Nah this is a terrible response to that post. It’s a huge cop out that will lead this poor guy down a path laced with misery.
@leoc I hate to be the one to break this to u but there’s something missing in your relationship. It’s true affection.
There are a few possibilities that will apply to your case:
- Your girl does not love u. And is just using u to either pay for her share of meals when y’all go out with others, or to not look alone and pitiful on occasions like the one she dragged you into.
- She is oblivious to common sense things.
- She lacks compassion.
I’ve been in relationships where I knew without the shadow of a doubt the girl I was with was head over heels enthralled by me. Spellbound. Bewitched even. I’ve also been in relationships where I’ve experience situations similar to the one you just described. And yup, things ended badly in those relationships.
you go out in public and u see other couples all up on each other or not being apart from each other for any noticeable length of time. Then u have ur girl who’d rather spend her time chatting up the room. Don’t be that pathetic guy. Yes, u did look pathetic and I wasn’t there.
sadly, the game u need to break down this chick is not one u have right now.