Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Sonny Bonds]

Wait...

She thought a good date would be volunteering together for some political race

That’s what I’m saying! I had the Dylon from Chapelle Show look of confusion on my face as she said it. One of the messages in the app was about which voters are to be targeted.

And then in the next one said, “FOR THE RECORD: I didn't match with you because of the special election in Georgia! I just double checked and your profile only mentions that you grew up in Canada. (That was actually something I thought we'd sort of have in common.) I'm not a political operative trolling dating sites for people in Georgia.”

Because I didn’t mention in my profile that I lived in Georgia before moving to NYC.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

And she smokes. Who the hell smokes cigarettes?

 

[DaRealness]

Told this chick a while back that I wasn’t ready for a relationship with her, she got mad and said I was wasting her time and that I should leave her alone. I was cool with that, but now she’s sending me text messages and calling trying to “check on me”

The mere fact you told her you weren't ready for a relationship isn't wasting her time at all.

 

[DaRealness]

I get why some of you OGs don't mess with younger women. I just hope you know your reasoning could be applied to women your age as well.
There's just some shyt you don't understand until you're in a different position.
I recently got a job that is a position I'm lucky to be in, and at the same time, the job is demanding as fukk.
Every day I feel like I went through war but when I get home I feel a high of self-fulfillment. I put in an honest day of work.

Spend half the day working then go home and take care of other responsibilities. Now if you're like me, then you also have to dedicate an hour to working out and after spending the rest of the night watching some hoops or a movie before you randomly pass out and do it all over again. You will come to a point where you're not gonna waste your time or energy around bullshyt. Women love bullshyt and especially wasting a guy's time.

We jump through hoops of fire and fight lions just to smash chicks. We make them feel special for what they have. But every female on this planet has the same thing you want from the girl that you're talking to. How are some of these women special then?

Can't keep a convo, don't know shyt, no personality. Like if these girls were dudes you wouldn't be friends with them. The question then is this. Why am I going to spend my limited time on bullshyt when I have to spend 10 hours in an office the next day?

I get why brehs stay away from the young 20-year-olds. They're the most entitled and display it on full effect while pretending not to know better. And of course, dudes let it slide. But for some of you older guys you'll easily avoid that because you got work, kids, and other hobbies you been wanting to try. You don't have the time or energy to go through some chick's checklist when she hasn't earned the right to have one.

But all women do this. They just get better with time as they learn how to be smooth about their intentions.

I know this forum tries to shame dudes out of dating younger women all the time, but in my experience age doesn't affect the maturity levels. I've dealt with chicks in their mid 20s who were grounded and also dealt with females my age and up who were just annoying dumb asses who act like they're still in school.

After a while with experience, you know how they are generally and can see their bullshyt from a mile away. I can usually sense when they're on some b.s. from the jump and my gut feelings save me every time. I haven't dealt many broads this year cos of the whole COVID shyt, plus I been reading and studying and getting my mind right as it's been the weirdest and hardest year I've experienced mentally and emotionally. But on the flipside it's forced me to get my own act together and root out the things that are unacceptable.

I'm not jumping through circus hoops for any woman. Like @VertigoKnight said, if a broad is interested nothing will keep her away. Plus I remember some dude on youtube making a funny but interesting point when he said fukk Onlyfans, chicks should be subscribing to YOU lol. If anything this fukked up year has taught me is to invest in myself 100% because you don't know what can happen. I have even less tolerance for female bullshyt after everything the world has experienced.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

I know this forum tries to shame dudes out of dating younger women all the time, but in my experience age doesn't affect the maturity levels. I've dealt with chicks in their mid 20s who were grounded and also dealt with females my age and up who were just annoying dumb asses who act like they're still in school.

After a while with experience, you know how they are generally and can see their bullshyt from a mile away. I can usually sense when they're on some b.s. from the jump and my gut feelings save me every time. I haven't dealt many broads this year cos of the whole COVID shyt, plus I been reading and studying and getting my mind right as it's been the weirdest and hardest year I've experienced mentally and emotionally. But on the flipside it's forced me to get my own act together and root out the things that are unacceptable.

