Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Serious said:
Yep I’m pretty busy. Can’t “talk” to more than 3.
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Thats the sweet spot honestly. 2-3. If 1 drops you still got another while you rebuild lol. Regardless not really good to deal with large numbers of people frequently as it takes you away from being productive due to the energy human relationships can require (across gender that is)
 
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O.iatlhawksfan said:
Y’all ever notice women test out what they can get away with? Like they’ll be a relationship with you but will be all on camera twerking or wearing slutty clothes and be dumbfounded when you confront them about it
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It's a human thing, we men do the same as well. Regarding how much we're willing to spend or do (time) for sex. Moral of the story people will take advantage of you, if you let them.
 
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Guvnor said:
Alright brehs I got two scenarios I need advice on..

1.So me and this chick met on a dating app. We were talking and before I even met her she was sending me naked pics and stuff like that without me even asking or speaking to her sexually like that or even a phone call really. To me that was a red flag out the gate and a clear sign to never ever wife her but moving past that we met up and on the first date we went out for food then to a bar and I smashed it at a hotel. Second meeting she rented out a bnb and I smashed it again, I forgot my lunch there and she brought it to me. Third meeting we just chilled but during our conversation she told me when she was in college playing rugby she used to make out with girls whole drunk and she even has a close female friend she has sex with from time to time but when in a relationship with a man that stops. She was honest and told me this. When I brought up a threesome she denied it at first and was hesitant claiming she was self fish but said she would consider it for my birthday.

Is the women into women thing a red flag for y’all? When it is not?

Either way I’m thinking about keeping this one around for awhile cause she super nasty but doubt I’ll ever get serious with her. Just don’t think it’ll be wise lol.

2.This chick I’m talking too, the one I spoke about before who saw me as different is now being distant and I think she is going through some things emotionally. Her game from what I can figure is she wants me to blow past her telling me she isn’t in a talking mood so that I would call her and make sure she is alright, basically she wants more of my attention and I found this out by her own admission during a phone call. We usually see each other once a week but this month she has meetings she has to attend for this group she is in so we only saw each other once so far for the month. So Yesterday she said she had a bad attitude and didn’t wanna speak much via text and today she send a text asking if we have beef.

How would I respond? It’s been a few hours.
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:wow:

Dirty bytches like this are my kryptonite :wow:

Never wife or get remotely serious at all but always keep on the side for an easy smash and you're good.
 
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I just realized my divorced middle aged mother has way more game than I do :skip:


I'm in my 30s and single, my mom is ready for me to get married, etc. Sometimes I'm told I'm cute (and people assume I get women easily) but I was a nerd in high school and never really was confident enough to get women like that. Anyway, we were picking up some food from somewhere, I'm paying for the food, there's this cute cashier chick and my mom randomly blurts out something like "My son is looking for a wifey". I was kinda embarrassed and tried to play it off :skip: but surprisingly she slid me her number before we left.



If only I'd had the confidence of a middle-aged women throughout my life :wow: makes me wonder how many opportunities I missed out on. It's kind of depressing actually.
 
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Lumumba said:
We were all young lol but it seems cats are getting more immature by the generation, maybe due to access to technology. No diss to him
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Maybe it’s more visible. I did a lot of dumb shyt well into my 30s so I can’t throw rocks, not saying you are.

I only post in here to give brehs a perspective and an older head’s view when it fits the situation.
 
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Brehs. Been checking the thread for a few weeks now and i gotta go against the grain a little. It's not about being cold or mean to them. It's not about tricking them into doing stuff. And it's not about being angry with them either.

It's about setting healthy boundaries for yourself and fiercely enforcing them when they get violated. But not out of anger. This should be done out of love. There seems to be a lot of anger and resentment which i completely get, dont get me wrong. But anger is not the answer, love is (and i don't mean this in a corny way either). Whether she's a girl you just met and trying to pick up or your wife of 50 years, you should act out of measured and appropriate kind of love depending on the situation. Even when you check a girl or when you just bush her, your mindset shouldn't be "im punishing her". It should be instead "in not being treated like i want to be treated therefore in walking away so we can both find whatever we are looking for" and if she comes back you treat her in a way where she has to understand that the only way for her to be with you is to treat you right.

If you constantly have the mentality of "me vs. her" you will constantly attract women with the same mentality and will never find a girl that just wants to make your life easier. And trust, I had to learn that shyt the hard way so I'm not better. But please guys at least consider what I'm saying so you can maybe bypass a lot of the bs that comes with always being adversarial when it comes to women...
 
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It's to a point where every single time I get "girl problems" now i can always trace it back to something i said or did wrong. I can't even blame the girl anymore.
 
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Turbulent said:
Brehs. Been checking the thread for a few weeks now and i gotta go against the grain a little. It's not about being cold or mean to them. It's not about tricking them into doing stuff. And it's not about being angry with them either.

It's about setting healthy boundaries for yourself and fiercely enforcing them when they get violated. But not out of anger. This should be done out of love. There seems to be a lot of anger and resentment which i completely get, dont get me wrong. But anger is not the answer, love is (and i don't mean this in a corny way either). Whether she's a girl you just met and trying to pick up or your wife of 50 years, you should act out of measured and appropriate kind of love depending on the situation. Even when you check a girl or when you just bush her, your mindset shouldn't be "im punishing her". It should be instead "in not being treated like i want to be treated therefore in walking away so we can both find whatever we are looking for" and if she comes back you treat her in a way where she has to understand that the only way for her to be with you is to treat you right.

If you constantly have the mentality of "me vs. her" you will constantly attract women with the same mentality and will never find a girl that just wants to make your life easier. And trust, I had to learn that shyt the hard way so I'm not better. But please guys at least consider what I'm saying so you can maybe bypass a lot of the bs that comes with always being adversarial when it comes to women...
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Well said. The me vs them mentality isn’t healthy but also good luck turning that off when you meet a decent chick with potential or decide you want too. Granted if you are just trying to play the field forever then that’s another thing but that doesn’t seem to be where brehs are coming from in here.
 
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