Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MaccabeanRebel]

@kevm3 breh.. Seems like allot of the advice giving to these going brothers is geared to the modern black male courting a black female


NEWSFLASH

fellas.. Go white lol.. Most white women are submissive and obedient to their men. That doesn't excuse general female tendencies (hoeish behavior) but they are some of the most loyal women to brothers

Adapt with the times

I wouldn't go that far..women are women no matter what the shade.

You keep going with that mindset that white women are easier and it won't end well. Never underestimate them..white women are probably more calculating and manipulative IMO.

 

[10:31]

I wouldn't go that far..women are women no matter what the shade.

You keep going with that mindset that white women are easier and it won't end well. Never underestimate them..white women are probably more calculating and manipulative IMO.

I did drop a disclaimer breh..

By no means are they the exception to the rule but generally speaking if you don't want to deal with all the games and baggage from a black joint go white

Your issues will go from paying for everything and materialistic women to feeling awkward in public and her family not accepting you

 

[Malta]

@kevm3 breh.. Seems like allot of the advice giving to these going brothers is geared to the modern black male courting a black female


NEWSFLASH

fellas.. Go white lol.. Most white women are submissive and obedient to their men. That doesn't excuse general female tendencies (hoeish behavior) but they are some of the most loyal women to brothers

Adapt with the times

Black male + White female has the highest divorce rate in the country, if you're thinking about marrying a female then may as well not even bother with white ones.

 

[T-K-G]

I wouldn't go that far..women are women no matter what the shade.

You keep going with that mindset that white women are easier and it won't end well. Never underestimate them..white women are probably more calculating and manipulative IMO.

exactly




and damn if this nikka was gonna go the submissive angle he could've atleast said non-american asians or some shyt




this nikka said white like they dont pull the same crazy shyt black bytches do here

 

[10:31]

Black male + White female has the highest divorce rate in the country, if you're thinking about marrying a female then may as well not even bother with white ones.

Huh? I didn't say marry one

Slow down g.. I said get one as in date.. Deal with.. fukk

 

[kevm3]

One of the biggest things you do that will determine the impression you leave on that woman is the subject of your conversations, and more importantly, your presentation of your conversations. When you start getting into that lame 'what do you do for fun' style of conversation, you can best believe that you are going to get dismissed sooner or later. Small talk is critical to dealing with women, and keeping conversations somewhat light-hearted helps out a lot. A huge mistake you can make with women is talking to them like they are your homeboys-- aka just having general conversations about anything. The more you talk to a woman about anything and are always letting her know what's on your mind, the more common you start becoming. You don't want to be that guy that is just talking just to talk. There's a certain way you have to approach conversations when dealing with women... best way is more along the lines of she can tell you're 'comedic', but that you're also a guy that doesn't play around. It's a tight rope you have to walk. You want to be able to make her laugh, but you don't want to come off as Jokey Joke the clown. On the other hand, getting too deep and all philosophical into the discussions or talking to her with that generic 'what do you like to do' script will get you put into the lame category real quick. Striking the right balance in your conversation is key.

 

[kevm3]

In regards to the whole white women-black men thing, a lot of black men got that pass because of how the 'real brothas' laid it down in the past. In the 80s to the 90s we had that thug/gangsta image blasted on television and that coupled with the mandingo storyline, you just had white women curious about brothas. In fact, it goes back much further than that... even back to the slave days. White women will treat a black man better up front because he has the exotic appeal in her mind... but if she discovers that he is soft, she will begin the same antics as a black woman will. She just will give him a longer leash and will appear to be more submissive at first... but if you start shooting off weak vibes, she will do what any woman would and start acting up. When it comes down to it, women are women no matter the color, and if you aren't stepping up and taking control like a man should, more than likely, you will be met with the same reaction.

 

[Rich Spirit]

One of the biggest things you do that will determine the impression you leave on that woman is the subject of your conversations, and more importantly, your presentation of your conversations. When you start getting into that lame 'what do you do for fun' style of conversation, you can best believe that you are going to get dismissed sooner or later. Small talk is critical to dealing with women, and keeping conversations somewhat light-hearted helps out a lot. A huge mistake you can make with women is talking to them like they are your homeboys-- aka just having general conversations about anything. The more you talk to a woman about anything and are always letting her know what's on your mind, the more common you start becoming. You don't want to be that guy that is just talking just to talk. There's a certain way you have to approach conversations when dealing with women... best way is more along the lines of she can tell you're 'comedic', but that you're also a guy that doesn't play around. It's a tight rope you have to walk. You want to be able to make her laugh, but you don't want to come off as Jokey Joke the clown. On the other hand, getting too deep and all philosophical into the discussions or talking to her with that generic 'what do you like to do' script will get you put into the lame category real quick. Striking the right balance in your conversation is key.

So when conversing with women, what should you talk about since you said that whole "what do you like to do" and "what you like to do for fun" shyt is wack?

 

[Jahmal]

Seriously breh... I first came in this thread to IMPROVE my interaction with certain kinds of females but some of these negros acting like they want women exterminated or some shyt...

if you want to IMPROVE you interactions with women then sending random texts is not the way to go. You follow some of these n1ggaz advice and you automatically place yourself in the text buddy friendzone.