I'm not jumping through circus hoops for any woman. Like @VertigoKnight said, if a broad is interested nothing will keep her away. Plus I remember some dude on youtube making a funny but interesting point when he said fukk Onlyfans, chicks should be subscribing to YOU lol. If anything this fukked up year has taught me is to invest in myself 100% because you don't know what can happen. I have even less tolerance for female bullshyt after everything the world has experienced.

I have hung out with women late into their 30s and 40s-- way above my age. The ones I'm friends with be having a high list of demands for men to get with them. He has to be this color, needs to be this certain height, also needs to be no more than a certain weight. His career better be nice. He has to be funny and everyone has to like him. And at the same time, he has to be rough and have a little hood in him. He could be a guy like myself in my 20s but he has to have the maturity of a grown man.

I always hear this shyt and think You're a chick past your prime doing odd jobs with no actual career while having 3-4 kids that you leave at the crib on weekends to go out. Be bringing up all those demands just to hook up with dudes that stay in trouble. That age idea the Coli tries to put out is bullshyt.


And another point. Women have all these demands just for us to hit. And we actually follow suit . We're out here losing.
Any dude with no kids, a decent job, good health, and most important all, youth, shouldn't be taking demands from chicks.
Out here having extra baggage, drama, multiple kids, demands while making a fool of themselves on social media.
Don't even be likable. Dudes don't even realize they don't like these chicks. Be caught up by a pretty face, fat ass, or knockers.
And then go through all that shyt to not even hit so now they're pissed. And if they do hit they realize all that work wasn't worth it and now they're having buyers remorse .

the bag is given to the guys and we willingly give the power over.

 

[MikelArteta]

So many women out there why cry if one doesn't work out

 

[Max.]

Bored but any broad that says

No hookups = been ran thru



Man i used to see that shyt on like 80% of dating profiles..id ask em whats that about?

"Ive been hurt...guys just want one thing"

Me: ow no baby im different

 

[CW_1991]

A big pet peeve of mine is females who don't care about their appearance.

Like, they know they're lacking but they don't care enough to do anything about it or just try to pretend like they're good enough.

Straight laziness

They think their personality, weaves, eyelashes, etc will balanced out fat necks, double chins, and just overall bad body shapes.

 

[jay83]

A big pet peeve of mine is females who don't care about their appearance.

Like, they know they're lacking but they don't care enough to do anything about it or just try to pretend like they're good enough.

Straight laziness

They think their personality, weaves, eyelashes, etc well balanced out fat necks, double chins, and just overall bad body shapes.

Also women that brag about having resting bytch face all the time.

 

[Brandsdale]

Toronto is bedwench capital
I've actually opened up my preference on hinge to South Asian As well.

Toronto women are just beta New York chicks imo and lot of em can be stuck up for god know what reason

Lot of em are stuck in the idea that they can find a “better” dude in the states or in another province

 

[MikelArteta]

Toronto women are just beta New York chicks imo and lot of em can be stuck up for god know what reason

Lot of em are stuck in the idea that they can find a “better” dude in the states or in another province

yup
especially black toronto women just saying
ive washed my hands

 

[Max.]

A big pet peeve of mine is females who don't care about their appearance.

Like, they know they're lacking but they don't care enough to do anything about it or just try to pretend like they're good enough.

Straight laziness

They think their personality, weaves, eyelashes, etc well balanced out fat necks, double chins, and just overall bad body shapes.

Had this chick...her hair went to her shoulders but she was lazy to comb her hair (her words) so she got this tired ass weave braids every few week



Same chick was hoping i catch covid bcuz i cut her off

 

[CW_1991]

Had this chick...her hair went to her shoulders but she was lazy to comb her hair (her words) so she got this tired ass weave braids every few week



Same chick was hoping i catch covid bcuz i cut her off

If she's bitter enough to wish things like that on you because you decided to move on, you dodged a bullet. She wasn't worth it.

Sounds very immature.

 

[Rich Spirit]

Invited this chick over last night and this bytch got mad that I didn't walk her to her car when she left

 

[360dagod]

Had this chick...her hair went to her shoulders but she was lazy to comb her hair (her words) so she got this tired ass weave braids every few week



Same chick was hoping i catch covid bcuz i cut her off