Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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They using old pics too breh lol

:mjlol: Yeah I know the difference is I don't look any different from my old pics, I pretty much look the same as I did a decade ago :lolbron:

Only difference this year is I been taking the working out seriously since Feb, So I will want to show the progress in pics:youngsabo:
 

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I’ve randomly noticed how mainly young women from like 18 to 25 use that “let’s be friends” line and friend zone guys after leading them on for attention

it’s just funny for me because for the most part women who are older despite all their faults and also being just as bad don’t use that “as friends” line as often. Some of these younger girls gotta grow up ...whether they looking for free attention or are that gullible to not know that as adults we know what a man is looking for

prob the most annoying type of women imo. Just say u ain’t interested. The friends line is the most insulting response ever
 

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I’ve randomly noticed how mainly young women from like 18 to 25 use that “let’s be friends” line and friend zone guys after leading them on for attention

it’s just funny for me because for the most part women who are older despite all their faults and also being just as bad don’t use that “as friends” line as often. Some of these younger girls gotta grow up ...whether they looking for free attention or are that gullible to not know that as adults we know what a man is looking for

prob the most annoying type of women imo. Just say u ain’t interested. The friends line is the most insulting response ever

I've never had the lets just be friends done to me lol.
 

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I’ve randomly noticed how mainly young women from like 18 to 25 use that “let’s be friends” line and friend zone guys after leading them on for attention

it’s just funny for me because for the most part women who are older despite all their faults and also being just as bad don’t use that “as friends” line as often. Some of these younger girls gotta grow up ...whether they looking for free attention or are that gullible to not know that as adults we know what a man is looking for

prob the most annoying type of women imo. Just say u ain’t interested. The friends line is the most insulting response ever
Means you need to level up :francis: good thing is, once you do, you will be the one saying that line when you done with her.
 

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At work this old white woman maybe like 45 at the youngest was hitting on me. All the other guys asked me why I didn’t get the #. Because with that Clint Eastwood crows feet I’d have nightmares for years about that p*ssy, had I had partook in sexual relations with her
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You mean shyt like her making prolonged eye contact/smiling? That still counts as cold approaching to me :yeshrug:
Cold approaching to me is going outside just for the sole purpose of chasing ass. Hanging outside the mall or some shyt looking thirsty and hungry talm bout "yo ma, hey shawty, etc" to every chick that walks past like you don't get no p*ssy. Thats what I hear when I hear cold approach. If i'm at a venue minding my business and I happen to lock eyes with a cutie then thats a different story.
 

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I've never had the lets just be friends done to me lol.

I have so I gave them what they wanted a friend they ended up fukking :russ:

hit me with that I act like u don’t exist but when I do that u wanna why haven’t u been talking to me
Simple cuz u wanna be friends so I treated u like one :dead:

next u know I smash and they wanna have a relationship I’m like :camby:
 

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Yep. never thought I would meet my wife on the same app I ran through harems of woman in. She is a big booty slim Pawg who is a god fearing, Pediatric Nurse professor with her Master's degree and who owns her house. I wake up everyday thinking how I can be so lucky sometimes.

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I’ve randomly noticed how mainly young women from like 18 to 25 use that “let’s be friends” line and friend zone guys after leading them on for attention

it’s just funny for me because for the most part women who are older despite all their faults and also being just as bad don’t use that “as friends” line as often. Some of these younger girls gotta grow up ...whether they looking for free attention or are that gullible to not know that as adults we know what a man is looking for

prob the most annoying type of women imo. Just say u ain’t interested. The friends line is the most insulting response ever
Generally, older women know better. They will still friend zone you but smoothly and implicitly.
 

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Means you need to level up :francis: good thing is, once you do, you will be the one saying that line when you done with her.


I have so I gave them what they wanted a friend they ended up fukking :russ:

hit me with that I act like u don’t exist but when I do that u wanna why haven’t u been talking to me
Simple cuz u wanna be friends so I treated u like one :dead:

next u know I smash and they wanna have a relationship I’m like :camby:

Man this a coworker for months she been giving me signs always around me once even got me food randomly when I was in another part of the workplace and came and gave me. Always ending up around me giving me so much choosing signals. Got her number a few weeks ago and she does this lol. Got all professional out of nowhere talking bout she don’t mix work with things like that when she was the one always giving signals lmao

The young girls are so strange. She does have the wandering eyes thing going though so I feel like she def thirsts for attention

anyway Man U already know female nature I’m expecting her to be doing just what y’all described and switch up when I talk to her less and get a promotion and just level up in general lol
 

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They using old pics too breh lol
I realized I dodged a bullet when I saw some updated pics of a chick I was talking to during the height of corona. She went from look like a perfect nice slim thick to ms piggy. I was like damn I don’t even feel bad about her ghosting any more. Knowing me I probably said something about overweight women.


Lowkey if I got her in shape she’d be a solid 8/9 plus she was mad submissive with a good job + family.
 

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I mean... if you talk to enough women over the entirety of your existence, you will come across women who hit you with some form of "let's just be friends".. which could mean she either lost interest for whatever reason, found another dude (and moved you to the bench), or was never interested to begin with but doesn't want to be direct.

Either way, it's rejection... which doesn't matter. Whether she says "i'm not interested", "this isn't the right time", "let's just be friends"... just realize that you know you've matured when you no longer linger or micro-analyze such nonsense.

Oh, you ain't tryna fukk? Cool. *KIM*
 

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Man this a coworker for months she been giving me signs always around me once even got me food randomly when I was in another part of the workplace and came and gave me. Always ending up around me giving me so much choosing signals. Got her number a few weeks ago and she does this lol. Got all professional out of nowhere talking bout she don’t mix work with things like that when she was the one always giving signals lmao

The young girls are so strange. She does have the wandering eyes thing going though so I feel like she def thirsts for attention

anyway Man U already know female nature I’m expecting her to be doing just what y’all described and switch up when I talk to her less and get a promotion and just level up in general lol

Just me personally, but i always avoid fukking with any female coworkers.

Understand that unless yall end up getting married, 99% of these interactions with women are short term. Finite. It could be 2 days or it could be 2 months or 2 years.. but your roster/rotation is going to change, evolve, and dissolve. Which is just fine if your dating environment isn't an enclosed habitat where you have to still see the muthafukka every day even when things inevitably run their course.

And of course, you could do everything right and follow every shiny gem in this thread about approach, self-improvement, confidence, etc.. and some women will simply wake up one day and still choose violence. lol. So i make sure not to "shyt where i eat", as the popular phrase goes.
 
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