. she will get a tingle from this hated man however, and she will like what shes hearing even if its him being an a$$hole.



look at soaps. look at the daytime maury talk shows. look at the gossip games. look at the baby mamas. look at the cheating in marriages. look at the women who like to pit man against man just for her own emotional needs. look at the drama that many woman like to live in and talk about all day on facebook and twitter.

junkies like that constant rush, and are low key slaves to their emotion.



its not even REMOTELY logical, and its definitely not about long term thinking. women who start to crave that emotional rush do whatever they can to make it all blow up into one big climax. they can be cheating, PLAN to get caught, and then wait for it to blow up. right in front of them. just so that they can watch it unfold. they are SLAVES to their feelings. no matter how fukked up it can end.




"boring" men are the ones who placate an emotional woman. they satisfy her needs, but they dont give her the wants and the emotions that she desires. you see this all the time, in marriages, dating, office "friends" or whatever. those guys dont stimulate her rush enough, so they get ignored for the bad boys or people who lead her into bad.

to top it all off, check this: ALL WOMEN HAVE THIS IN THEM, TO ONE DEGREE OR ANOTHER.

what does this mean for you?


this has all either made you or

Im going to break it down a little bit more in my next post. (note: I said all this not to make you treat women around you badly, as a few of them who are high quality and with their heads on straight wont like that, but to simply make you aware of this simple mechanic. look at whats under the hood before you move on.)

 

[Huellz Santana]

Because they know a weak dude will turn a blind eye to it and KIM.
Make no mistake, The simp mentality is the true enemy, once we eradicate a good portion of it, a lot of things will change.

ive always said that it's the MEN that aggravate me more than anything.

the way women act is purely due to men who let it happen. Weak minded simps... I know we say women should stop getting pregnant by dudes who aren't shyt, but what lesson do we teach them when they're still able to get a quality guy down the line?

I expect women to be women. that is be completely directionless and do whatever they feel at the moment.

if dudes expected more out of themselves (this is key)and acted accordingly a lot of shyt would be fixed. especially in the African American community where all we value is a phat ass. dudes lusting over these lost girls and misleading them when they're in they're teens and discarding them. only to breed a woman who hates men and the cycle continues. i see it all too often. I dont kno who to blame... the father who wasn't there? the guy who took advantage of the girl? or the girl who should have known better? (but she's a girl so how can we expect her to know better?)

shyts scressful bruh.


simps truly disgust me tho. they ingrain bad behaviors in these chick's heads. I go on a date with a girl who is pretty but has no degree and expects me to pay for everything and put up with her flakiness. Why? because the guys before me did.​

 

[Huellz Santana]

Finding a woman with value means finding a woman that is an asset to your life, not a liability. It means finding a woman who actually enhances your happiness everyday and doesn't bring unnecessary drama and arguments to your life... It means finding a woman who isn't secretly talking to 3 or 4 different guys while she is talking to you and constantly insisting on clubbing every weekend while she is in the confines of a relationship. how about her not having 2 or 3 kids and numbers in the 30s or 40s of different guys she slept with. It also means finding a woman that is actually interested in what you do because she's actually interested in you as a person and not how much you potentially make. It also means finding a woman you can have decent conversations with and don't have to resort spitting some kind of game gibberish to to maintain her attention. I can go on and on, but they are very rare, so if you find one, you better not be an idiot and throw her overboard.

ayo. i found this woman, but she's not attractive.

:future:

why is life so cruel? i actually like her but then I'll be looking at her somedays like "she has acne" or "she need to lose some weight."

she's a great girl. Christian, her mind is in the right place, believes in traditional gender roles, etc. but she's not cute.

what do you guys think about this?​

 

[Mr210]

ayo. i found this woman, but she's not attractive.