 

[George Gooney]

if you want to IMPROVE you interactions with women then sending random texts is not the way to go. You follow some of these n1ggaz advice and you automatically place yourself in the text buddy friendzone.

I'm wifed up already breh... Got me a cool girl and a suspended roster... I'm just saying I saw what homie meant and agreed in theory... nikkas don't need to attack homeboy so vulgarly just because he doesn't mind befriending a female or two. But iI'm curious and I would like for you to explain and list the reasons you're so sure it won't work tho if you don't mind...

 

[Jesus]

I've been thinking about my past experiences with women...most of my successes have been b/c I was persistent as fukk. I'm not successful with the laidback approach.

I've noticed the shy and introverted nikkas get approached by women more, the more outgoing women assume you are they assume you'll hunt them.

And yeah I have been naive once and thought I could change a woman and her ways...I slowly but surely failed. The girl was bisexual...eventually left me for one of her dike ass friends. That re-assured me to never take seriously bi, tattooed or alcoholic women.

Looking back at all the failures I've had...I knew exactly when I couldn't take the woman serious by listening to a keyword they said or action they did. My inner gut warned me, but my dikk ignored it.

The only woman I have ever truly thought I could be my wife...I fukked up and tried to talk to her friend. Tried to reconnect, but it wasn't meant to be. Wish I could go back and tell my 17 year old self the truth...

My best friend wants me to spy on his younger sister the next time she goes out...nikka is afraid she is a hoe...I think she is...she tried to throw me the puss...he didn't even know...

 

[George Gooney]

I've been thinking about my past experiences with women...most of my successes have been b/c I was persistent as fukk. I'm not successful with the laidback approach.

I've noticed the shy and introverted nikkas get approached by women more, the more outgoing women assume you are they assume you'll hunt them.

And yeah I have been naive once and thought I could change a woman and her ways...I slowly but surely failed. The girl was bisexual...eventually left me for one of her dike ass friends. That re-assured me to never take seriously bi, tattooed or alcoholic women.

Looking back at all the failures I've had...I knew exactly when I couldn't take the woman serious by listening to a keyword they said or action they did. My inner gut warned me, but my dikk ignored it.

The only woman I have ever truly thought I could be my wife...I fukked up and tried to talk to her friend. Tried to reconnect, but it wasn't meant to be. Wish I could go back and tell my 17 year old self the truth...

My best friend wants me to spy on his younger sister the next time she goes out...nikka is afraid she is a hoe...I think she is...she tried to throw me the puss...he didn't even know...

That sounded like epic rap lyrics

 

[kevm3]

So when conversing with women, what should you talk about since you said that whole "what do you like to do" and "what you like to do for fun" shyt is wack?

There's not any 'specific' topic you should talk about, but it's more about how you come across. When you meet up with a woman and you ask her 'what do you like to do for fun,' and she lists off activities and you respond oh yeah, that's cool, me too... you start going into buddy territory. You have to have more finesse than that. That's something the typical dude will say and it will have her placing you into the average joe category.

Sit back, joke with her, roast her a little if you see she can take it, and basically, you just have to utilize small talk. You can ask her about herself, but you do it along the course of the conversation, and after she has warmed up to you. Never just meet up with a woman and one of the first things you say is, "So what do you do for fun?"

You converse with her, get her laughing and smiling and when she is just comfortable with you, you start to talk about whatever and then you transition into questions about her. You want to get her to react and say something like, "You are so crazy" with a smile on her face. That's how you know she is digging you. If she looks fairly bored and responds, "Oh, that's nice" or "that's cool", then you are going in the wrong direction with the conversation.

Once she has been laughing and comfortable and all that, then you can hit the subject, like, "So how do you keep yourself entertained out here?"

 

[Jahmal]

I'm wifed up already breh... Got me a cool girl and a suspended roster... I'm just saying I saw what homie meant and agreed in theory... nikkas don't need to attack homeboy so vulgarly just because he doesn't mind befriending a female or two

You agree In Theory?


He isnt really befriending her because he want to smash her. What he is doing is putting himself in the friendzone and sending text messages every few days hoping that he will stand out from the other guys because he isnt trying to actively hook up with her but she will just quickly throw him in the "text buddy aka big brother aka Lame Lance that loiters around her for weeks/months with no chance to hookup". That sh1t may work in small towns with nothing else going on but in cities that beating around the bush sh1t doesn't work. These pretty women get hollered at so much that if you dont put your bid in fast then she throws your number in the bushes. Peace.

 

[kevm3]

Ain't nothing wrong with having 'female friends' as long as you realize they will never be like your male road dogs. You got to come in with the realization that as soon as they get a man, most likely they will disappear.

How you befriend the woman is what matters. If it was someone you tried to get at, but she wasn't feeling you and you are hanging around as her 'friend', that's one thing... but if it's just a cool female that you happened to talk to one day, and you might not be all that attracted to her, but you just like her conversation, that's another.

In fact, one of the things about having female friends is that you just get a lot more comfortable talking to females in general since you are always having conversations with one, so you aren't going through that 'dry spell' in your conversation when you don't have any interested ladies you're getting at.

Just make sure that you don't allow her to turn you into a 'favor buddy' or a 'complaint buddy'.