:future:

why is life so cruel? i actually like her but then I'll be looking at her somedays like "she has acne" or "she need to lose some weight."

she's a great girl. Christian, her mind is in the right place, believes in traditional gender roles, etc. but she's not cute.

what do you guys think about this?​

if she isnt cute becaue of the acne, that can be fixed, what else makes her unattractive

 

[Two Stacks]

^^^^^^damn theres this girl i went to school with that likes me thats a year younger.

great job (better than me)
attitude and personality
smart
tells people about me

........all the good shyt

but she about twice my weight breh...... so i dont offer to go on dates and shes asked me multiple times.

and i dont think i can get her to drop 100 pounds...she's 6 ft tall so being 200 pounds aint bad

 

[CrossBones]

Im going to follow up my previous post about hot headed women and their slavery to their emotions like this: beware.

its all in your hands, and you dont want the wrong outcome because you cant control your own emotions and cravings.



look out for women who want that constant high. they are the "social flowers" and the wild ones, also the ones who start shyt just to start it. they want constant entertainment and constant drama for fulfillment. you can spot a chick like that by her lifestyle and her choices in dealing with you and other men.

even while avoiding all of that, realize that at the same time, all women like to have their feelings involved in whatever they do so recognize this simple principle. if you can positively add to your relationship, then do it. and adding to it doesnt even mean doing something out of the ordinary, it just means making her a part of something thats engaging and rewarding for both of you. something prosperous that you both participate in.



see if youre dealing with women who have a mild case of emotional dependancy that she needs for her to function (which is a pain in the ass and I dont recommend it), then every now and then give her something to feed off of. let her emotions run a little hot because she likes that. if youre displeased or because she needs something to do, you give her that taste of fire. learn to keep her occupied.

now in my previous post I spoke aout the evils of doing that. the problems that can come with that kind of behavior, from both the man endorsing it and the woman cosigning it. HOWEVER, you can actually add something good to the mix, and have better results.





instead of insulting and fighting with your woman, you can instead promote the good that she does and want her to do. be able to show her that you are appreciative. not simpish and weak, but thankful and earnest. bring the joy out of her and show her you appreciate it and her good behavior. positive reinforcement is all you can do. then she where she goes with it.

compliment her when its legitimate praise, and not when its just to kiss ass. dont go and try to "make her feel better" if she hasnt earned that compliment. dont push it. they know that, and on top of it thats fake. dont be fake at all. reward the good, and discipline the bad. keep a healthy sense of a working relationship between you two and harbor an understanding.

but be warned no matter who she is, women will need to feel a brand of attention/investment. she needs to feel like shes a part of something. shes not a fish in your aquarium. she is not a pet, and it IS a union that youre asking for. so getting her involved and occupied with it is part of your job as a leader and a man.

instead of throwing salt in the game, you can be real with it, and foster good emotions from the positive things that you two do. be real, something that many men cannot do.

for that to be the case, you need things going on around you and for you. then she can watch and take notes. you need to be at a certain, accomplished status in your own life. where you are already personally happy. this will make her respect you, and you will repect yourself. so standards to keep that up will be applicable - ALL THE TIME. you have to enforce this in order to maintain a balance.

going into the lovey dovey, simp ass kissing is going to get you trapped with a woman who wants to fukk other men and use you as her money source and as her "freind."

going into the put downs, the drama, and the abuse is going to get you an unstable relationship with a drama junkie.


learn to walk the line where you only punish the bad, and reward the good. if your highs equal your successes and your lows are only around to crush her when shes wrong, then you have effectively played the game at a right, and a fair level.

doing that may be difficult, but in the end its worth it. but and YOU and you alone have to find out how to reach that balance with your significant other. just dont go too much onto one side. stay right in the middle. be able to walk both lines without being an abusive pimp, or an abused simp. peace yall.

 

[MikelArteta]

ayo. i found this woman, but she's not attractive.

:future:

why is life so cruel? i actually like her but then I'll be looking at her somedays like "she has acne" or "she need to lose some weight."

she's a great girl. Christian, her mind is in the right place, believes in traditional gender roles, etc. but she's not cute.

what do you guys think about this?​

All I can say is all old people look the same to me.

Character lasts longer than looks


Now im not saying wife shrek.

The woman in my life who treated me the greatest was a average looking broad, but because I was so enamored with looks I gave it up for these hot jezebllian strumpets

Acne can be fixed and weight csn be loss.



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[Doin2Much Williams]

I haven't been able to drop any gems in her3 cuz my mind/judgement is clouded by being somebody on the inside looking out.


But thanks to all the other studs for carrying the human torch and keeping it lit like a spliff head.


Kudos.


Actually, the last few pages have been type powerful in piffalious - actually even aided me in my own gig with the lady friend.


You guys want to hear a secret? She's been flawless to me so far but i'm starting to have a wanderlusting eye.


This ain't good. I'm gonna be a 55 year old cat man wondering where errbody went if i don't stop this mentality soon!!!


Doomed like MF, brehs.


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[Scustin Trillberlake]

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